Month: April 2018

  • Hawaii with Kids

    If you’ve been dreaming of gorgeous sandy beaches and the deep blue waters of Hawaii ever since watching Moana (just me?), then today’s post is for you! The amazing Andrea Laughery is here today sharing her latest adventure in Hawaii with kids. She’s sharing all the gorgeous images from their most recent stay on Maui. Plus, tips and advice for planning a Hawaiian vacation with kids and all their favorite kid-friendly activities, places to stay and eateries.

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    Hawaii with kids

    The soft Pacific waves are clapping up in rhythmic motion on the sand, carrying away and bringing with them new bits of coral, shells, rocks…and the occasional beach toy a child calls out for one of us to grab. The shade tent is propped up just perfectly in a way so that my legs are warm from the sun and I can see the kids digging tunnels and castles ferociously by themselves a few feet away. My husband lets out a snore from the reclined chair next to me. I sip my chilled La Croix. The emerald palms are dancing and swaying overhead in that perfect Maui breeze. Life is good.

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    The above scenario is what I always envision when we plan our trips to Hawaii with the kids. Somehow the tortuously long days of travel, hungry kids, lost luggage, the arduous task of organizing airplane entertainment and snacks, unplanned visits to urgent care for ear infections, countless applications of sunscreen on tiny ears and necks and noses, the formidable and sweaty trudging through deep sand carrying blankets and umbrellas and buckets of toys all end up lost in a sea of more powerful, more enjoyable memories. Make no mistake, traveling with young children isn’t at all easy breezy.

    But we do it anyway! Because….wait for the cliche…it’s always worth it. Our kids already have these amazing, deep rooted memories of our family trips in Hawaii. We’ve been traveling with our kids since the time they were babies. By this point in life they are really amazing troopers and keep good attitudes and know the routine.

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    Family-friendly Hawaii

    Every family has their own quirks and routine for travel. It’s important to always look first inward when planning a Hawaiian vacation, and less outward at what others are doing. Our family tends to err on the side of ‘outdoor adventure obsessed’ and ‘spend days searching for the best shave ice on the island.’ So, that’s also how a lot of our trip time is planned. We personally love experiences that are just challenging enough to build character. I don’t like everything to be easy for our kids. It’s okay to hike down a long trail and get hot and work your muscles. It makes you appreciate the reward and feeling of accomplishment at the end. I love pool time and relaxing too, but the times we grow as a family and push to experience something unique together are always my favorite.

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    But maybe you’re a big resort lover. Or you like wandering touristy shops. Maybe you enjoy spending all day at the pool. Or taking whale watching tours. Or snorkeling or going to luaus or building sandcastles or driving winding roads through lush jungles. Whatever it may be, Hawaii has something for everyone. If you go with an open heart, gratitude, and appreciate for the people and the land you are sure to leave with incredible memories for this very special piece of earth.

    Every island has something a little different to offer. I advise to research each one thoroughly before making your choice! We’ve personally loved our time on all the islands for different reasons. We chose different islands depending on the season we are in and what activities we have our hearts set upon.

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    Hawaii planning tips & advice

    • Think about whether your family would feel more comfortable in a large resort with other people (and more amenities), or something more private and simple like renting a house or a condo.
    • Book flights for weekdays to save cash. However, don’t go so crazy on flight times that you sacrifice you and your kids’ sanity. We try and fly during the day so that we land in time to get kids to bed.
    • Adjust to local time zone as quickly as possible, and allow plenty of downtime in the room for naps and quiet time the first couple of days.
    • Consider using a local rental company to deliver things to your room for things like pack-n-plays, beach toys, and high-chairs. The less things you have to pack with you, the better!
    • Remember you don’t need to do something just because you think you should. This is your vacation and your family time. If you want to spend every day of it at the pool or beach, and skip spending hours in the car driving the narrow road to Hana, then do it!

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    • If your family dynamics work in a way that you feel comfortable inviting other family members such as grandparents or an aunt or uncle along, that can be a great way to ensure you and your partner get some solo time away from the kids, and create positive memories with family.
    • That said, putting some planning and organization into your vacation will pay off in droves and allow you to fully relax when you get there! Make lists and pack minimal, but do remember that most all of the Hawaiian islands have major stores with any items you may need or forget upon arrival.
    • Keep a short list of activities or sites you may want to see, but wait to book until you get to Hawaii. You may find you don’t want to do that night manta ray dive after all, or a sunset picnic with the kids sounds better than a 4 hour long luau with hundreds of other people. Let your mood and vibe direct your plans, so keep them loose!

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    • When flying, reserve all technology use until the end of the flight or the kids start falling apart. We avoid small pieces/toys and stick to things like coloring, stickers, and a lot of snacks.
    • If you have a newly potty trained kiddo, invest in a travel potty seat that can fold into a chair with bags, or out as a seat on the big airplane toilet. It’s the best travel investment we’ve made.
    • Go with the flow. Expect that when you travel with kids things may not (definitely will not) go accordingly to plan. And that’s okay. Attitude really is everything. My husband and I always give one another a little fist bump before the beginning of a long journey. It’s our reminder to one another to not get cranky with each other and have each other’s back on whatever may come our way.

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    Hawaii favorites with kids

    • Favorite place to stay?  We like to stay on Kauai at Waipouli Village, but this most recent trip we stayed on Maui at Honua Kai Resort. For our upcoming trip to the big island of Hawaii we are renting a house through VRBO.
    • Favorite Hawaii activities?  Hiking, eating shave ice, and swimming in the ocean.
    • Favorite thing about Hawaii?  Simply being outside in the warm weather, exploring new places and savoring the laid back atmosphere of the islands.
    • Kids favorite thing to do in Hawaii?  The kids love the swimming pool, and I’d say if you’r traveling with small kids you definitely want to stay somewhere with a pool!
    • Recommended trip length?  Allow yourself enough time to adjust to time zones, get real relaxed, and figure things out before you have to pack stuff up again to leave. I say at least 10 days, but 2 weeks is ideal!
    • Best kid-friendly places to eat?  The Fresh Shave is the place to be for good shave ice that is made with all fresh ingredients and no artificial syrups!

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    Andrea Laughery lives in beautiful Washington state with her two kids and red-bearded husband. Together, they enjoy traveling, hiking, backpacking, and spending time in the great outdoors. Andrea also owns a small photography business, is constantly writing and putting her journalism degree to use, and works with a non-profit foundation. You can follow her over on Instagram @laughclan 

  • Gear Review: EcoSurvivor

    This post is sponsored by EcoSurvivor. The products were provided for review purposes. All opinions expressed and photos herein belong to the author. This post may contain affiliate links.

    Every now and then we come across a product or brand that we fall in love with. Whether it’s because the product is amazing, the brand is reputable or the company supports a worthwhile mission, we are all about promoting products we use and companies we believe in. EcoSurvivor is one of those brands that satisfies all of the above attributes. Their products encompass our nature-loving core values in every possible way. From recyclable packaging and energy efficient lighting and power solutions to supporting nonprofit partners like Water4 and their sustainable solutions that are saving millions of lives and changing the world into a cleaner, safer and more eco-friendly place for all.

    We had the chance to try out a few of the EcoSurvivor products and were super impressed with them. Not only were they durable enough to stand up to my kid’s abuse, but they’re super functional, practical and affordable. Plus, there’s the added bonus of feeling great about your purchase by supporting a company that’s making a difference in the lives of so many people around the world. If you and your family are outdoorsy, you’re going to love these products!

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    Durable dual-purpose products

    EcoSurvivor offers a wide-range of durable outdoor tech products such as lighting, speakers and battery packs. Lighting options include LED lanterns, pyramid tent lights, headlamps, night lights and compact lanterns. Their products strike the perfect balance between form and function without sacrificing performance. EcoSurvivor products are made to stand up to the elements – they’re water, dust, sand and impact resistant – making them the perfect gear for hiking, camping and outdoor adventures.

    Quite a few of their products are also dual-purpose, making them double handy when you’re outdoors and unplugged. Whether you need portable power combined with LED lighting or a Bluetooth speaker that can also charge your phone, EcoSurvivor products are reliable, versatile and always ready for the next adventure.

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    EcoSurvivor USB Lantern

    If you are an outdoor adventure seeker, make sure you add the EcoSurvivor USB Lantern to your gear list. Built for outdoor use, the lantern has a rugged, impact-resistant construction and rubberized gray finish. It’s waterproof, dust-proof, sand-proof and impact-resistant for those accidental drops and tumbles.  It has a locking carabiner handle for carrying or easy hanging in any location. It’s lightweight, brilliantly bright, tough and durable. This lantern will keep your path well lit during an evening hiking excursion or at the campsite after dark.

    The lantern’s energy efficient LEDs provide bright white light (800 lumens) anywhere you need it. The light is dimmable with 3 (high, medium, low) settings to choose from (high is super bright!). All it needs are 6 size D batteries and you’ll get 200-hours (!!) of  battery life when the lantern’s on low. The lantern has a 360° omnidirectional light, so it illuminates a much larger area than flashlights or headlamps. Plus, the light source never needs to be replaced.

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    But my favorite feature is the charger. In case of emergency, the lantern comes equipped with a standard USB port to charge your phone or mobile device using the lantern’s battery power. How handy is that when you’re out on the trail?

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    This lantern is a big hit at our house! My only regret is that we don’t have two of these, so the kids could each have their own. With a new baby in the house, we haven’t had time to take it camping or on a night hike, but we will soon! Instead, we are using it for evening backyard/neighborhood exploration in our pajamas (What? You don’t do this?), a bedtime nightlight and basement camping in the kids teepee downstairs. We even dined in the dark with only lantern light the other night, for fun (ok, maybe we’re weird).

    It’s stood up to constant love (abuse) from a rowdy 3 and 5 year old. I’m pretty sure it’s been dropped down the stairs a few times and it’s still in great shape. It’s lightweight enough for both kids to carry around and durable enough to be fought over and not break. We highly recommend!

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    EcoSurvivor Bluetooth Speaker

    We also had the chance to try out the EcoSurvivor Bluetooth Speaker. I don’t know about you, but we’ve gone through a number of outdoor Bluetooth speakers and have yet to find one that can stand up to the abuse we dish out by taking it hiking, biking, camping, canoeing and beaching. However, we may have finally found “the one.” The EcoSurvivor speaker is super durable and designed to withstand impact and vibration. The IP65 rating means it’s protected from dirt, rain and splashing water.

    This speaker pairs wirelessly with your smartphone, tablet or other Bluetooth device, giving you convenient access to your favorite playlists while you’re outdoors and on the go. It has a 30-foot range, perfect for playing DJ at a campsite or on a hike. Use the built-in rubber lanyard for a convenient carrying or hanging options. Perfect for the beach, home, poolside, golfcart and camping.

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    This portable speaker uses a rechargeable 4,000 mAh battery, which provides up to 12 hours of play time. It is equipped with a fuel gauge button – just press it to display the remaining battery capacity. Similar to the lantern, this speaker is dual-purpose! It features a USB port (1.0A output) so you can charge your other devices while you listen.

    This speaker is also a huge hit with the family. My husband and 3 year-old are the music lovers in our house and they take turns with it (or just fight over it). It’s constantly either playing Avett Brothers or the Trolls soundtrack (I’ll let you figure out who’s picking which). It’s a constant companion for my daughter in my playhouse in the backyard. We also take it with us on our evening bike/wagon rides around the neighborhood. The sound is great, the battery life is long and it’s survived multiple drops in the yard and on the street. We are hard on devices (not on purpose!), but this one has already taken a beating and lived to tell the tale.

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    EcoSurvivor + Water4 

    While I’m super impressed with the EcoSurvivor products, I’m even more impressed with their mission and charitable giving. When you buy EcoSurvivor products, you’re making a difference around the world. EcoSurvivor donates 50% of its net proceeds to Water4, a 501(c)3 charity that is committed to providing at-risk, indigenous people access to clean water.

    The biggest challenge for millions of people today is access to clean water. The world water crisis impacts nearly 1 billion people and causes over 3 million preventable deaths each year. Did you know that women in Africa walk an average distance of 3.75 miles to collect water? And did you know that 80 percent of illnesses in developing countries are linked to poor water and sanitation conditions?

    However, your EcoSurvivor purchase can help make this crisis become history. Jasco is helping the fight to end the water crisis by donating 50% of EcoSurvivor net proceeds to clean water projects with Water4 – a nonprofit organization empowering people to eradicate their own water crisis through entrepreneurship, education and technology. It’s Water4’s mission to see the global water crisis eradicated in this lifetime. With each new well that’s drilled — in some of the most remote, hostile places on Earth — the arrival of clean water improves the health of entire villages, provides dignity and self-reliance, freedom from waterborne disease and death, and the promise of long-term health and food security. Access to clean water is truly the foundation for transforming these communities.

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    For all EcoSurvivor products and to learn more about the company,
    please visit the EcoSurvivor website. 

  • Everything You Wanted to Know About Tinkergarten

    Raise your hand if you’ve ever heard of Tinkergarten? Tinkergarten offers outdoor, play-based education classes for kids 18 months to 8 years old (accompanied by an adult). Both kids and adults learn and grow together in the best classroom of all – nature! Tinkergarten believes that independent exploration, risk taking and getting a bit dirty help kids achieve great things – and we totally agree!

    Today we’re taking the opportunity to tell you everything you ever wanted to know about this awesome outdoor educational program. We’ll walk you through the basic structure of the class, explain why outdoor education is important and give you all kinds of info about becoming a Tinkergarten Leader. We even have a wonderful interview with an experienced Tinkergarten Leader out of Oklahoma City, who will answer all your questions about the process and her experience.

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    What is Tinkergarten?

    Tinkergarten is a fast-growing network of 1,300 leaders who run independent classes. Each Leader brings a wide range of experiences and talents to their job. The Tinkergarten curriculum is based on core educational values and adapts to your particular region and season. Lessons are age-appropriate and span a broad range of skills. The activities presented in class progressively build week after week, season after season.  In each class, kids are encouraged to drive their own learning – an engaging scenario allows kids to launch and direct their own play. No two kids ever have the same experience, because it’s the process that matters!

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    Some classes focus on a specific age range (such as 18-36 months, 3-5 years, etc). Others are available to children anywhere between 18 months and 8 years. By working with a smaller age range, classes can be more finely tailored to the developmental level of the children who participate.  The larger age range lets whole families participate together. This also provides a chance for younger kids to benefit from the modeling and support of older kids. For older kids, it offers them a chance to be leaders for their younger classmates. Age ranges are meant to be used as guidelines, and many activities can be adapted for younger or older children.

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    All Tinkergarten sessions take place outside, in a local public green space. Each class follows a loose structure that includes an opening circle, main activity, closing circle and snack. The main activity focuses on open-ended exploration and play where kids actively engage in imagining, exploring and/or problem solving. While this activity is planned and guided by an adult, the interests of the children play a large role in shaping the way it unfolds. Snack time then allows children and their adults to relax and reflect on their learning and experiences.

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    The importance of outdoor education

    Outdoor, play-based learning is a proven way to give children a solid foundation and love of education and nature.  According to Scientific American, “Nearly all developmental psychologists, neuroscientists and education experts recommend play for kids 0-7 as the best way to nurture development and ready them for academic success later in life.” It’s also been shown that 80+% of brain development occurs before the age of five. Foundational skills built in those first 5 years will affect learning for the rest of their life.

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    Time and again, research​ proves that spending time outdoors provides children with a wide range of health benefits including social and emotional well-being.  Outdoors in nature is the best classroom. When children play outdoors they are both stimulated and calmed. With the right guidance and learning opportunities, children open up, push limits, tinker, create, and problem  solve.  As a result of taking a Tinkergarten class, 82% of families spend more time playing  outdoors together and 92% of families gained new ways to engage in their  children’s play!

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    Try out a class

    If you’re at all interested in Tinkergarten, I highly encourage you to try out a class! Prior to the start of a class, leaders organize free class sessions so that parents and children can experience a “Taste of Tinkergarten.” These free events, and all classes, can be found by visiting the Tinkergarten website and finding your location. Spring classes are starting soon, so go ahead and get registered for a class. You can also join a class even after the session has started, if there’s room. Check out the Tinkergarten website to find a class in your area.

    My kids and I had the chance to check out a Tinkergarten class in our area last spring. The class we attended was in a (new to us) park that we were excited to explore. We started the class with an opening circle that included introductions and a song. Our main activity for the class was to create a fairy potion, using elements from nature. The kids all loved exploring the area and filling their individual jars with grass, twigs, leaves, flowers, rocks, acorns, etc. The kids explored the park, climbed the hill and stomped through the creek. They loved the freedom to perform the task at their own pace and having control over their own collection.

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    Once the jars were filled with natural elements, the Leader added water, food coloring and a bit of baking soda. The kids loved watching their potion boil and bubble – the look of magic on their faces was adorable! After the activity, we joined all the other kids on the tarp for snacks and another parting song or two. After the class, the kids all stuck around to continue their exploration of the park, while the parents chatted and caught up. Overall, it was a really fun experience for both the kids and the adults.

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    Become a Tinkergarten Leader

    Tinkergarten is currently looking for spirited nature-loving individuals to join their team. Tinkergarten Leaders are moms, dads, educators, artists, lawyers and more. Being a Tinkergarten leader is a meaningful opportunity for anyone who values nature, play and learning. It’s also a way for you to make additional income and set your own work schedule. Plus, if you’ve got kids, you can bring them to work, too! You don’t need any formal teaching experience to be a successful Tinkergarten Leader. All you need is a passion and joy for play, a love of the natural world and your community, an ability to connect with kids and a supportive, team spirit.

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    The Tinkergarten team is talented and supportive. You’ll receive comprehensive training in early childhood development, adult development, community outreach, and much more. You choose the time, location and amount of classes to run, so the scope of time commitment is up to you. Training takes place online—choose from day or evening sessions to ensure you can balance the work with life outside of Tinkergarten.

    If you’re interested in applying to be a Tinkergarten Leader or learning more about the process or how much you can earn, >>CLICK HERE<< for all the info!

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    Interview with Tinkergarten Leader LoriAnn Gregory

    1. Tell us a little about yourself and your background

    I grew up in Chicago, where I did well with the arts-rich school programming. However, I especially remember our extended visits to my grandparents’ farm in rural Georgia. I loved those wild summer days, transforming a dirt patch near the cow’s creek into our “castle,” sliding down steep deer runs in our “Georgia jeans” (the ones with permanently red-clay-tinged seats), and constantly tweaking our toilet paper holder design for the designated squat spot in the woods.
    I graduated from Hendrix College with a Bachelor of Arts in interdisciplinary studies and my teaching license. Since then, I’ve also become a certified parenting educator through the Positive Discipline Association, and am currently pursuing naturalist training through Wilderness Awareness School’s Kamana program. Of course, I completed Tinkergarten’s excellent leader training course before leading, and also love the additional training courses they offer leaders.
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    2. Describe your family

    My husband and I have two children. My wild 8 year-old daughter would rather be outside, ideally barefoot in a tree, than anywhere else. She celebrated her recent birthday by suiting up in  “explorer gear” and exploring the muddy banks of a local wildlife refuge lake. My son is 5 and seems to have the mind of an engineer, constantly surprising us with impressive inventions from loose parts found in the backyard and the recycling bin. My husband joins us on all our hiking, camping, and stargazing adventures, and is especially enthusiastic about the kids’ other main interest, LEGO!

    3. Where/when did your love of nature begin?

    I loved my childhood summers on my grandparent’s farm, and teenage summers working at an outdoor recreation camp, but I don’t think I really recognized my love for nature specifically until my daughter was born and I began to learn about birds, wildflowers, and animal tracks with her, and to see how spending time in nature calmed and centered me in the same way it clearly did her.

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    4. What are your favorite outdoor activities to do with your kids?

    I especially like camping and canoeing as a family, but in all our outdoor adventures, my favorite memories are those unplanned, still moments between more active activities. When the kids and I quietly picnicked in our sit spots after a long hike last week and saw a juvenile hawk swoop over the heads of nearby joggers (who had headphones in and never looked up!), when our Tinkergarten class time has been over for hours but my kids and others from class are still playing in the “house” formed by low cedar branches while us grown-ups get to chat, when I wake the kids at 3am to see a few shooting stars before they fall back asleep — those are the moments I love most.

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    5. Have you ever taught before? What made you consider teaching?

    Yes, I graduated college with a teaching license and did my student teaching in middle school social studies classes before moving overseas to work with an educational development program. After 5 years there, my family moved back to the U.S., and I began teaching adults in parenting classes. And, now I lead Tinkergarten sessions and homeschool my kids. I’ve said I wanted to be a teacher from the time I was in Kindergarten, but have certainly ended up teaching in different ways than I would have expected!

    6. What drew you to the Tinkergarten program/curriculum? How long have you been with them?

    We’re a homeschooling family, and I draw inspiration from philosophies including Waldorf, Forest School, Reggio Emilia, and more. A mom I knew online through a Forest School-inspired homeschooling Facebook group told me about Tinkergarten when she began leading in early 2016. I loved what she told me of the curriculum as well as how the weekly classes had developed a community of kids and families, both homeschoolers and other young children. A few months later, I completed my training, and that summer was my first season to lead! I’m currently leading my 8th consecutive season.

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    7. What are your favorite Tinkergarten classroom projects?

    Tinkergarten leaders joke that every week becomes our new favorite! I’m especially fond of the open-ended silly play inspired by a few favorite stories from my own childhood, like Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs and Going On a Bear Hunt, several STEM-themed activities we do with materials like boards for balances and rope/buckets for pulleys, and all the sensory-rich experiences ranging from making mud faces on tree trunks to painting thank-you cards for our local parks departments using color from nature (berries, beets, juicy leaves, and dirt!)

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    8. What are the biggest obstacles parents face regarding getting their kids outdoors more?

    I think the biggest obstacles parents face regarding getting their kids outdoors more are scheduling and unknowns. I’m in several outdoor playgroups, and often make park plans with local friends. However, it takes a strong commitment to get everyone’s schedules aligned on a consistent basis. It’s much harder than it feels like it should be! Tinkergarten’s been a great way for us to “schedule in free play,” so to speak.

    Unknowns include concerns about “what ifs” (what if my potty training toddler has to go right when we get there; what if they cry about today’s strong wind; what if that plant he’s rolling in is poison ivy). Parents today have questions about what to do in outdoor spaces. Especially if that kind of unstructured play time wasn’t a part of the adult’s own childhood. I know I benefit from spending time outside with others who know things I don’t — whether that’s which bug spray really works or how to empathize with a child’s fears while encouraging them to move past them. The more we get outdoors, the fewer the unknowns. My experiences tell me that I can handle whatever might “go wrong” — and it’ll probably join my favorite memories as a funny story for later.

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    9. What lessons do you want kids (and parents) to take away from your classes?

    I hope kids will extend their play from our class activities. Their imagination sparked by the engaging inspirations and materials we use in class. I want them to benefit from the balance of familiar routine and freedom we create in our sessions, and all that they observe in their peers’ play. From the photos and texts adults send me after class, I’d say it’s been a success! This week, I got to attend a homeschool event led by a 6 year-old who’s been in several Tinkergarten seasons. I loved noticing how her leadership mirrored much of what we model in class. I’m confident that over time I’ll see more and more examples of children carrying the skills they’re developing in Tinkergarten class. Not only into the rest of their childhood, but also forward into the strong, creative, confident, collaborating problem-solving adolescents and adults they’ll become.
    I want parents and other adults who come to class to feel more confident in their ability to adventure with their young kids outside. I want them to become more aware of their child’s development.  I’d like to teach them how to redirect less exciting behaviors (like coloring the kitchen cabinets) into equally developmentally appropriate ones (like smashing berries into mud). But most of all, I want them to have more FUN engaging in their child’s play. After a Tinkergarten class, I hope kids and adults alike feel more connected to our community and natural surroundings!
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    10. What advice would you give someone considering enrolling as a Tinkergarten instructor?

    I highly recommend attending a Tinkergarten class near you if at all possible. So much of Tinkergarten is about the experience which you can only pick up by being there — the moments when words AREN’T said, the variety of ways different children interact with the same materials, the moment when a leader helps adults feel okay with a lull in the group’s play — lulls are always so exciting, as they tend to precede a deepening of each child’s play!). Of course, that’s not always an option, as it wasn’t for me back when I joined and there were few leaders in this part of the country, so a great second option would be choosing one of Tinkergarten’s free DIY Activities and trying it out in your own backyard or favorite park!
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    If you’re interested in applying to be a Tinkergarten Leader
    or learning more about the process or how much you can earn,
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    for all the info!

    And be sure to check out the Tinkergarten website to sign up for a Spring session class in your area.

  • Planning A Multi-Family Vacation with Friends

    The only thing better than a relaxing getaway, is one filled with friends for both the adults and the kids.  A multi-family vacation sounds like a brilliant idea when first conceived (especially after a few glasses of wine). It provides entertainment for the children, company and conversation for the grown-ups, shared cooking, shared help, shared experiences and the chance to rent a bigger, nicer house! What’s not to love about that?

    However, being great friends doesn’t always mean you’re vacation-compatible. Vacationing with other families can be stressful, particularly if you have different parenting styles, vacation expectations or financial constraints. Travel can definitely bring out the stress in everyone. That, coupled with the fact that everyone has their own idea of how a vacation should go, can make traveling with other families a recipe for disaster. But thankfully, we’re here to help!

    Vacationing with friends is a wonderful experience. A shared vacation creates priceless memories that last a lifetime and solidify friendships between the adults and the kids. As long as everyone is willing to communicate their needs upfront and compromise when necessary, vacationing with another family can be a lot of fun.

    I’ve been vacationing with the same group of girlfriends for 15+ years, so we’re very aware of each other’s vacation style. However, adding spouses and kids to the vacation adds a whole new dimension to vacation planning and travel. But it also makes the vacation so much more meaningful. This past fall we all took a long weekend getaway to a house in the country, on a little river surrounded by horses and hiking trails and fishing holes. It was such a wonderful way to recharge and reconnect with friends. It was a delight to get to spend time with their children and watch them interact with mine. The husbands and the kids all got along famously, as we all hoped. And I left the trip feeling so proud of the mothers that my friends had become and fell madly in love with the beautiful families they created.

    Of course, even a weekend trip takes lots of planning and communication. We learned a lot from our adventure and know what we’ll do differently the next time around. So, whether you’re planning a major vacation or just a weekend getaway, here are 8 tips that will help ensure a successful multi-family trip.

    1. Choose who you travel with wisely

    The most important factor in having a successful vacation is choosing compatible travel companions. Just because you really like a certain couple or you adore their kids doesn’t mean they are the right family to travel with you. Before asking another family to tag along on a trip, ask yourself the following questions:

    • How do the kids all get along?
    • Do their kids bring out the best in yours and vice versa?
    • Do the families have similar interests?
    • Will the destination be desirable for both families?
    • Do the families have similar parenting styles?
    • Will all the kids have someone close in age to them or will one be left out?
    • Do you like the parents enough to spend 24 hours a day with them for the duration of the trip?
    • Would you be comfortable with the other parents correcting or disciplining your kids?
    • Do you have similar budgets and vacation expectations?

    2. Discuss, discuss, discuss

    Communication is the key to a great vacation with other families. It is essential to have planning meetings to thoroughly discuss the trip and reach a consensus on as many of the details as possible prior to a multi-family vacation. The key to a successful vacation is for everyone involved to communicate during the planning stage and not make any assumptions. The more that has been discussed beforehand, the less chance there will be conflict during the vacation. Even if one parent or family is taking the lead on making arrangements, it is important to obtain agreement from all other parties before finalizing anything.

    Vacation discussions are often best done in person, but if everyone is busy, then email or a group chat also works. Be sure someone is keeping a list of who’s bringing what (if you’re sharing responsibilities), who’s making arrangements and any other pertinent info. Create a spreadsheet or use Google Docs so everyone has access to the most up-to-date version.

    3. Outline vacation goals & styles

    Part of the pre-vacation discussion should be about your vacation goals and vacation styles. Be honest and upfront about what your family’s vacation goals are, what you want to do, how much work you’re willing to do (cooking, planning, etc.), what you want to see/accomplish, etc. And make sure you know what the other family’s goals are, as well so you can be accommodating. It’s fine to have different goals and vacation styles (even within the same family), so long as you communicate them and don’t assume that a “vacation” looks the same for everyone.

    Think about your vacation goals and style and how you want to spend your time:

    • Sight-see or sit on the beach all day?
    • Activities scheduled for every day or do you wing it?
    • Cook at home or go to restaurants for meals?
    • Get up early or stay up late enjoying a few drinks?
    • Strict rules on foods/snacks, bedtime, screen time, etc.? Are you willing to make exceptions while on vacation?

    Again, it’s all about compromise. You don’t have to have the exact same goals or style as the other family to get along, but be honest about your expectations and what you’re willing to comprise on. And if you find that you don’t share a lot of common vacation interests, it might be wise to reconsider. That certainly doesn’t mean you can’t still be friends.

    4. Make sure everyone is comfortable with the budget

    Reaching consensus is especially important when it comes to the vacation budget. We all have a specific idea in our heads about how much we want to spend on a vacation and how much we can spend. If all the adults aren’t in sync about budgets for travel, rental car, hotels, rental houses, day trips, restaurants, groceries, activities and excursions, you could run into some uncomfortable moments and resentment.

    Make certain everyone is comfortable upfront with vacation costs, when things should be paid and how. Try to split items as evenly as possible when families are sharing the experience. Acknowledge when/if one family will voluntarily take on additional expenses. For example, if two families are renting a five bedroom home and one family will be using three bedrooms, then will the two families split the cost evenly or will one family pay a greater share?

    5. Give each family some space

    Being in close quarters with your own family for an entire vacation can be stressful enough. Being in too-close quarters with another family could cause a vacation disaster. If you’re staying in a house all together, make sure there’s room for each family to retreat and recharge. Adequate outdoor space also helps family members to spread out and get away from one another whenever necessary. All that togetherness can sometimes be too much.

    It’s also a good idea to split up for activities from time to time so that everyone can pursue their own interests. It’s particularly easy to do this when vacationing at a theme park, a large resort or cruise, but it’s possible to plan some time apart on any type of vacation.

    6. Make sure the kids are compatible

    Incompatible grown-ups traveling together can be stressful. But at least they can practice their best acting skills and gut it out through the trip. However, kids aren’t so good at grinning and bearing it. Little kids are pretty good at being friends with whoever is around. But, older kids have much stronger feelings regarding their friends. Make sure all the kids are compatible and that one kid isn’t set up to fail by having no other kids his or her age in the group. If the kids are happy, it’s easier for the parents to be happy, too.

    7. Ease up on the rules

    If you’re strict about your kids’ bedtime or sticking to a super healthy eating regime, that’s great for home. However, don’t expect it to work on vacation in the same way. Especially when the other family you’re with might have different rules. Talk to the other parents ahead of time about when their kids go to bed, how much screen time they’re allowed, and come up with a group consensus on how it should (ideally) go on the trip. Apply the same rules to all the kids (or at least those the same age) so they feel treated equally.

    8. Let it go

    Travel can be stressful and travel with kids can be really stressful. If another parent loses it on their kid after at some point in the trip, assume your friend is just having a bad vacation moment and let it go. Hopefully that friend will do the same when you have a less than graceful moment with your kids or spouse. Try not to judge and absolutely do not gossip about your friend or any undesirable behavior after the trip.

    I hope these tips help you with planning a successful multi-family vacation.
    Whether it’s a major vacation or just a weekend getaway, it’s a whole lot more fun adventuring together!
    Do you have any great tips for planning a multi-family vacation?