storytelling

  • Look Up!: Using Storytelling to Connect Children with the Night Sky

    The boundless expanse of the night sky has captivated the imaginations of humans since time immemorial. Within its inky canvas, twinkling stars form intricate patterns, weaving tales of ancient lore and myth. Amidst the vastness, storytelling emerges as a powerful tool, unlocking the secrets of constellations while kindling a deep love for astronomy within young minds. Today, PNW mom and photographer Jackleen Leed takes us on a celestial journey as we explore how the art of storytelling can transform stargazing sessions into captivating adventures, providing a gateway for children to unravel the mysteries of the cosmos, and fostering a lifelong curiosity for the wonders that lie above. Prepare to embark on a cosmic odyssey, where imagination merges with knowledge, and the night sky becomes an enchanting storybook waiting to be read.

    Kids telling stories around a campfire while looking at the night sky.
    Photo Credit: @coleyraeh

    The wonders of the night sky

    The night sky has been captivating human beings and inspiring storytelling since the dawn of time.  It only follows that our smallest humans would be equally awestruck, and not only because they have the opportunity to stay up past their bedtime (though, that certainly helps!).  

    The night sky is vast, mysterious, and breathtakingly beautiful.  The sense of scale its magnitude provides, and the small place we occupy in the cosmos are downright humbling.  It’s no wonder humans have looked to the night sky for answers, weaving stories, legends, and myths that have created various tapestries of human cultures. Storytelling is, after all, a fundamental part of human nature. 

    The importance of storytelling

    We’ve been using stories to convey ideas and information, communicate complex concepts, entertain, evoke emotion, elicit empathy, and foster social bonding for millennia.  On an even grander scale, stories have been used to pass on cultural knowledge, norms, beliefs, traditions, and values, shaping and reinforcing our very social fabric. 

    Let’s face it, stories are just so much more compelling than a list of semi-related facts. And because of that, they’re also more comprehensible and memorable. They help us make sense of stuff by providing a narrative that organizes and clarifies meaningful information. 

    Perhaps, most importantly, for our purposes, stories are engaging! They ignite the imagination, allow flexibility of thought, encourage perspective-taking, and stimulate creativity.  And the best part is that children are inherent and intuitive storytellers who are generally quite happy to contribute!

    Tips for using storytelling to connect children with the night sky

    It probably comes as no surprise then that coupling stargazing and storytelling is a perfect way to connect kids with nature and nurture our relationship with our children and the natural world. It’s easy to say storytelling is a powerful tool to spark children’s interest in the night sky, and another thing altogether to actually create a story. We aren’t all born storytellers. Well, we are, but that’s one of those skills we can lose through lack of use. But don’t worry, like any muscle, you can strengthen it with exercise. Follow these tips, and you’ll be a strong storyteller in no time at all!

    Keep it simple

    In the beginning, keep it accessible, age-appropriate, and follow your child’s cues. This may all sound like a no-brainer, but bear with me. As adults, we easily go into explaining mode. I’m pretty sure it’s our factory default setting!

    Imagine your child picking up an autumn leaf and admiring it. They may even ask you, why is it red now? You, excited at the opportunity to impart some of your own vast knowledge to your offspring (besides, you know the answer this time!), quickly move into a diatribe about how plants use sunlight to make energy in a process called photosynthesis.  This takes place in leaf cells that contain a green pigment called chlorophyll.  Each of these cells also has a bit of yellow/orange carotenoid color…blah, blah, blah.

    Your child, once filled with wonder, has now tuned you out. 

    Child with a headlamp looking up at the night sky.
    Photo Credit: @kristcx

    Keep the wonder

    The key word here is to keep the wonder.  Children naturally survey their world with a sense of wonder.  When we immediately move to explain concepts to them in a way to which they simply cannot relate, we smother that wonder.  But, by being sensitive to their cues, keeping things simple and accessible (and not being afraid to ask them questions in return), we feed their wonder and flex our own wonder muscle at the same time. 

    By simply saying, “Hmmm, I wonder why it turned red; what do you think?” you stimulate their further inquiry.  You may even be surprised at how intuitive their response is!  Plus, a conversation is always more engaging than a lecture.

    Your stories should be accessible, too  

    Using simple language and vivid imagery will stimulate your child’s imagination. There are many books with amazing stories to which you can add your storytelling flare.  (Scroll to the bottom for a list of some of my favorite books filled with stories about the night sky.) 

    Tell stories that illustrate basic astronomy concepts, for instance, about how the constellations got their names, or how the moon has different phases.  

    The best stories are relatable   

    Don’t be afraid to pop your children into the story, or, at the very least, create characters that are similar in age in settings you know will interest them. Perhaps an alien spaceship invites them aboard, and they embark on an epic adventure to explore the stars. Isn’t that much more exciting for them than this happening to an imaginary kid they don’t know?

    Silhouette of a child playing with an airplane under the night sky.
    Photo Credit: @meghangarriott

    Use lots of descriptive words to evoke a sense of wonder and encourage participation  

    Make the storytelling process dynamic by inviting their participation.  Ask them questions. What do they think will happen next? You could even take turns going around a circle, each person building on the piece of the story that came just before.

    It may get silly, but it’s a great way to bond with your child and will help them consolidate new information.  When you slip in fun, age-appropriate astronomy facts, they’ll be more likely to remember them later on.

    Engage their visual sense

    Stories that use visual aids and props are more interesting.  My 5-year-old likes a good story, but he will lose his mind over a puppet show. Including visual tactics may take the form of glow-in-the-dark stars organized into constellations on your child’s ceiling.  Use a flashlight to create a glowing constellation on a wall (Mirus Toys makes a beautiful set of wooden constellation tiles for this, but you can make your own with cardboard, too!).  Paint the night sky in your nature journal. Baking a moon phase pie.  And, my favorite…eating the moon phase pie (see where I’m going with this?)! The more you incorporate the senses, the deeper the engagement and learning! 

    Storytelling is just the beginning!

    Coupling night sky explorations with storytelling, not only engages children’s imaginations but can also teach complex concepts and spark a further interest in astronomy.  Stargazing, visiting a planetarium, and hands-on experiments can further stoke your child’s curiosity. Go for a camping trip under the stars. Get out the telescope (if you don’t have one, you can borrow one from your local public library). 

    Tent glowing amongst some trees under a night sky.
    Photo Credit: @kristcx

    Tips for stargazing with children

    If there’s one thing that children require, it’s preparation.  I know this from attempting any outing at all with my twin babies and five-year-old.  We basically need an itinerary to go to the grocery store these days.  But, planning a camping trip, or just throwing a blanket out in your backyard to gaze at the stars is worth the work, I promise!  Here are a few things to keep in mind when preparing for a stargazing experience with little ones.

    1. Choose the right time and place 

    I live in the Pacific Northwest, which, though gorgeous, is also known for its cloud cover and wet weather. It takes a little extra planning to ensure we’ll be able to see something in the sky.  Likewise, light pollution can make it difficult to visualize the night sky.  Choose a dry clear night in a location away from bright city lights.

    Three children looking at a crescent moon in the night sky.
    Photo Credit: @kristcx

    2. Make sure your kiddos are comfortable 

    Dress warm, but not too warm, and bring all the snacks.  Bring blankets, pillows, or chairs to sit on.  Make sure you have drinks.  Expert tip:  Cocoa is a perfect stargazing beverage.  

    3. Use the tools

    Bring a telescope or binoculars to get a closer look.  A star chart can help you identify constellations and planets. If you have older kids, let them try out a stargazing app to help identify constellations (SkyView and Star Walk 2 are both great for beginners). 

    4. Know before you go 

    Learn a bit about the night sky before heading out to stargaze. Do a little research on the constellations. Know what will be visible at that time of year in your area. Use some of the storytelling tips and tools above to stoke their curiosity in advance. 

    5. Slow down and move at their pace  

    Anything with young children requires patience.  Cultivate it and be flexible. Keep your expectations reasonable and in line with your children’s ages and interest levels. Let your child set the pace, and let their curiosity drive the experience. 

    6. Be safe  

    Stargazing sometimes brings you to unfamiliar locations.  Couple the unfamiliarity with darkness and potentially uneven terrain, and there’s the potential for an accident to happen. Make sure you discuss safety with your children in advance and keep an eye on them at all times. 

    7. Encourage curiosity and consolidation  

    Let them ask questions. Ask them questions. Have them write about their experience. Alternatively, they can dictate a story for you to transcribe if they aren’t writing just yet.  They can then illustrate it to create a book commemorating the experience.  Read and create stories about the night sky.  Explore other sky phenomena as well.  Above all, let their interests lead the way!

    A red moon visualized while stargazing with children.
    Photo Credit: @wendycoxphotography

    What to look for in the night sky

    The moon  

    Certain space phenomena are easier to locate than others.  A great place to start is the moon itself!  Introduce basic moon vocabulary while observing it each night.  Is it a crescent, a full moon, a quarter moon, or a dark new moon?  Then gradually introduce the concept of waxing and waning.  If you live near a beach, you may even decide to explore the connection of the moon with the tides. Start a moon journal and get children acquainted with data collection, as they record their observations in it each night.

    Constellations

    Start with Orion’s Belt and the Big Dipper (part of Ursa Major).  These are usually pretty easy to pinpoint.  StarDate has a great constellation guide.  Encourage your kids to connect the stars, kind of like connect-the-dots (you may even create a connect-the-dot constellation sheet with the dots numbered so they can practice connecting them in advance).  Can they find any other pictures in the night sky?

    The Milky Way  

    The galaxy that we find ourselves in is spectacular to observe. With the naked eye, it looks like a hazy cloud stretching across the sky.  If we use a telescope to get a closer look, we can see that the “cloud” is actually a multitude of stars.

    The Milky Way photographed during a camping trip with children.
    Photo Credit: @kristcx

    Meteors  

    A space rock that falls towards the Earth, when many of these shooting stars are present at once, they are called a meteor shower. Meteors are best viewed during a new moon when the sky is extra dark. Several major meteor showers happen throughout the year. The following is a list of the major meteor showers to keep an eye out for:

    • Quadrantids – December/January
    • Lyrids – April
    • Perseids – August
    • Orionids – October
    • Leonids – November
    • Geminids – December

    Additional resources for exploring the night sky through storytelling 

    Storytelling and stargazing

    Nurturing a child’s curiosity about the night sky, stars, moon, and solar system is a gateway to instilling a profound appreciation for nature and our world. By unraveling the mysteries of the cosmos, we empower children to become explorers of their surroundings, fostering a sense of wonder and awe that extends far beyond the reaches of our planet. Storytelling and stargazing are amazing and complimentary ways to help kids connect with the natural world, and for the adults in their lives to flex their own wonder muscles, too!  In a world increasingly dominated by technology and screens, teaching kids about the night sky through storytelling reconnects them with the natural wonders of the universe, stimulating their imagination and sparking a lifelong curiosity for the intricate tapestry of our existence. So, take some time to look up! 

    Have you ever been stargazing with your kids?

    About the author

    Jackie grew up in central Pennsylvania but is currently enjoying island life in the Salish Sea with her two teens, a pre-schooler, and identical twin baby girls. She specializes in soul-centered outdoor elopements on wild pieces of Earth, as well as soulful, nostalgic, and cozy storytelling photography for families wishing to reconnect with the Earth and with each other.

    Jackie is a former forest preschool teacher with a Ph.D. in developmental psychology who whole-heartedly believes that Reginald Horace Blythe was right when uttering the words “Mud is the most poetical thing in the world,” and loves to spend her time in the thick of nature, usually with bare feet. Her greenhouse is her happy place. She also believes that children are big philosophers in little bodies and that we would all be better off walking through life as they do, with our eyes, ears, and hearts open to it all. To that end, she wishes to share photography as a means to live more fully and intentionally in each moment and in nature. Mostly, she just wants her children to grow up with a sense of wonder, to wander, and to have a strong passion for protecting this planet.

    You can find more from Jackie in the following locations:
    Instagram: @raising_little_naturalists
    Websites: Wild Kin Wandering and Earthwise Mothering
    RWMC posts: Jackleen Leed

  • The Importance of Storytelling with Photos

    Capturing your family’s special moments (big and small) through photography is one of my biggest passions. Not many things make me happier (or more nostalgic) that looking at the photos of the trips, adventures, and outings we took together as family. The moments pass so quickly, but the photos will last a lifetime. Today, Chicago mom of two, Tiana Kubik is here sharing the importance of storytelling with photos. Tiana and her husband run a photography business and know just how precious capturing families can be. She will not only convince you to pick up your camera more and document your adventures but will help you understand just how important it is to look through those images with your kids so that you can tell your family’s story.

    A collection of images from a families adventures.

    Capture your family’s story with photos

    Capturing your family’s memories through photos is one of the best ways to tell your story. No, not just for Instagram, but for your family’s posterity and future.  While social media might make it seem as if photo taking and storytelling are trendy here and now, photos are forever. Each one is a frozen moment in time you can go back to again and again. I am in it for the long-term payout. 

    Not only are photos a wonderful way for parents to remember the big and small moments and details, but they’re a way to pass down those memories to your children and grandchildren. I want our memories, stories, and adventures to be stamped into the soul of our family. I want them to bring us joy for years and serve as the roots that keep us all grounded and connected.

    If you want that too, this post is for you! Today, I’m not only going to encourage you to pick up your camera (or phone) and snap those photos, but to keep revisiting them and using them to bring your family closer and closer together for years to come. 

    Photography is the art of making memories tangible.”- Destin Sparks

    A boy rowing a boat at Central Park with his father

    Photos are a vehicle for storytelling

    Almost every child I’ve met loves looking at photos of themselves. Kids love seeing themselves as babies, out on adventures, doing things they can’t quite remember, but know they did. Photos are powerful for helping your child solidify the memories of their childhood and the special moments and details of their life.

    When it comes to storytelling, photos can be a powerful tool for capturing the children’s attention and drawing them into the story. Photos can help to create a sense of atmosphere and emotion. They capture a moment in time, show the emotions of the people involved in the story, and illustrate what is happening in the story of their own lives.   

    When children are part of those images, it gives them a healthy booster of memories, emotions, and lessons that were created in the original experience. It makes their memories come back to life. It sparks curiosity and triggers emotions. Imagine retelling a story through your images – it’s like they’re reliving that experience.  Children can process it over and over again. Photos are magical in that way!

    This also applies to videos and other media and souvenirs.  Anything that makes a memory more tangible and real for children, will help keep those memories alive and fresh for them.

    A girl swinging upside down in a hammock on her mother's legs. A mother and 2 children masked, playing outside.

    Why storytelling through photos is so important to children

    When we plan outdoor adventures and travel with our children, it’s important to take the time to reminisce about those experiences once we get home. Photos of the adventure are the perfect way to do that. These memories (and definitely the photos) will stay with them long after we’re gone, and they’ll be thankful for the wonderful childhood experiences they had, the outings, the trips, the highs and lows of life. 

    There are so many reasons to remember to tell your family’s stories over and over again and to revisit the images, videos, and photos you took. Here are a few reasons revisiting the past is important to children. 

    1. Storytelling through photos reinforces the big lessons

    One of the best things about taking our kids on outdoor adventures is that the lessons found in nature are endless. They get to see all kinds of new places, meet new people, and learn about different cultures. Kids learn about themselves and what they are capable of. They learn to love and care for the world around them. We can foster teamwork and light a spark in our little scientists/artists/engineers. We can show them how to enjoy nature and all that it has to offer and teach them about the importance of love for the earth and the living beings who call it home. 

    Children learn by repetition and that can come in repeating an activity or by remembering an experience. By retelling the adventures that you go on and looking at the photos that you have from your experiences out in the world and in nature, you repeat these and reenforce some of life’s most important lessons.  

    2. Photos help solidify memories

    Kids love spending time outdoors and going on adventures, but sometimes it seems like they don’t remember many of them! Especially for young children, most of their early memories will be forgotten as they get older. We’ve been on so many outdoor adventures together as a family, from hiking in national parks to whale watching in the ocean, and often the kids seem surprised when we mention them. This is a HUGE BUMMER. 

    One of the best ways to combat this is to keep talking about these experiences and looking at the photos we have from our trips and adventures.  Any chance we get to talk about our favorite experiences, look through photos, watch videos, is time well spent and helps them keep them in their memories longer. Often, just seeing the images will help trigger their memories of what else happened on that day or on that adventure. Things that maybe I forgot about already! And then that becomes part of the story.

    Want proof? There are several studies that even suggest that having children discuss their personal experiences and stories helps them crystalize their earliest memories at a slightly earlier age. 

    A dad with a camera standing at Lake Moraine in Banff with his two kids

    3. Photos give children a connection to their heritage

    Reminiscing with children is important as it can help them to learn about their past and understand their family heritage. Think of storytelling as a generational gift – children can learn about their family traditions, who they are, and where they came from all through the re-telling of family stories.

    Seeing photos of ancestors and how/where they lived helps kids establish their roots. Learning through photos that great-great Grandma loved fishing or swimming in the ocean can actually increase your current family’s enjoyment of these same activities by drawing a deeper connection to them as they weave the bonds of multiple generations of your family. 

    4. Photos help children gain ownership of their story and decisions

    One of the best ways to make decisions and find encouragement, during unfamiliar experiences, is to recall similar experiences and draw on what you know.  Children can use activities that they have done before (like specific hikes or a visit to a nature preserve) to help prepare them for future hikes and outdoor adventures. These stories and experiences are solidified by looking through photos of past experiences and adventures. They can also begin to find patterns in experiences and their reactions to them to help guide their own inner voice.

    5. Photos extend quality time together

    The act of storytelling and looking through photos is, all by itself, an experience. Paint a picture in your head of what this looks like:  Your family cozy on the couch flipping through photos from birthdays, epic hikes, simple walks. Are you laughing? Do you feel loved and grateful? Don’t you now treasure those memories and experiences even more through the family bonding and storytelling you’re doing now?

    That time to look back is about creating a bond, just as much as the time spent making the memories you are remembering.  One day you may find yourself telling the story about that one time you were sitting around the table, telling a story and looking through photos. 

    Two children walking into a sunflower field

    Have fun capturing memories

    The best way to capture memories is to be in them!  So often people think that taking photos and videos is a distraction from real life.  However, it is all about balance and preparation. Here are a few tips to remember while you’re documenting your family’s special moments. 

    • Choose moments to photograph and ones to just enjoy.
    • Listen to family members and read the room.  If anyone does not want their photo taken, put the camera down.
    • Take photos by engaging in the action, not by pausing it.  The best photos are the ones that capture a moment not create a moment.
    • Let children have access to take photos, or at least help choose what to capture.  Our kiddos love using their tablets and cameras to take their own photos. 
    • Don’t stress over the perfect photo.  When the goal is capturing memories, let go of being concerned over blur, behavior, or blemishes.
    • Remember these are moments you hope to relive through the stories they tell.  Be mindful of why you are there and what you are capturing

    Two images showing what a son and father taking photos of each other.

    What you need to capture images for storytelling

    What you need to capture your memories is simple. Photos and videos…LOT of them! You don’t have to be an expert photographer, have super fancy expensive gear, or any technical know-how to capture your memories. Obviously, you can have all that (and that’s awesome), but definitely not necessary. How you choose to capture your family’s images and memories will depend on who you are, your budget, and your goals. 

    At the most basic level, you’ll need (1) something to take the photos, (2) a place to store the photos, (3) an organizational system, and (4) a tradition or way of visiting these photos.  The details are up to you but here is a quick outline of a few of our recommendations for getting started with each of them. 

    Camera basics

    Your choice of camera is totally up to you. The best camera you can use is the one you have with you (no matter what it is – the important thing is using it!). We recommend starting with whatever you already have and just getting started snapping away. You can always upgrade later as your skills improve and you learn to use your camera. 

    A DSLR is going to be your best bet if you want to “get into” photography and explore settings and lenses. This is probably what most people think of when they talk about digital cameras. The two most popular DSLR options are Canon and Nikkon – both are excellent choices, with a huge range of options on price point, lenses, and features. Mirrorless cameras are all the rage these days and can be a bit smaller and have electronic viewfinders (digital screens) in the back. It comes down to personal preference what you’d like to shoot with. 

    However, technology today has made it even easier to capture photos of your family, a great cell phone. A smartphone has made it so that we can capture 20 different images of any given moment with a small camera we probably already have in our pocket. Which means there is no excuse for missing out. If you’re just getting into photography, you can start with the phone you have. If you are looking for the best tips for taking fabulous quality images with your cell phone camera, make sure to download our free guide to taking better photos of your kids outside with your camera phone

    Phone photos are great because they’re easy to take and very accessible, but you are also going to need a really good storage system for those 2,000 photos you took in February.

    A child dancing in front of her campervan.

    Photo storage solutions

    Whether you’re storing your photos on your phone or on a computer, storage is sure to be an issue if you are taking LOTS of pictures. You could very easily lose your phone or deal with a lost or broken laptop. Your photos need to be secure and backed up in multiple places. We highly recommend backing up to at least 2 other places so that if and when your computer quits on you, you have a backup.  A few options are:

    • A backup hard drive (we keep ours in a fireproof safe) 
    • A disc or jump flash drive
    • Cloud storage (there are a ton of options, but an easy way to store your images is with a cloud storage site, like Google Drive, Amazon Photos (included with your Prime membership) or Dropbox)

    Photo organization system

    Now that you have all these gorgeous images of your precious memories, you need to come up with a system for organizing them. The short answer is FOLDERS! But how you organize your folders will be completely up to you, your personality, and how your brain best works.  A few examples of ways to organize folders of images:

    • Folders for each year or month > images labeled by date (how most cell phones already label images)
    • Based on destinations or trips
    • Folders based on each camera used
    • A folder for each child or family member

    Note on metadata and geotagging photos:  Everyone will need to make their own choices on including this.  Many families feel better not having location info on photos but having that info also makes images on devices easily searchable.  The same goes for facial recognition options for sorting images. Just something to consider for your storage and organization of images.

    A good photo organizational system will make things so much easier as your family and experiences grow, as well as your image library.  The last thing you want is to spend hours looking for images from 4 years ago, only to realize they are gone or misplaced.  Now that the logistics are done…time for the fun!

    A grandmother, mother, and daughter laughing together. A family on a boat wale watching.

    How to view your images

    What good is taking all those photos if you’re not going to do anything with them? You need to come up with a way (or multiple ways) to get your images in front of your family. If you can’t see the images, you can’t tell the stories! (and isn’t that what we’ve been talking about this whole time?)

    Here are a few fun ways to share photos and stories with your family:

    • Print them out and make collages or photo galleries on the walls in your home
    • Create themed books with the photos and have them printed
    • Start a family social media account 
    • Use a digital photo frame (or Amazon Echo Show) to keep updating images to stroll
    • Make gifts for family members out of the photos that you take (ornaments, keychains, calendars, magnets, notepads, etc.)

    Two children in face masks in New Orleans

    Start a family tradition of storytelling with photos

    Many families have rituals and traditions around storytelling with photos. You can create books, start a blog, create a wall of photos.  You can make digital albums to share with friends and all upload your images together or sports seasons or events. There are so many options for creating opportunities to remember the time you spend together.  Is there a time of day or specific holidays where you find your family most engaged in remembering events?  

    My guess is that you do this often, without even giving it much thought, and that is what is best about storytelling with photos in the digital age.  Keeping images easily accessible means you are ready to stroll down memory lane at a moment’s notice.  The more you engage in telling the story of your most special days, the more your children will want to talk about them.  

    The biggest goal is to get children to retell their own stories, but storytelling is not a one-way street. Stories grow and evolve as we add different perspectives and points of view. You won’t all remember an outing or trip the same way. We don’t just pass stories down, we share them. They are told by all involved and having children actively engaged in the storytelling process gives their experience validity and gives the entire family a gift that will last a lifetime.

    Storytelling is also a great bridge to planning new adventures and setting goals for the future.  Beginning a whole new cycle of family fun!

     

    More photography resources

    If you’re interested in more photography resources, download our FREE guide with our best tips and tricks for taking better photos of your kids’ outdoor adventures with the camera on your PHONE! From creative composition tips to our favorite editing apps, this guide includes everything you need to know to make the most out of the camera in your pocket!  

    Do you use photos to tell family stories?

    About the author

    A city girl through and through, Tiana wasn’t always thrilled with outdoor adventures. However, learning the importance of nature + play through her journey to a Master’s in Early Childhood Education changed her heart. She still prefers the hustle and bustle of city life. She also has learned to love all that nature is and gives. Tiana has discovered unbelievably amazing North American destinations by traveling in a DIY converted Sprinter Van with her husband and two kids. She looks forward to new adventures and discoveries every day.

    You can find more from Tiana in the following online locations:
    Instagram: @usalongtheway
    Website: US Along the Way
    RWMC Posts: Tiana Kubik