Month: October 2025

  • How to Use AI to Plan Outdoor Adventures with Kids (Stress-Free Travel Tips for Moms)

    Planning family outdoor adventures can feel overwhelming. Between picking the right destination, figuring out what to pack, and keeping kids entertained, moms often carry the bulk of the mental load. In this guide, Brittany Brown, an outdoor-loving Montana mom of four, shares how she uses AI tools like ChatGPT to simplify the process of planning outdoor adventures. From finding hidden gems to creating personalized packing lists, she shows how AI can save parents time and stress, so you can spend less time planning and more time outside making memories with your kids.

    Using Artificial Intelligence

    Artificial Intelligence (AI) might sound intimidating, but at its core, it’s simply technology designed to help answer questions and solve problems quickly. Think of it as a super-smart assistant you can chat with in plain language.

    Instead of spending hours searching Google, flipping through guidebooks, or scrolling endless blog posts, you can ask AI to create a custom packing list, suggest hiking trails for kids, or even plan an entire day’s itinerary. Tools like ChatGPT or Claude respond to normal conversation (not tech jargon), which means you can ask them for help just like you’d ask a friend.

    AI adapts to your family’s unique needs, whether that means toddler-friendly trails, gluten-free camp meals, or rainy-day backup plans, so you can spend less time stressing over logistics and more time enjoying the outdoors together.

    AI for outdoor moms: the ultimate guide to planning family adventures 

    The photo above (undoubtedly my family’s best Christmas card picture ever) definitely took some planning to orchestrate. But I didn’t have to lift a finger.   

    That’s because AI gave me a precise run-of-show and planned the whole adventure for me.  

    My prompt?

    “My family of six (two adults and four kids) is staying in Gardiner, MT. Plan a day trip for us to Yellowstone National Park. Make sure we arrive at the Grand Canyon of the Yellowstone at magic hour so I can get my Christmas card photo (it’s October). Also include stops at Mammoth Hot Springs, Porcelain Basin Trail, and Dragon’s Mouth Spring. Give us recommendations on what to do in each stop/location, can’t miss stops, kid-friendly hiking trails, and any other information that would be helpful for a mom planning a trip with kids.”

    The itinerary AI returned was nothing short of epic.

    Better answers than Google

    All the questions I would have spent hours Googling? Answered. With one simple prompt, I had a complete itinerary that told us exactly what to do:

    • What time should we leave Gardiner? 
    • How long should we spend in each location?
    • How long is each car ride?
    • Where should we take potty breaks?
    • Are there park restaurants open in October?

    Every detail was spot on. We saw exploding geysers, bubbling mud pots, and countless geothermal wonders. And just as I hoped, we pulled into the parking lot at the Grand Canyon of the Yellowstone right as the afternoon light softened, perfect timing for our Christmas card photo.

    That was when I realized: AI just became my new best friend for planning outdoor adventures.

    Why AI is a game-changer for outdoor moms

    Using technology/screens to spend more time outside (and off screens) might sound counterintuitive. But, the truth is that getting kids outside (especially little kids) takes work.  Planning meals, finding bathrooms, tracking weather, deciding what gear to bring… it all adds up. And as every mom knows, the list of “things to figure out” never (ever) ends.

    That’s where AI comes in. It’s not about replacing your intuition or taking away the magic of discovery; it’s about lightening the mental load so you can spend less time planning and more time actually outside with your kids. Think of it as your personal assistant who never gets tired of your “just one more question” phase.

    And don’t stress about writing perfect, complicated prompts. The best way to use AI is to talk to it like you’d talk to a helpful friend. Tell it what you need, and let it do the heavy lifting.

    Examples of AI prompts for adventure planning

    For example, here are a few tasks I happily outsourced to AI before our Yellowstone trip:

    • My kids want to be Junior Rangers, so include information about where they can complete those activities in our itinerary.
    • Suggest 10 nature-themed audiobooks (at least an hour long) for 3-8 year-olds to listen to on the road trip.
    • Give me some intel on kid-friendly dinner spots in Gardiner that are open in the off-season (October).
    • Give me the best times and kid-friendly locations to spot bison, elk, and maybe bears safely in Yellowstone. Include pullouts or trails where parking is easy.
    • Suggest picnic areas in Yellowstone near our planned stops that have shaded tables, nearby bathrooms, and short walking paths for little legs.

    Each of these would have taken me a few hours of late-night Googling, only to second-guess if I found the right answer or if it was up-to-date. But with AI, I had tailored answers in seconds.

    The bottom line: AI doesn’t replace your sense of adventure. It gives you the headspace to enjoy it. When you let technology help handle the logistics, you free yourself up to be present for the actual adventure: hiking with your kids, roasting marshmallows, or catching that perfect sunset.

    How to use AI to plan outdoor adventures

    At its core, planning family adventures comes down to answering three big questions:

    1. Where should we go?
    2. What do we need to bring?
    3. How can I make it more fun for the kids?

    AI can help you tackle each of these in minutes, turning the hours of Googling, note-taking, and second-guessing into simple, actionable plans that fit your family’s needs, interests, and schedule.

    Instead of scrolling through ten different blogs or trying to piece together tips from random Facebook groups, you can ask AI to create a tailor-made adventure plan that accounts for your kids’ ages, attention spans, interests, abilities, and even their snack preferences.

    Want a list of toddler-friendly hikes within an hour of your house? AI can do that. Need a gluten-free camping meal plan with recipes and a shopping list? Done. Looking for ways to keep siblings entertained on a long car ride? AI can turn your ideas into games, playlists, or scavenger hunts.

    Adaptability, customization, and examples

    The beauty of using AI is that it adapts to your family. Whether you’re planning a quick backyard nature scavenger hunt, a half-day trip to a local state park, or a week-long trek through the Alps, AI can lighten your mental load and free up brain space for what really matters: enjoying the adventure once you get there.

    In the rest of this guide, I’ll break down how I personally use AI to make outdoor planning simpler, less stressful, and more fun. We’ll walk through real-life examples and ready-to-use prompts you can copy, paste, and tweak for your own family.

    Because at the end of the day, the goal isn’t to spend more time on a screen. The goal is to spend less time planning and more time outside making memories.

    Using AI to help Choose where to go

    I like the pool. But faced with a week of pool days on a family trip to Arizona, my mind started to wander. 

    “I bet the locals know of some great spots for a beach day on the Salt River.”

    I was picturing a sandy riverbend with shallow water, slow current, and those classic Arizona mountain views. It’s not the kind of hidden gem you’ll stumble across on TripAdvisor, or even by scrolling through pages of Google results.

    So I turned to AI for some help.

    “Check local parenting forums or Facebook groups for tips from Arizona families about Salt River beach spots within 1 hour of Phoenix. We’re looking for a scenic place to take a group of kids ages 1-8 with slow-moving water, easy parking, and ideally some shade.”

    What I got back was exactly what I had envisioned. AI pointed me to family-friendly access points along the Salt River in the Tonto National Forest, with details on parking, bathroom availability, and which spots had calmer sections of water perfect for little kids.

    That one query turned what could have been just another pool day into the highlight of our trip. Our lazy afternoon on the Salt River—parents in camping chairs, kids splashing in the shallows—was everyone’s favorite memory of the week.

    Things to keep in mind when ssing AI for planning

    AI’s not perfect and you may need to ask additional questions once you have your “answer” from AI. Here are a few things that came up for us as we were planning this outing that we needed to consider.

    • Public vs. private land: Always confirm that your chosen spot is on public land. AI can point you in the right direction, but it’s up to you to double-check maps and signage. For example, the Salt River runs through the Tonto National Forest, which allows public recreation, but there are areas along the river that may be private or require a permit.
    • Seasonal closures & conditions: River access points can vary by season. Water levels change, parking may require a day-use pass, and certain areas are closed during fire season. AI may not always have real-time updates, so check with the U.S. Forest Service or the local ranger station before you go.
    • Parking passes: Most Salt River recreation sites require a Tonto National Forest pass ($8/day or $80 annual), which you can buy online or at gas stations near the recreation areas. AI may remind you of this, but I learned the hard way that it’s best to get your pass in advance.
    • Wildlife awareness: We didn’t see any, but wild horses are often spotted near the Salt River. It’s magical, but make sure to give them space and remind kids not to approach.

    Why AI works for finding hidden gems

    Google and TripAdvisor are great for big-name attractions. But AI can “think” like a local, pulling in insights from parenting forums, family blogs, and visitor chatter you might not otherwise find. It’s like asking a well-traveled friend, “Where do you take your kids on a hot day when you need shade and calm water?”

    And the best part is that once AI gave me some options, I could ask follow-up questions like:

    • Which Salt River beach has bathrooms close to the parking lot?
    • What time of day is best for avoiding crowds with little kids?
    • Are there shaded picnic areas where we can eat lunch?

    That’s the power of AI: less scrolling, more confidence, and more time making memories.

    Beyond basic location searches: AI prompts for nuanced adventure planning

    Now it’s your turn! Below you’ll find sample AI prompts divided into categories to help answer the first big question when planning an outing: “Where should we go?”

    Make these your own, and don’t be afraid to ask for exactly what your crew needs. Remember: AI works best when you guide it. The more specific details you give—like kids’ ages, desired trail length, or even your child’s niche interests—the better your results will be.

    Hiking-related prompts

    • Tailor-made hike suggestions:
      “Find hiking trails within 30 minutes of [your city] under three miles roundtrip with less than 500 feet elevation gain, suitable for kids ages [X] and [Y]. Include trails with interesting features like waterfalls, bridges, rocks to climb on, and wildlife viewing opportunities.”
    • Hikes for mixed abilities:
      “Suggest accessible hiking trails near [location] where grandparents with mobility issues can enjoy nature alongside active kids ages [X] and [Y]. Include trails with benches, shade, bathrooms, and multiple exit points.”

    Multi-day adventures

    • Base camp research:
      “Find the best base location for a four-day outdoor family trip within [three] hours of [your city] with kids ages [X] and [Y]. Include areas with hiking trails for different energy levels, backup indoor attractions for bad weather, and proximity to family-friendly accommodations.”
    • Comparing destinations:
      “Compare [Location A] vs [Location B] vs [Location C] for a family outdoor vacation with kids ages [X] and [Y]. Focus on trail variety, seasonal considerations, crowd levels, pricing, lodging options, and which location offers the most diverse outdoor activities.”

    Kid-specific interests

    • Interest-based itineraries:
      “Plan a day in [location] that satisfies both my dinosaur-obsessed 6-year-old and my train-loving 9-year-old. Find dinosaur sites and historic railways or scenic train rides within driving distance of each other, add a short family hike and lunch stop, and map out the best route with realistic timing.”
    • Seasonal fun:
      “Find fall activities within 2 hours of [your city] for kids ages [X] and [Y]. Include apple orchards, pumpkin patches, easy hikes with fall foliage, and any seasonal festivals or events.”

    Bonus: local-style adventures

    Hidden gems:
    “Find local family-favorite spots near [your city] that aren’t in the guidebooks. Prioritize places where kids can wade, climb, or explore freely. Include parking details, entry fees if any, and best times of day for fewer crowds.”

    Pro Tip: If AI gives you something that doesn’t quite work, don’t give up! Just refine your prompt with extra details (like ages, budget, or accessibility needs). Think of it like having a conversation with a helpful travel-savvy friend who just needs a little direction or extra information.

    Packing with AI: smarter, easier, less stressful

    Bug spray. Bear spray. Motrin. Dramamine. The precise number of pull-ups. The one granola bar your toddler won’t reject. The correct stuffed animal. Rain jackets. Headlamps with fresh batteries. A deck of cards for the tent…

    Packing for an outdoor adventure with kids isn’t just tossing a few things into a bag. It’s a mental marathon. You’re prepping for weather, wildlife, and all the “what-ifs” while simultaneously fielding “Are we leaving yet?” for the fifteenth time.

    Sure, Google can give you a generic packing checklist. But AI? AI can actually build a list around your family — factoring in terrain, trip length, kids’ ages, special quirks, and even food preferences — so you can pack smarter and get on the road faster.

    Here are a few ways to let AI take the stress out of packing.

    Use AI to create personalized packing lists 

    One-size-fits-all checklists don’t cut it when you’ve got a toddler who only eats string cheese and a preschooler who insists on wearing a superhero cape at all times. AI can customize your packing list based on your family’s ages, destination, season, and comfort level—and even link to gear suggestions or rentals that match your needs.

    Prompt idea:

    “Create a packing list for my family’s first backpacking trip. Two adults and two kids under eight in bear country in September for two nights. Include delicious and easily packable kid-friendly high-protein food and a few lightweight games to keep kids entertained at camp.”

    How to use AI for meal planning and grocery lists

    Ever stared at the cooler and wondered what on earth you’re going to feed everyone after day two? AI can turn meal ideas into organized, budget-friendly grocery lists tailored to your favorite stores, dietary needs, and (most importantly) what your kids will actually eat.

    Hot tip: Ever come across a great camping recipe in an IG or TikTok caption? Screenshot it, and ask AI to turn the text into clear, step-by-step text instructions.

    Prompt idea:

    Make a 3-day meal plan for a camping trip with kids, including one who is gluten-free. Prioritize warm breakfasts, one-pot dinners, and no-refrigeration snacks. Recipes should be easy to prep, use shelf-stable ingredients, and work at elevation.”

    Follow-up prompt:

    “Now create a shopping list for this meal plan, with items sourced from Walmart and Costco. Organize by store and category, and include quantities for two adults and four kids.”

    Using AI for gear guidance and real life recommendations

    Whether you’re picking out a -20 degree sleeping bag or a baby hiking carrier, AI can help crowdsource parent-tested recommendations, cutting through the noise to find gear that fits your family’s lifestyle. It can also point you to sustainable options, local rentals, or secondhand finds from other adventure families.

    Prompt idea:

    “Recommend a high-quality lightweight 4-person tent under $300 with a vestibule. It needs to be easy to set up while managing two young kids. Include options from secondhand sites and local rental shops. Pull recommendations from real parent reviews, forums, or outdoor mom blogs when possible.”

    Using AI to make packing less overwhelming with littles

    AI (sadly) can’t pack your car, but it can help you organize what goes where: separate lists for the diaper bag, food bag, toy stash, and your “I-hope-we-don’t-need-this” first aid supplies. It can also remind you of the things you’ll definitely forget, like extra socks or that battery-operated noise machine.

    Prompt idea:

    “Break down a weekend camping packing list for a family with a baby and toddler into bags: diaper bag, kitchen tote, sleeping setup, and a car stash for emergencies. Include commonly forgotten items and tips for staying organized at camp.”

    Using AI to make outdoor adventures more fun for kids (and parents)

    Sometimes, the hardest part of family adventures isn’t choosing the location or even packing the right gear…it’s keeping kids engaged once you’re actually outside. That’s where AI shines in a whole new way.

    Beyond logistics and checklists, it can spark creativity, curiosity, and joy. Whether it’s turning a simple outing into a scavenger hunt, helping kids learn the names of the wildflowers they spot, or even creating traditions your family will never forget, AI can transform the way kids experience nature.

    Using AI to foster your kids’ interests

    My third grader gets out of school 45 minutes earlier than her brothers on Wednesdays. Each week, we rush to one of “our spots” — beside the neighborhood creek or down a local trail — and pull out our books to enjoy a few quiet minutes of outdoor reading together.

    One day, she decided we needed to make it official: a club. We called it The Rattlesnake Reading Club, after our beloved Rattlesnake Valley in Missoula.

    Already giddy about our new “secret society,” I wondered if AI could help lock in our tradition forever (or at least as long as she’ll still willingly hang out with me).

    “Let’s make a logo,” I said excitedly.

    “You can do that?” she asked.

    Yes, you can.

    We asked AI to create a logo for the Rattlesnake Reading Club, gave it a few nature-inspired details, and fell in love with the result. Now my daughter wants patches, t-shirts, and stickers. I’m not sure we’ll actually print them, but I do know her excitement for this little club — and for spending time outdoors with me — grew tenfold because of that one creative spark.

    Using AI To create deeper connections with nature

    That simple moment, using AI to turn a shared tradition into something real and creative, got me thinking: what else could it help with? 

    Not just finding activities, but deepening our connection to nature, helping us notice more, learn more, and make memories in new ways.

    This spring was our family’s first in Missoula, and we were blown away by the explosion of yellow flowers covering the mountainsides starting in early May. I didn’t recognize the flower, so I took a photo on a hike and asked AI:

    “What is this plant called? Give me three things a kindergartner would find fascinating about it.”

    It correctly identified the arrowleaf balsamroot, and immediately came up with age-appropriate tidbits that got the kids chatting about these gorgeous flowers! 

    AI’s reply:  

    • 🌿 Native American tribes like the Blackfoot and Cheyenne used its roots as medicine for fevers, coughs, stomach aches, and more! 
    • 🐝 Bees love it! It gives them food early in the year when not many other flowers are blooming.
    • 🌸 It’s one of the first wildflowers to bloom in spring — like nature’s way of saying “winter is over!”

    Without AI, it probably would’ve just been “a pretty yellow flower.” Because let’s be honest, I wasn’t going to spend time researching it mid-hike or prepping a fun lesson the night before.

    But instead, my kids got super excited about the arrowleaf balsamroot’s healing properties, and even asked for a notebook to start recording what we learn!

    AI prompts that go beyond basic activity ideas

    Here are some AI prompts that move beyond “find a hike near me” and into activities that spark learning, laughter, and family bonding:

    Try the prompts below to get your kids excited about being outside 

    • Custom scavenger hunts: “Create a nature scavenger hunt for kids ages [X] and [Y] at [type of location – forest, beach, mountains]. Include 15 items they can find or observe, plus bonus challenges for older kids.”
    • Nature games: “Create a nature bingo card for kids ages [X] and [Y] for a day at [local park/trail]. Include common plants, animals, and cool geological features they’re likely to see.”
    • Trail entertainment: “Create 5 nature challenges for kids on a family hike that teach them about the environment while keeping them engaged. Make them age-appropriate for [ages].”
    • Group activities: “Give me outdoor games for kids that we can play at the 4th of July barbecue. Include games for different group sizes and ages [X] and [Y].”
    • Storytelling and creativity: “Create a short, exciting campfire story (5 minutes to tell) featuring characters named [your kids’ names] who discover [something related to where you’re camping]. Make it age-appropriate with a positive message about nature.”
    • Nighttime nature fun: “Create a stargazing guide for kids ages [X] and [Y] for a summer camping trip. Include 5 constellations they can actually spot without a telescope, fun stories or myths behind them, and one easy activity (like making up their own constellation).”
    • Outdoor STEM challenge: “Give me 5 simple STEM challenges kids can do on a camping trip with minimal supplies (sticks, rocks, leaves, etc.). Make them fun, educational, and safe for kids ages [X] and [Y].”
    • Nature-inspired music & stories: “Make up a campfire song for kids ages [X] and [Y] that includes animal sounds, clapping rhythms, and a silly chorus. Keep it short, catchy, and easy to remember.”
    • Cultural connections: “Tell me 3 kid-friendly legends or folktales from [location/region] related to mountains, rivers, or animals we might see while hiking there. Summarize them in less than 5 minutes each.”
    • Family photography fun: “Create a kid-friendly photo scavenger hunt for our hike. Include 10 things to capture, like ‘a flower smaller than your pinky’ or ‘a bug on the move.’ Add bonus challenges like ‘take a selfie with something taller than you.’”

    Your action plan: getting started with AI for family adventures

    Which AI tool should you use?

    I bounce between ChatGPT and Claude depending on what I need. The free versions can handle everything we’ve covered in this guide.

    Here’s what each can do for your outdoor planning:

    Feature ChatGPT Free Claude Free
    Basic prompts (location searches, packing lists, activity ideas) ✅ Yes ✅ Yes
    Custom scavenger hunts & games ✅ Yes ✅ Yes
    Meal planning & shopping lists ✅ Yes ✅ Yes
    Campfire stories with kids’ names ✅ Yes ✅ Yes
    Upload plant/bug photos for ID ❌ No ✅ Yes
    “Check local forums” prompts ❌ No (can’t browse web) ✅ Yes (can search web)
    Daily usage limits ❌ Yes (can hit limits) ✅ Minimal limits
    Complex trip itineraries ✅ Yes ✅ Yes
    Gear recommendations ✅ Yes ✅ Yes

    How to get started using AI

    Start with whichever you’ve heard of (probably ChatGPT). If you want to upload photos of plants or bugs, or use those “check local forums” prompts, try Claude. Both work great for the core planning tasks that’ll actually get your family outside more.

    If you really get into AI and start using it for personal or professional projects, both offer paid versions ($20/month for ChatGPT Plus, $20/month for Claude Pro) with unlimited usage and faster responses. But honestly? The free versions handle outdoor planning just fine.

    Start here: Creating a free ChatGPT or Claude account takes about 2 minutes.

    Then try your first prompt: Copy and paste any of the prompts included in this guide! Don’t overthink it – AI responds to normal conversation, not special tech language. Ask it like you’d ask a helpful friend.

    Tips for using AI and writing better prompts

    Before we wrap up, here are a few quick best practices to help you get the most out of AI when planning your family adventures:

    • Be specific. The more details you give (kids’ ages, time of year, starting location, interests, accessibility needs), the better the results will fit your family.
    • Use natural language. You don’t need “tech speak.” Just ask like you would ask a friend: “Find an easy hike near Denver with shade and water for my kids, ages 4 and 7.”
    • Iterate and refine. If the first response isn’t quite right, ask again with tweaks: “That hike seems too long. Can you suggest one under 2 miles?”
    • Cross-check for accuracy. Always double-check weather, trail conditions, and safety guidelines with official park or ranger websites. Think of AI as a starting point, not the final say.
    • Save your best prompts. Keep a running note on your phone with prompts that worked well so you don’t have to reinvent the wheel each trip.

    A quick note on environmental impact

    AI uses water and energy to run, so use it thoughtfully. Try doing a Google search first for basic stuff like “hiking trails near me” or park hours. Save AI for the complex planning that actually gets your family outside more.

    We all make environmental trade-offs…multiple vehicles, air travel, Amazon deliveries. If using AI helps you raise kids who are stewards of the earth and love spending time outdoors, I’d say it’s worth it.

    But, if AI doesn’t feel right for you, don’t use it!

    Remember that AI can make mistakes (and can sometimes make up information)

    AI can make mistakes, just like a well-meaning friend sharing a hike recommendation. It’s also been known to completely fabricate information when it needs to find information to fit a particular query or command. Always double-check real-time trail conditions, weather, and safety information before heading out with your family. When in doubt, call the local ranger station or visitor center.

    Final thoughts

    At the end of the day, figuring everything out is part of motherhood. But, that doesn’t mean you have to do it all on your own.

    AI isn’t about replacing your instincts or taking away the magic of discovery. It’s about lightening the load so you can focus on what matters most: watching your kids skip rocks across a river, laugh under the stars, or squeal when they spot their first marmot.

    You don’t need to be the outdoorsy mom with all the answers.  Just the one who shows up. 

    With snacks. 

    With curiosity.

    And maybe a little help from AI.

    About the author

    Brittany has a background in international nonprofit work and now brings brand stories to life as a copywriter for mission-driven organizations. Years ago, she fell in love with Chile while backpacking through South America, then fell in love with a Chilean and settled in Santiago for six years (where she never missed a sunset over the Andes!) Now the mom of a daughter, a son, and identical twin boys, Brittany and her crew are loving life in the spectacular Rattlesnake Valley of Missoula, Montana. A happy camper, former ocean kayak guide, Girl-Scout-version of an Eagle Scout, and passionate forest school advocate, Brittany is convinced that the best gift we can give our kids is a warm and trusting relationship with the earth.

    You can follow Brittany online in the following locations:
    Instagram: @brittanyb313
    Website: copybybrittanybrown.com

  • Celebrating Dia de los Muertos with Kids

    Día de los Muertos, or the Day of the Dead, is one of the most colorful, heartfelt celebrations in Mexican culture. It’s a time to honor, remember, and joyfully celebrate loved ones who have passed away. For parents, it’s also a beautiful opportunity to teach children about remembrance, family traditions, and the importance of cultural appreciation. In this post, photographer and mom of four, Wendy Cox, discusses the history of Día de los Muertos, how to celebrate at home with your kids, ideas for decorations and food, and ways to make this meaningful celebration fun and accessible for families everywhere.

    Honoring Family Roots

    My grandfather was born in Mexico in 1917. He immigrated to the United States when he was nine years old, and, luckily for me, he carried some of the Mexican culture with him when he crossed the border.

    While we didn’t celebrate Dia de los Muertos when I was growing up, I have lived my life with an appreciation for so many things that are part of the Mexican culture. Someday, I hope to travel to Mexico to see how it’s done on a full scale model! But until then, to honor my heritage, I decided that our family would start celebrating Dia de los Muertos in our own way. This celebration has been a lot of fun for me and my family, and I hope that as you celebrate Dia de los Muertos with your kids that you will enjoy it as much as we have!

    History of Día de los Muertos

    The roots of Día de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) stretch back thousands of years to ancient pre-Columbian Mesoamerica, long before Spanish colonization. Indigenous civilizations such as the Aztec, Maya, Toltec, and Nahua peoples believed that death was not an end, but rather a continuation of the life cycle. For them, death was simply another step in the great circle of existence, one that deserved celebration, not fear.

    The native peoples believed that after death, souls traveled through nine levels of the afterlife to the land of the dead. To help guide and sustain the souls of their loved ones, families would leave offerings of food, water, and cherished belongings – an act of love and remembrance that remains central to today’s traditions.

    Today, Día de los Muertos is celebrated across Mexico and in many parts of the world, including the United States, with altars (ofrendas), marigolds (cempasúchil), sugar skulls (calaveras), candles, papel picado, and favorite foods of the departed. It’s not a somber day of mourning—it’s a vibrant celebration of life, memory, and family.

    In cities like Oaxaca, Mexico City, and Pátzcuaro, festivities include candlelight processions, music, dancing, and public displays of art and altars. The colorful decorations and joyful energy remind everyone that our loved ones continue to live on through our stories, traditions, and the love we share.

    For families celebrating at home, understanding this history helps children see Día de los Muertos not as a “Mexican Halloween,” but as a sacred and joyful reminder that love never dies.

    When to Celebrate Día de los Muertos

    Día de los Muertos is typically celebrated on November 1st and 2nd, aligning with All Saints’ Day and All Souls’ Day. In the United States, many communities hold parades, festivals, and cultural events around these dates—sometimes on nearby weekends.

    When we lived in San Diego, Old Town State Historic Park hosted ofrendas, live music, and family-friendly activities throughout October. To celebrate with your family, check local community calendars or cultural centers to see if there are Día de los Muertos events in your area.

    How to Celebrate Día de los Muertos at Home

    This celebration can be as grand or as simple as you want it to be. You could display a couple photos of your predecessors on your coffee table, or you could make a full on, multi-tiered ofrenda with candles, food, drinks, flowers, lights, and more. There is no requirement to make this extravagant, but if you want to go all in, here’s what my family has done.

    Día de los Muertos Party

    This year my family and I will be hosting our second annual Día de los Muertos party. We send out an invitation about a month ahead of time so people can save the date, but also so they have time to make any preparations that they want to.

    On the invitation, we request that anyone who wants to can bring a photograph of a deceased family member to add to the ofrenda. We ask that they also come prepared to share a story about that person if they feel so inclined.

    Día de los Muertos Decorations

    On the day of the party, we bring out our brightly colored banner flags (papel picado) and hang them all over the place. We string up lights, bring out a couple fire pits, and make sure to have ample seating both inside and outside.

    This year I’m going to look for some marigolds. Last year all I had was a pom pom-like orange garland, but this year I’m looking for something more authentic. I saw some beautiful marigolds while in Southern California recently, but here in Virginia they’re proving a little harder to come by. If the actual flowers are elusive, I may try tissue paper flowers, which are also found on authentic ofrendas.

    Building the Ofrenda

    Central to Día de los Muertos is the ofrenda. We put photographs of our grandparents here, and make sure to leave a lot of room for everyone else to place their photographs. Displaying the photos in frames is ideal. A simple photo can get bent or fall over easily, especially when things are getting moved around to make space for everyone.

    We add candles to our ofrenda, and pan de muerto. This is a traditional bread baked during Día de los Muertos that has symbols representing the cycle of life and death. Look for this at your local panaderia (Mexican bakery), or you can try this recipe. Pan de muerto is used both on the ofrenda, and also eaten when visiting the graves of loved ones.

    It’s also tradition to leave favorite foods and drink on the ofrenda. Usually the special items for each person are placed in front of the photograph of that person. This lends itself perfectly to tell your children why you chose those items, and any stories you have of the person eating or cooking that food while they were alive.

    My Grandpa Ben used to put honey on almost anything! He had such a sweet tooth, and so we place a bottle of honey next to his photo on the ofrenda. It makes me think of him every time I see honey or use it in any way!

    The Potluck

    We like to make our Día de los Muertos party a potluck. We invite everyone to bring a dish that is special to their family, or something that a relative used to make or enjoy. The dish doesn’t have to be something that relates to the relative whose photograph they bring, but that does end up happening quite a bit. 

    My Grandma Mary made the very best Mexican rice in the whole world! The best compliment you can give me, or any of my aunts or sisters, is that their rice tastes like Grandma’s rice. Rice also goes a long way with a crowd, so it was my obvious choice for the potluck last year. 

    Since this is a Mexican holiday, and my dad’s side of the family is Mexican, I brought out my tortilla press and made fresh tortillas during most of the party. I’m no tortilla pro, but it was a fun way to add a little bit of my heritage to the evening. I let anyone, adults and children, who wanted to make their own tortilla have a try at it. I was surprised at how many people had never used a tortilla press! I was so glad to have given them the opportunity.

    This year I plan to add Mexican hot chocolate to the potluck menu. The Abuelita brand is my favorite, but not the instant packets. In my opinion, the best kind is the Abuelita that comes in little discs of chocolate that you simply melt in milk on the stove. You can probably find Abuelita at a local Mexican or international market, but if not try this link. If you’ve never tried Mexican hot chocolate, it has more of a cinnamon flavor than other types of hot chocolate, but it’s incredibly delicious and I highly recommend you try it!

    Sharing Stories

    Towards the beginning of the evening, we gather everyone together to share stories of our loved ones. To get things started, my husband and I share something about one of our ancestors on the ofrenda while showing their photograph. Then, we go around the room giving everyone (usually one member of each family) the chance to share about the person whose photo they brought.

    It’s such an honor to hear all of the stories. There’s often laughter combined with tears shed in fond remembrance of these loved ones. The kids all sit together on the floor and they love hearing the stories. This is my favorite part of the celebration!

    Other Día de los Muertos Activities

    Because there are a mixture of both adults and kids at this party, we try to have a variety of activities. We print out some Día de los Muertos coloring pages for the younger kids. I put out a bucket of crayons for them to use. I also set up a movie projector and have the movie Coco going in one room for anyone who wants to use that. 

    This year, we thought about getting some live entertainment. I wanted to ask some friends to perform a song from Coco, but things got crazy and we didn’t get that coordinated in time. We may try that for next year though! And how fun would a dance party be to some traditional Mexican music, or a grito (shouting) contest for the best, “ayyyyyyyyyyy ayyyyyy ayyyyyyyy!” 

    Calavera Face Painting

    You may have seen the traditional Dia de los Muertos face painting, known as calavera (skull). Remember Miguel in Coco with his white face and black eyes? That’s a simple version of the calavera, but it can get very elaborate.

    Calavera makeup can range from simple to intricate, with flowers, spider webs, and hearts painted around the eyes and mouth.

    Each element has meaning:

    • Marigolds symbolize life and remembrance.
    • Hearts represent love for the departed.
    • Cobwebs mark the passage of time.

    Adding face painting to your celebration makes the experience even more immersive for kids—and helps them appreciate the artistry behind this beautiful tradition.

    If you want to try the calavera, here are a few ideas and some explanations of the symbols that are often used.

    Why This Matters for Kids

    Whether you’re inviting the whole neighborhood, or having an evening at home with your family, telling stories about your ancestors is an incredibly important and powerful experience for your children. Hearing the stories gives children a sense of where they came from. It helps them understand their roots. Learning about their ancestors helps a child build a sense of who they are, and hearing how their ancestors overcame obstacles can give children motivation to persevere through their own struggles. Psychology Today has an entire article on this subject if you’re interested in learning more about the topic.

    Final Thoughts

    Celebrating Día de los Muertos with kids is about more than food and decorations. It’s about remembrance, connection, and gratitude. When families come together to share stories and honor loved ones, they’re not just celebrating life after death; they’re celebrating life itself.

    As you build your own traditions, encourage your children to participate – by helping decorate, asking questions, or sharing their favorite memories. Through these small acts, they’ll learn that love lives on, and that remembering those who came before us is one of the most beautiful ways to celebrate being alive.

    About the author

    Wendy is a married momma who recently moved from central San Diego, CA to Roanoke, Virginia. She’s raising 4 human kids, 2 goat kids, 4 chickens, and one grumpy cat. She enjoys gardening, hiking, camping, backpacking, going to the beach, and generally getting out-of-doors. Wendy is a family photographer and also works at several local elementary schools as the garden educator. She dreams of traveling to all 50 states and beyond, and believes that there is great beauty to be found in all parts of the earth, we just have to open our eyes to see it.

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