Month: April 2023

  • CAMP, FAVORITE GEAR, HIKE, OUTDOOR ACTIVITIES

    What I Learned From My First Backpacking Trip with Kids

    If you love camping, hiking, and a challenge, backpacking is the next step! Backpacking with kids can be an exciting and rewarding experience, but it can also be challenging if you’re not adequately prepared. But, where do you even begin? Today, St. Louis mom of three, Steph Hampton is here to share her family’s recent backpacking experience. As a first-time backpacker with kids, Steph learned that planning and preparation are essential to ensure a successful trip, and she’s sharing some of the tips and tricks she learned from her first time backpacking with kids with you today. 

    tips and advice for parents for backpacking with kids for the first time

    Our first backpacking with kids experience

    Here’s an idea…why don’t we take our three young kids camping deep in the woods, with just the stuff we can carry on our backs?

    Well, why not?!!

    My husband and I love nature, love camping, and we love a good challenge. We have always wanted to take our kids backpacking, but until recently, it seemed too daunting. Particularly with three kids (ages 5, 3 & 1).  What if we forgot something important? What if there was an emergency? What if…what if…what if.

    But…what if we did it?! 

    We prepped and researched as much as we could to get us to a point where we felt very comfortable taking this leap. Leveling up our outdoor adventures isn’t new to us. We started cabin camping before progressing to car camping, then primitive camping. Backpacking felt like the next logical (albeit much more challenging) step, and we couldn’t wait to give it a try! 

    We checked our schedules and found we had an open weekend in March and decided to go for it! This would not only be the first backpacking trip for my daughters but for me, as well! We can do hard things together. 

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    Hiking to our campsite at Cuivre River State Park

    Choosing a backpacking campsite

    One of the first things we did when we were ready to go backpacking was start researching backpacking campsites near us. When you’re choosing a backpacking site for a family, there are several factors to consider, including safety, accessibility, and amenities. Here are some tips from our experience. 

    Start close to home

    We searched our state park website for sites that offered backcountry camping within an hour of us. We chose to stick a little closer to home for our first time because those are the trails and areas we’re most familiar with. Plus, if we needed to bail for any reason, we’d be relatively close to home. For those familiar with the St. Louis area, we chose Cuivre River State Park (one hour NW from St. Louis). We chose this location because we were familiar with the park, knew there was cell service if we had an emergency come up, and we were close to a city. 

    Consider making reservations

    Some backcountry campsites are first-come-first-served and some allow you to make reservations to reserve your location. If you’re a serious planner or backpacking during peak season, I’d recommend starting with a campsite that you can reserve so that you’re guaranteed your space. If you’re up for being spontaneous or camping in places where they’re not much of a crowd, you can be more flexible when selecting a site. The campsite we chose did not take reservations in advance, but was available when we arrived (it’s not peak camping season here yet). We were thankful the site was open! We learned to search for future backpacking sites that we are able to reserve ahead of time.

    Choose a location within a doable distance

    Because you have to hike (with all your gear!) to your campsite, we chose a site down a trail that was just 1.5 miles from the trailhead. It was a great distance for all of us with what we were carrying and doable for even our youngest child. We carried everything we needed, but also had extra supplies (food & water) in the van (only 1.5 miles away), just in case. 

    Could we have hiked a longer trail? Totally! But, our goal was to test out our gear and the backpacking experience. We were glad we went with a shorter trail because we didn’t feel rushed at all. We could enjoy our time in the woods with the girls.

    This also was a more rustic trail (limited trail markers), so it was helpful that it was shorter to locate the correct backpacking site. Before we planned our trip, we kept in mind what distance our kids could confidently hike based on prior experiences. Our family hikes normally vary between 0.5 miles to 5 miles, so we were happy to find a backcountry trail this distance that all three of our daughters could hike independently. 

    Enjoying a granola breakfast around the campfire. Our girls are wearing Merrell hiking shoes from Laurie’s Shoes, which we loved for traction on the trail!

    How to get your kids involved in backpacking

    Getting your kids involved in backpacking can be a fun and exciting for them. Kids are natural helpers and love getting to be involved in the process. Here are some tips to help you get your kids interested in (and excited about) backpacking:

    Let them make choices

    Our kids helped us choose our backpacking site and how we got there. They had fun looking at the park map to find out what route we should take to get to our campsite. Once we arrived, we let them help pick the spot for our tent and where we’d set things up. Giving them choices throughout the process made them more excited about the adventure and invested in it. 

    Meal plan

    Our kids also helped choose our weekend meals They each brought their own hiking backpack that carried a family meal, their spork, and their water bottle. This added to their excitement, as they had more responsibility and helped our family. We usually bring a large cooler for our previous camping experiences but were not able to when backpacking, so this was a different experience. We all felt empowered by carrying everything on our backs, including our food and water. 

    Packing help

    We prepped our kids that we are bringing only the bare necessities, and then got them involved in the packing process. When we car camp, our kids are used to bringing toys, many baby dolls, doll clothes, picture books, etc. But for backpacking, we all agreed ahead of time that they would each be able to bring one lovey. They had fun choosing that one special item and were excited to take it on our adventures. The girls did surprisingly great throughout the trip with limited toys. It was so neat to see their imagination blossom when playing in the woods. A huge fallen tree became the Polar Express train, and a pile of leaves and sticks became a chef’s kitchen to feed their loveys. 

    Starting our 1.5 mile trail to the site, sporting our Deuter backpacking packs

    Hiking to the campsite

    The hike to our campsite was only 1.5 miles, but it can still be challenging to keep kids entertained and moving down the trail. Here are a few tips and tricks we implement when hiking with kids to keep their spirits high and their little feet moving!  

    Search

    Our daughters were in charge of finding the trail markers, which is always a fun “I Spy” game. The trail markers were limited on the trail to our campsite, so it was really helpful to have a few more eyes searching! From the “I Spy” of trail markers, we also transitioned to search for animals, flowers, trees, and animal tracks.

    Sing songs

    Dancing and singing always seem more fun in the woods. My husband and I brought back ALLLLLLL the scout songs when we entered parenthood. Princess Pat, Boom Chicka Boom, or Alice the Camel, anyone? We also like to make up songs from what we see on a hike (nature, animals, weather, etc). Singing and dancing definitely keep us moving!

    Carry ultra-light backpacking gear

    I highly recommend ultra-light gear when you’re backpacking. 1.5 miles might not sound like a long distance, but heavy gear can make any distance feel grueling. As this was our first family backpacking trip, we did have to make some purchases of ultra-light items, and I was thankful for the light weight of our gear. My husband carried 45 pounds in his pack, while I carried 35 pounds in my pack. (Normally, I carry my 30lb daughter in a hiking backpack on hikes, so this wasn’t too different for me!) If you’re not used to a hiking with a heavy pack, the shorter distance and ultra-light gear can make a huge difference. 

    Involving our kids in setting up our tent

    Tent setup

    Include your kids in the setup process

    We let our girls help figure out where the best spot to set up the tent would be and got them involved in each step of the process. Do you want the tent on a slope or flat? Why do we need a tarp under the tent? All of these questions helped the girls be more invested in our tent setup. Their favorite part was snapping the tent poles together!

    Organize the inside of your tent

    Inside our tent, our girls were thrilled to play “Tetris” to figure out where everyone should sleep. They helped blow up our insulated sleeping pads and roll out our sleeping bags (my husband and I had sleeping bags, while our daughters wore Morrison Outdoors wearable sleeping bags). We were camping in the spring and the temperature got down to 40 degrees at night. I was a little cold at one point, but everyone else was warm enough. While we had a 4-person tent with 5 people, we were all on one side of the tent by the morning, snuggling. 

    Vestibule

    Our tent has a vestibule (an outer room) we could use to set things up before entering the tent. Our girls thought this was the coolest thing to have a “tent porch” and were excited to lay out our hiking shoes there. This helped to keep our gear dry, as it rained a bit throughout the night. 

    Cuddling as the sun rises

    Our first-time backpacking tips and takeaways

    Lower your expectations

    As with anything with kids, be flexible and lower your expectations! Did you lower them? Now lower them again! Don’t set yourself up for failure thinking that this will be an easy, peaceful, restful experience. Backpacking (and all camping) is work, and anytime you get kids out of their comfort zone, there will be hiccups.

    My husband and I went into the trip knowing that we would probably not get much sleep, and that helped (because we didn’t). Our two older daughters slept through the night, but our youngest was very excited and had a pretty hard time sleeping. This meant she was climbing over us and all through the tent all night long. At one point she went over to her older sisters, tapped their heads, and said, “Sisters, awake?” In our previous tent camping experiences, we brought a pack n’ play for her to keep her contained and provide some familiarity. With all the space (and us!) I don’t know she knew what to do with herself! For us, lowering our expectations helped because the experience was so worth the limited sleep! 

    Next time, we’ll make reservations

    As I mentioned above, some backcountry campsites allow you to make reservations, and we already reserved our next campsite for our next adventure! This one will have a little longer trail (at Hawn State Park for Missourians) and a water source available, so we can filter our own water and not have to pack in so much (you go through more water than you realize). 

    Keep it simple

    Our biggest takeaway was just how much fun it was to unplug, live simply, and have fun. One of the most unexpected benefits of backpacking is how you realize just how simply you can live and that you really don’t need that much stuff. We could only bring the most absolute essentials on our backs, so we didn’t have the option to overpack. And it was wonderful!

    Although, I will admit that I splurged and brought s’mores fixings (because it’s not really camping without s’mores, right?). I put the graham crackers in a Tupperware container so they didn’t crumble. This luxury item was totally worth the little extra weight!

    Peace in the woods at night!

    Making the leap to backpacking

    Camping as a family is my favorite outdoor activity because it allows us to unplug and spend real quality time together, just the five of us. No technology (except the occasional phone photo), no laundry, no home projects…just special time together bonding, playing, and adventuring. 

    There is something for everyone in the outdoors, whether it is a family walk in the neighborhood, hiking in the woods, or camping. If camping is something you also enjoy, but you’re unsure about taking the leap to backpacking, I highly encourage you to go for it! Start small and give it a try! The family memories are well worth it!

    Have you ever gone backpacking?
    Where will your family adventure together next?

    About the author

    Steph lives in St. Louis with her husband, Mark, their three daughters (ages 5, 3 & 1), and their funny pup. Steph taught elementary school for five years and became a stay-at-home mom when her first child was born. When the pandemic hit and the playgrounds were closed, she started taking her kids hiking on a different trail each day. Steph is also a NICU mama (her 2nd daughter was born 3 months early). The outdoors has been so healing for her and her family, not to mention fun!

    Since the pandemic started, their family has visited over 175 parks and hiked over 200 trails around St. Louis and Missouri. Their family also loves to tent camp, canoe, and bike. Steph has a passion for exploring the outdoors, helping start a free, weekly nature playgroup, and sharing adventure tips with others. When she is not hiking, she loves baking, reading, and dreaming of being a Survivor contestant. 

    You can find more from Steph in the following locations:
    Instagram: @explorestlparks
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  • INFORMATION, OUTDOOR ACTIVITIES

    10 Ways Your Public Library Can Help You Get Outdoors

    Public libraries have always been places for learning and exploring, but they can also play a role in promoting outdoor activities and helping families spend more time outside. Libraries today can provide families with so much more than just books. Emily Liebel, Salt Lake City mom of three and book lover over at Inclusive Library, is here sharing 10 creative ways public libraries can help kids and families learn about their environment, appreciate local nature, and spend more time outside adventuring together! By promoting outdoor activities and environmental education, public libraries can play a vital role in fostering a love of nature and sustainability in the next generation.

    How hour library can help you get outdoors over three images of kids

    How your public library can help you get outdoors

    Public libraries are meant to be hubs for community and education. But, they can be underutilized in many ways beyond checking out interesting books. There are wonderful (and free!) resources curated by attentive librarians that we should be taking advantage of, many of which can actually be a springboard for helping kids and families spend more time outdoors.

    Here is a list of 10 ways that libraries can help kids and families spend more time outdoors, each of which I’ll cover in more detail below:

    1. outdoor reading and storytimes
    2. park passes and library partnerships
    3. community exploration programs
    4. nature-themed book kits
    5. seed libraries and gardening programs
    6. story walks
    7. gear and equipment loans
    8. outdoor classes, workshops, and events
    9. books
    10. outdoor architecture of the library

    Literacy Kit Contents. A seed packet, pot, and book.

    1. Outdoor reading programs and storytime

    Public libraries can organize outdoor reading programs where children can enjoy books while being outdoors. The library can set up reading tents, chairs, and blankets in a park or a garden and encourage children to read books or listen to stories while being surrounded by nature.

    Many libraries plan their story time events to be outdoors when the weather is warm enough.  This is a great way to get a little extra time outside while also participating in other enriching programs. The downtown branch in SLC has amphitheater seating connected to the children’s section for this purpose. Some libraries provide blankets or mats for the children to sit on and brings out books and games for kids to read and play with outside.

    2. Outdoor park passes and library partnerships

    Some libraries partner with local parks and recreation departments, as well as outdoor educational places, to offer passes (or discounted admission) to nearby parks, zoos, conservation areas, botanical gardens, arboretums, wildlife centers, and nature preserves. This allows families to explore the natural beauty of their community and get immersed in nature.

    These partnerships can also include joint programs, such as educational workshops, presentations, or storytimes hosted at these outdoor venues. By partnering with these organizations, libraries can offer unique learning experiences that allow children to engage with and learn about the natural world.

    For example, while living in Georgia, I took my child to the Atlanta Zoo for free through our local public library. The Pines Library System has a DVD that you can check out and learn about the history and information on the Atlanta Zoo. When you return the DVD, the librarian prints a receipt that you take directly to the zoo to free admission for four. You can check out the DVD once a year.

    The Georgia Public Library Service also provides state park passes to patrons. You can check these out the same way you’d borrow a book. You can also check out a discovery pack along with the pass. These packs have information about the 48 state parks that participate and a pair of binoculars.

    Some libraries also offer national park passes that you can check out! 

    A child and adult holding hands while wading in water with a waterfall in the background

    3. Community exploration programs

    Public libraries can offer community exploration programs that encourage families to get out and explore their local area. These programs can take many forms, such as scavenger hunts, self-guided tours, or neighborhood walking groups. These activities can highlight interesting landmarks, historical sites and architecture, public art, or hidden gems in the area.

    Community exploration programs not only encourage families to get outside and be physically active but also help them develop a deeper appreciation and understanding of their local area. By discovering new places and learning about the history and ecology of their community, families can feel more connected to their environment and to each other.

    In Michigan, the Ann Arbor Public Library System hosts “The Summer Games“. Kids spend the summer earning badges and prizes by solving puzzles or riddles, looking for clues at each library location, and walking around their neighborhoods and the city at large looking for hidden QR codes at volunteer houses or businesses. Our first year participating was during 2020 lockdowns, and the library  organized the games to be almost entirely outdoors while finding codes in windows or yards.

    Now we live in Utah and the Salt Lake City Library (SLC) System offers a lottery system for Community Exploration Cards. Each month, a limited number of enrolled people are provided with free passes for four people to city centers like the Tracy Aviary, Red Butte Gardens, the Natural History Museum, and more. I enjoy taking my kids to Tracy Aviary because there are so many interesting and active birds, they do regular shows and classes, and there are fun playgrounds and sand pits. 

    a child looking at an elephant at the zoo4. Nature-themed book kits

    Every library I’ve visited has “book kits,” which are curated backpacks or tote bags full of books and supplies on a specific theme. You can find kits on animals, insects,  instruments, food, the weather, languages, botany, geology, outdoor activities (e.g. camping, hiking, etc.), and so much more. They can also include field guides, outdoor activity books, and exploration tools such as magnifying glasses or binoculars. The kits are a great way to encourage kids to learn about the habitats and ecosystems of their local area, and develop a lifelong love of nature and environmental stewardship.

    In addition to the books and tools included in the kit, libraries can also provide activity suggestions or challenges that encourage kids to get outside and put their newfound knowledge into practice. For example, we’ve participated in library challenges for kids where they’re expected to identify and photograph different birds or insects they find on a hike or to create a nature journal to document their outdoor adventures.

    Our most recent kit had a gardening theme. In the SLC libraries, the kits include five books and a small selection of free-to-keep materials. The gardening kit ‘keep’ portion included a seed packet and a pot, a book, and some stickers. My kids check on their small wildflower pot daily. We read the books outdoors while planning where to plant all our seeds- which were also provided by the library!

    Library literacy kit backpack about gardeninga child looking through a library display called the seed library

    5. Seed libraries and gardening programs

    Public libraries can use seed libraries and gardening programs to help get kids outside and engaged in nature. Seed libraries allow library patrons to borrow packets of seeds to plant in their own gardens or outdoor spaces. These seed libraries can include a variety of seeds, such as fruits, vegetables, flowers, and herbs, and can be used to encourage children and families to start their own gardens at home.

    In addition to seed libraries, many public libraries offer gardening programs that provide educational opportunities for children to learn about gardening and environmental stewardship. These programs include information on starting a garden, caring for plants, and harvesting fruits and vegetables. They can also include activities such as creating a compost bin or building a birdhouse to attract local wildlife.

    Through seed libraries and gardening programs, public libraries can inspire children to get outside and engage with nature. Children can learn about the natural world, the importance of sustainability, and the benefits of growing their own food. Gardening can also promote physical activity and healthy habits, as well as provide a sense of accomplishment and connection to the environment.

    The seeds we will be planting in our home garden this year were all provided for free by our local public library. Many SLC and Salt Lake County branches have displays full of seed packets. You pick out the ones you want from an incredible selection, and a librarian will add them to your account. Once you plant your seeds, you take the leftovers back to be checked out by someone else. We will be spending many hours this spring outdoors planting and tending green beans, tomatoes, strawberries, and wildflowers that we found at our local branch. 

    a library display of seeds. books about gardening and a packet of green bean seeds can be seen

    6. Story walks

    A story walk is an outdoor literary experience where pages of a children’s book are posted along a walking path or trail. As children walk along the path, they read the story in order and engage in physical activity.

    Story walks can be used to promote literacy, physical activity, and outdoor exploration. Often they’re hosted at local parks or nature reserves, allowing children to engage with nature while also enjoying a fun and educational experience. The stories selected for story walks can be just for fun, or themed around nature, ecology, or adventure, and can be curated to fit the interests and reading levels of different age groups.

    Public libraries can partner with local parks and community organizations to organize story walks in their area. They can also provide additional resources and activities related to the story, such as craft activities or educational worksheets, to further engage children in the story and encourage them to learn more about the topic.

    7. Gear and equipment loans

    Depending on where you live, your local public library could offer a variety of outdoor equipment and gear that help and encourage families to get outside and explore the natural world.

    The “library of things” movement has gained a lot of traction in libraries across the country. This movement refers to libraries loaning items well outside the traditional realm of books and audiovisual materials. Popular collections now include toys and games, camping equipment, and fishing gear. The gear is FREE to rent and use and can dramatically reduce the often-heavy and burdensome price point of entry for outdoor activities and hobbies.

    Here are some examples of gear and equipment you could get from your local public library to help you spend more time outside:

    • Outdoor games and sports equipment: Some public libraries offer equipment for outdoor sports and games such as frisbee, soccer, basketball, and tennis. We’ve heard of libraries that loan kayaks, stand-up paddleboards, and canoes!
    • Camping gear: There are libraries that provide camping equipment such as tents, sleeping bags, and portable stoves to help families plan and enjoy outdoor camping trips.
    • Biking gear: Libraries can provide bikes for families to borrow, as well as helmets, locks, and bike repair kits to ensure safety and convenience.
    • Fishing equipment: Libraries can offer fishing rods, reels, and tackle boxes to encourage families to try their hand at fishing. 
    • Technology gear: Some public libraries also let you check out technological equipment such as microscopes, telescopes, GoPros, and binoculars.  

    a child reading books outdoors next to some flowers

    8. Outdoor classes, workshops, and events

    Events such as classes, workshops or presentations where kids learn about nature are great ways that public libraries can help you get outside. If you check your local library website, you will find events listed that cater to different age groups. These can be recurring meeting or special events. Not every class will be geared towards the outdoors, but we can find many that do. Outdoor classes and events hosted by libraries in local parks or natural areas can provide a fun and interactive way for families to explore nature and learn about their community, while also engaging in a creative activity.

    Our local library host outdoor crafting workshops where kids can make crafts using materials found in nature, such as leaves, flowers, and twigs, which can spark an interest in exploring the natural world and encourage kids to spend more time outside collecting materials for future crafts. Books, guides, and online resources can give kids ideas for outdoor crafts, such as making birdhouses, nature collages, or planters using recycled materials.

    If you are looking for simpler materials that you bring along outside, ask your children’s librarian what they have available. Each week, our local public library will print coloring pages, bookmarks, and other crafting packets that you can pick up for free. These are great to color outdoors: in your backyard, on a picnic, or take on your hike.

    a stack of library books outdoors

    9. Books

    Of course, there are always books to check out! Any book you and your children find interesting from the library can be packed along and taken with you on your outdoor adventures. Take a book to a park or read on your patio furniture for a relaxing moment outdoors.

    You can also check out books that are specifically about nature, wildlife, the environment, and the outdoors. These are great options to learn more about an activity you’re about to do or to enjoy fun stories about spending time outside. 

    Check out books about a state park you will soon visit to learn about the best trails and the history. Check out a book with information about insects that you can then find in your own yard. Whether you browse for these books yourself or ask your librarian for recommendations, there are books that cover many interesting topics. Additionally, many library systems can borrow books from other locations if your specific branch doesn’t carry what you’re looking for. 

    two children walking outdoors next to a library

    10. The outdoor architecture of the library

    I love visiting every library branch when I move somewhere new. I have even been known to seek out the local branch of places I visit on vacation. This is because each and every building is unique to simply physically visit. As I said in the beginning, libraries are meant to be hubs for the community. Their spaces must then be inviting and useful to the community they serve. I have found libraries in which I would love to spend hours meeting with others from my community.  

    Some branches I’ve visited, such as the Glendale and Marmalade branches in SLC and the Oconee branch in Georgia, have courtyards where kids can enjoy their newly checked-out books or eat their snacks in the sun. In some of these courtyards, librarians provide chalk or bubbles that the kids can use while out in the space.

    In Milwaukee, Wisconsin, the Tippecanoe branch has a spectacular outdoor space complete with a “Secret Garden” inspired garden and bioswales. This library has also taken steps to combat some of its carbon footprint. They use solar panels and have a permeable parking lot to reduce stormwater runoff. Visiting a library such as this one is a great way to supplement our kids’ education on caring for our planet.

    The downtown branch in SLC is an impressive building with a rooftop terrace. There are trees, grass, and multiple seating areas for all patrons. The terrace has 360-degree views of the valley and the Wasatch Mountains. It is always engaging to take kids up to point out different sights on the mountains or areas they might recognize. 

    a child walking outdoors in the library eco-garden

    Ways your public library can help families get outside

    When you are short on ideas, supplies, or money for new outdoor adventures, your library will help you out. I have lived in five different states, and the public libraries in each have helped me acclimate and learn about cool places in my new home area. Head to your local public library to ask about the unique outdoors benefits they provide- like the ones I mention here. 

    How does your local public library help you get outside?

    About the author

    Emily and her family have moved across the US multiple times, and the best things about each state have been the outdoor adventures and the public libraries! Now living in Utah, Emily has continued her love for both. She explores both mountain and city outdoor spaces weekly with her three kids and friends and attends library story times, as well as leads a local story time. Emily has a passion for children’s literature. She uses books to educate, promote inclusion, understanding, and justice, and inspire adventure and creativity. Emily loves how reading and being outdoors overlap in so many exciting ways!

    You can find Emily online in the following locations:
    Instagram: @inclusivelibrary
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  • FISH, OUTDOOR ACTIVITIES, WATER

    The “We Try New Things” Mindset

    As parents, we want our children to grow up to be confident, adventurous, and open-minded about the world around them. One way to instill these qualities in our kids is by teaching them the importance of (and benefits from) trying new things. Children (and adults) often shy away from unfamiliar activities, foods, or experiences out of fear of the unknown. However, encouraging them to step outside their comfort zones and try new things can lead to a world of possibilities!

    Today, Jen Barnes, South Carolina mom of three teenagers discusses her family’s mindset of “we try new things.” She touches on why it’s essential for parents to not only teach their children about trying new things, but also to be willing to try right alongside them! By trying new things, we can foster a sense of curiosity and adventure in our children, and prepare them for a lifetime of growth and learning.

    the we try new things mindset pinnable hero of teen boy standing on a dock crabbing

    My “aha” moment

    What started out as a fun day excursion turned into an “aha moment” for me. I thought I was going to write an article about crabbing with kids in the Lowcountry of South Carolina. But that’s not really what this is about. Interestingly, this post morphed in my mind into the idea of writing about a mindset that I feel is imperative to raising confident, capable kids – the “we try new things mindset.”

    As the mom, I set the example for my kids. And while trying new things isn’t always at the top of my priority list, I don’t want my kids to be fearful or unwilling to try something new. I want them to be excited to discover, explore, learn, and embrace the unknown. I want them to be curious and up for a challenge.

    But that means that I have to practice what I preach! If I’m going to encourage my children to give something new a try, I’m going to have to do it too. I need to show them that it’s never too late to learn new things…even in your 40s. They need to see that it’s hard for me, too. They need to see me struggle. They have to see me nervous. And they have to see me get through it and feel the experience is worth it. 
    So, let me tell you about a recent adventure…

    teen boy standing on a dock learning to tie a throw net to his wrist

    Trying new things…crabbing

    A few months ago, I reached out to a special woman who I had been following on Instagram for about a year. Tia Clark was showcasing her crabbing experiences on the docks of Charleston, SC, and I was enamored. What a great idea for kids to learn how to do something quintessentially coastal!

    Crabbing seemed like the perfect outdoor activity to try with the kids and write about. The combination of outside time, sea life, and spending quality time with my teenager was going to make for the perfect writing assignment. 

    two teen boys standing on a dock with an instructor learning about large size commercial crabbing baskets

    You don’t know what you don’t know

    6:00 a.m. came very early on our day off school, but we had to hit the road so we could get down to the lowcountry in time for our crabbing lesson with Tia. I had my 14-year-old son and his best buddy with me, ready for our crabbing adventure.

    The first question they had was what we were going to do with Tia. Honest answer – I had no idea. We were going crabbing…that was all I knew! Sometimes it’s hard not to know the answers when your kids ask questions. But, you don’t know what you don’t know. However, you can always learn by trying something new! 

    I knew that I had to bring a South Carolina saltwater fishing license with me, but I wasn’t even sure what that meant. As a group, we later learned the money that comes from the licenses goes directly to partner organizations that are tangibly working to improve the waterways of South Carolina. For example, the SCORE program allows volunteers to help build manufactured wire reefs, which assist in habitat enhancement and shoreline stabilization. See! We were already learning something new!

    teen boy standing on a dock with a throw net in his hands checking his positioningteen boy standing on a dock pulling on a rope line to bring in a crab basket

    You never know where trying new things will lead you

    When we arrived at the docks to meet up with Art (Tia’s best friend and team member), we put our extra layers on to brace ourselves against the chilly wind. As we introduced ourselves, it become obvious that not one person in the group had ever been crabbing before. Looks like we were all trying new things on that Monday morning! 

    Tia and her team began to describe and explain what we should expect that morning. She wove in her own personal journey to the crabbing docks. After years of working in the restaurant and bar scene, putting in late hours, smoking cigarettes, and generally not taking care of herself, her health began to take a very negative turn. The lack of sleep and overall neglect had caught up with her body and her mind. Her previous working conditions became even more difficult with a restricted diet and new medical advice. 

    It turns out that a simple invitation can change the course of your life. In Tia’s case, that is exactly what happened. A family member asked her to join him on the docks to do some crabbing. Ironically, although Tia had been born and raised in Charleston, SC, she had never been crabbing before.

    Guess what…she loved it. She not only loved being outside, but she caught her own healthy dinner! So, she went back and did it again. And again. What began as an invitation to try something new became a central part of her life.

    Before she knew it, people were asking her to take them along to teach them how to crab. Her passion and enthusiasm are infectious. She even got the two teenage boys to invest! 

    teen boy standing on a dock getting instructions from a pro on how to pull the rope line in with the crab basket

    two teen boys standing on a dock with fishing poles trying to catch some live bait for the crab baskets

    Results of the “we try new things” mindset

    We absolutely loved our crabbing experience and learned so much. However, I’m sure it won’t surprise you that we are not starting our own crabbing business! The best part about trying new things is that you get to test out what you may or may not become genuinely interested in for future hobbies or passions. How would you ever know whether you like doing something if you never try it?

    We sincerely hope to go crabbing again because it is such a fun family activity, especially for those who live on or near the coast. The knowledge we gained was useful in giving us the confidence to do it again on our own. 

    teen boy kneeling on the dock with an pro showing him how to correctly and carefully pick up a crab without getting clawed

    Using travel and trips to try new things

    We love using travel as a way to put our “we try new things” mindset work! There’s always something new and interesting to try when you’re in a new location. Sometimes it takes a bit of research and planning, but it’s worth the extra effort.

    On our travels, we’ve tried other new things like surfing, food tours, walking tours, snorkeling excursions, fishing charters, art tours, museum tours, cooking classes, and others. Each of these experiences left an impression, taught us things, and provided us with amazing memories. Every time we try new things, we build up bravery and confidence in our children. We give them the courage to realize that trying new things, while sometimes scary, is also really fun. 

    You don’t have to love the new things you try

    But let me say, that just because you try something new doesn’t mean you need to love it and continue doing it. You can try fly fishing without it needing to become your next hobby. You can try surfing and decide it’s just not the sport for you!

    I often think about some of the interests my kids and I have had over the years. Those interests developed because we tried new things and gave ourselves a chance to experience something new. And there are plenty of things that we’ve tried once and never feel like we need to do again! But we’re still glad we tried.

    The biggest lesson, though, is that you are not stuck. You’re not too old to try new things. You can try new things at any point in life, so why not teach your kids early in life to have this mindset?

     

    teen boy standing on a dock holding a one-claw crab

    A note about trying new things with a guide

    I want to give a little plug to booking tours, guides, and excursions. If you want to try something new, please consider booking a guide or a tour, or an excursion with local experts that know what they’re doing and can teach you. This is how these people make a living, and it contributes to the local economy. They are usually experts in their activity and not only know what they’re doing but know how to teach others. They have local expertise and experience that will help enrich your experience well beyond trying this new thing on your own. What better way to try new things than to have someone who is a professional teach you how to do them? 

    Other adventures to inspire you to try new things

    When will you next use the “we try new things” mindset?

    About the author

    Jen has been married to her original adventure partner, John, for 20+ years. She is a mama to 3 teenagers who, although they have busy and independent lives, love to adventure in the outdoors when they can. Jen is a native of Chicago, but has lived in South Carolina for two decades and calls it home. She’s always planning the next adventure for herself or her friends, whether near or far. Hiking, kayaking, sailing with her family, or traveling the world is all about the experience and the journey. Her extroverted nature keeps her talking and smiling with anyone she meets along the way. She’s on a mission to show other busy families that traveling with teenagers is possible and fun!

    You can find Jen online in the following locations:
    Instagram: @gofamilyadventure
    Website: Go Family Adventure
    RWMC Posts: Jen Barnes

  • FAVORITE GEAR, HIKE, NATURE SCHOOL, OUTDOOR ACTIVITIES

    How to Use a Pocket Microscope

    What do dead bugs, pine needles, worms, and sand have in common? Maybe you should add soil, bark, and pond water to that list. And that’s only the beginning. All these things, and more, may find their way into your kids’ hands and under the lens of a pocket microscope while on a nature walk. Today, Laura Stroup, founder of Firefly Nature School and mom to three wildlings, shows you how to get a close-up look at nature through the lens of a pocket microscope. 

    child using microscope to look at moss in a creek

    What is a pocket microscope?

    Pocket microscopes are so named because they easily fit inside the pocket of your clothing or backpack. Their small size and light weight make them a good choice to take on a nature walk or hike. They are also sturdy and relatively simple to operate.

    Once you learn how to use them, you can teach your kids to do the same. Soon, you’ll wonder what everything looks like magnified under the microscope.

    Best pocket microscopes for kids

    There are many pocket microscope brands on the market. Prices range from $10-$50. And maybe the best part of small microscopes is the small price tag. Many can be purchased for under $20. They make great stocking stuffers or birthday gifts for your kids or their friends. You can even purchase small cases for your microscope for extra protection and battery storage when transporting them. If your kids jump, climb, and tumble on a nature walk like mine do, then the storage case might be worth the extra cost. 

    When choosing a pocket microscope, there are many features you can consider, including, size, magnification ability, camera function, light, and durability. Here are a few choices for a great pocket microscope for kids: 

    The one we use is the Carson Microbrite Plus. As is the case with many other brands, it has a light, zoom, focus ring, eyepiece, and lens. This particular microscope can zoom in anywhere from 60 to 120 times magnification.

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    Starting with a pocket microscope

    Many people feel intimidated when they first use a microscope, but starting with a pocket microscope can make the process seem less daunting, especially when you’re going to teach your kids how to use it, too.

    Eventually, when you move on to a larger microscope down the road, you will already have microscope basics under your belt. And teaching your kids what you’ve learned will provide them with an invaluable skill they can use throughout their education. 

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    How to use a pocket microscope

    To begin, you will want to keep the microscope on a flat surface. Then, find something around you worth a close-up look. A piece of fabric, napkin, hair, even your phone screen will work. And placing a light-colored paper or plate under the object will make it easier to view with your microscope.

    Turn on your microscope’s light, and place the scope on the object so the lens is over the top of what you want to see. Make sure the zoom adjustment is on its lowest power. For example, if the zoom adjustment goes from 60x to 120x, you’ll want it set to 60x. 

    Now it’s time to take a peek. Put your dominant eye up to the eyepiece on top of the microscope and look through while closing your other eye. Likely, the image will be blurry. While looking through the eyepiece and holding the microscope still, slowly turn the focus ring until the object comes clearly into view.

    Once you see it, wow! It only gets better by zooming in closer. Move the zoom to the highest power, and again, use the focus ring to see the image clearly, with even more detail this time. 

    child laying in field looking at flowers with microscope

    What can you do with a pocket microscope?

    Practice with different items around the house until you feel confident passing your newfound skills to your kids, with the eventual goal of taking your microscope outside with you and using it for all the things you find on your nature walks!

    When you’ve had a lot of experience manipulating the zoom adjustment and focus ring, you can even use the pocket microscope up against a tree or flower, as long as you’re able to hold it steady and the object you’re looking at doesn’t move around. 

    tips for using a pocket microscope with kids

    Looking at nature finds

    Some of our favorite nature treasures to view with a microscope are:

    • sand
    • soil
    • butterfly wings
    • insect legs
    • bark
    • lichens
    • moss
    • flower petals
    • seeds
    • broad leaves
    • needle leaves
    • algae
    • droplets of pond water

    child hiking with backpack and microscope

    Benefits of using a pocket microscope in nature

    Using a microscope in nature really helps you to slow down and appreciate the intricacies and details of things you see every single day. You’ll literally stop to smell and see the roses (and all the other flowers along the trail as well).

    It also gives your kids invaluable and concrete STEM skills. But more than that, it nurtures their creativity, curiosity, and imagination. It instills a sense of wonder.

    The plethora of features to see on even the tiniest bit of nature is surprising. Hairs and pores dot leaves and insect legs, scales cover butterfly wings, jagged edges surround bits of sand, and minute creatures scurry in soil and pond water.

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    Add a pocket microscope to your next outdoor adventure

    You can hone your observation skills by doing simple nature journaling activities while using your microscope. Draw and label items that you see while out in nature. Then, look at the same items again, but under the microscope. Draw another illustration of what the object looks like close-up. What details did you notice after using the microscope that you did not see originally? 

    Pocket microscopes are fun tools to use when you go hiking on a trail or around your neighborhood. Usually, my backpack ends up holding ALL the things on a hike – water bottles, rocks, sticks, bones, you name it.

    Since these microscopes aren’t heavy or awkward, kids don’t mind carrying them and rather enjoy having them close by to grab when the notion strikes.

    Toting a microscope in their pocket and having easy access to it on a hike just makes sense. You’ll probably even find yourself asking your kids if you can use it, too. 

    pocket microscope view of a monarch butterfly wing

    Have you ever used a pocket microscope?

    About the author

    Laura is an ecology writer and the founder of Firefly Nature School, a nature study curriculum designed for homeschooling families, co-ops, and classrooms. Laura has a Bachelor of Science degree in Animal Ecology from Iowa State University with an emphasis in natural resource education. A former wildlife conservation educator and upper school science teacher, she now directs School of the Wild, a local nature school serving her community. In her free time, she enjoys traveling with her family, hiking, running, writing, reading, and cooking. Laura lives with her husband and their three children in the beautiful Ozarks countryside.

    Find more from Laura in the following locations:
    Website: Firefly Nature School
    Instagram: @fireflynatureschool
    Facebook: Firefly Nature School
    RWMC posts: Laura

  • BIKE, FAVORITE GEAR

    Gear Review: Burley Encore X Bike Trailer & Double Stroller

    As a parent, finding ways to spend quality time with your children can be challenging, especially when it comes to outdoor activities. However, with the Burley Encore X bike trailer for kids, you can enjoy a fun biking adventure with your little ones without having to worry about their safety. The Burley Encore X is a top-of-the-line bike trailer that boasts exceptional durability, comfort, and versatility. In this blog post, we’ll be reviewing the Burley Encore X bike trailer, exploring its features and benefits to help you decide whether it’s the right fit for you and your family. So, let’s dive in and see why the Burley Encore X bike trailer is one of the most popular choices among parents who love to bike with their kids.

    This post was sponsored by Burley. Burley Encore X trailer was provided as compensation and for review purposes. All opinions expressed and photos herein belong to the author.

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    Gear review: Burley Encore X

    We know that getting outside and adventuring together as a family is incredibly important. But we’re parents, so we also know that it’s not always easy. Nothing with kids is easy, right? That’s why we love finding and supporting companies that make products that promote outdoor play AND make life easier for parents. And sharing them with you, of course! Burley is definitely one of those companies we adore!

    Burley makes an extended line of kid bike trailers and strollers that encourage outdoor family adventuring. The trailers are incredibly well-made and durable. They are useful for parents and safe for kids. We’ve had a Burley bike trailer for two years now and it’s completely changed the way we travel. Burley just launched a line of three new trailers that easily convert from bike buggies to a double-stroller. We had the opportunity to try out the Encore X and couldn’t love it more!

    Benefits of using a bike trailer for kids

    Using a bike trailer for your kids has numerous benefits. First, it provides a safe and secure way to take your kids along with you on biking adventures. With sturdy frames, harness systems, and safety flags to ensure that your kids are protected in the event of an accident, bike trailers give parents a bit more peace of mind when biking as a family. Additionally, bike trailers are designed to be comfortable for your little ones, with padded seats, adjustable harnesses, and plenty of ventilation.

    Using a bike trailer also allows you to stay active while spending quality time with your children, promoting a healthy and active lifestyle for the whole family. Finally (and this is a big one for me!), bike trailers offer a practical solution for transporting kids and gear. We never travel lightly (even running errands around town), so having a way to transport gear, groceries, snacks, and more is super convenient. 

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    The lineup of Burley trailers

    To celebrate their 40th Anniversary (congrats, y’all!!!!), Burley launched a new line of three kid-specific sport and performance trailers – the Encore, the D’Lite, and the Cub. All three trailers offer excellent safety features, including a sturdy aluminum frame, a five-point harness system, and a safety flag for visibility.

    The Encore, D’Lite, and Cub also feature a comfortable interior with padded seats and adjustable harnesses. The D’Lite and Cub models offer even more comfort with adjustable suspension systems that provide a smoother ride for your child. The seats in all three models are also removable and washable, making it easy to keep the trailer clean.  In terms of capacity, the Encore can hold up to two children with a maximum weight limit of 100 pounds, while the D’Lite and Cub can carry up to two children with a maximum weight limit of 100 and 125 pounds, respectively. All three trailers also feature ample storage space for gear and snacks.

    But, my favorite feature is that all three biking trailers come standard with a stroller kit (handlebar and front wheel) included. This makes it super easy to go from biking the trails to strolling the streets with your kiddo(s) in tow. There are no additional accessories or conversion kits you need to purchase. It’s an all-in-one package!

    burley encore x bike trailer for kids double stroller

    Revamp using post-consumer recycled fabrics

    Recently, Burley ramped up their sustainability efforts by introducing post-consumer recycled fabrics into their kid bike trailer collection. Starting in 2023, 55% of all softgoods in Burley kid and pet bike trailers are from post-consumer recycled materials. These materials are mostly derived from plastic water bottles that are processed through a recycling center and transformed into fabric. Burley has worked closely with their manufacturer to source this fabric, ensuring that it meets or exceeds all safety and durability standards.

    Integrating post-consumer recycled fabric into their kid collection is another step toward making Burley a more sustainable business and steward of the outdoor industry. It’s one of the many reasons we love Burley and all they do and make! 

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    All Burley trailers include a steel hitch, tow bar, and safety flag. Designed and tested to meet or exceed safety standards, the trailers have a 5-point harness support system and a full internal aluminum roll cage for protection in an accident.  The buggy comes with a hammock-style seat, which provides passive suspension for rider comfort. Remove the seat entirely for turning your kid trailer into a cargo trailer.

    Visit burley.com for more information on all the trailers.

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    Burley Encore X

    The Encore X includes the stroller kit, so you can bike or stroll straight out of the box. The suspension system keeps kids comfortable by softening bumps and jostles and the 20” push-button wheels are quick and easy to install and remove. It comes with a water-resistant cover and zippers to provide added protection in wet conditions, plus rear window ventilation and a sunshade.

    There’s a ton of room in the back for gear, plus inside pockets for toys, water bottles, and your diaper bag. The double seats can be removed entirely for carrying cargo, if you need more space on your grown-up kid-free adventures. There’s a convenient parking brake, the handlebar is adjustable, and the whole thing collapses and folds flat for easy storage.

    They seriously thought of everything!

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    Why we love our Burley trailer

    This Encore X biking trailer is perfect for our little family. We have a 6-year-old that’s active, adventurous and refuses to sit still, so he bikes alongside us. However, our 4-year-old is easily distracted and gets tired quickly. She’s not much into riding on her own but definitely wants to be a part of the action. And now we also have a baby that just turned one! Having a way to keep him secure and safe is key to helping us get outside.

    Our two youngest are loving life in the new Burley bike buggy/stroller. They keep each other entertained, are super comfortable, and now beg to go on bike rides and runs every day. And all three kids love it – I’ve even found the two oldest sitting in the buggy out in the garage reading books and using it as a secret hideout! They love pushing each other around in it (yes, it’s easy enough for a 4-year-old to operate) and taking each other for “walks.” 

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    How it compares to the Burley Minnow and a double stroller

    As I mentioned earlier, we’ve had a Burley Minnow bike trailer for two years and have gotten a ton of use out of it. However, we did not have the stroller kit for our trailer, so I didn’t realize how much we were missing out on. We have another double-jogging stroller, but it doesn’t compare to the ease and maneuverability of this one. Now that we have the Burley Encore X, we’ve retired the other stroller. 

    Having a bike trailer that can also convert into a double stroller is a huge perk for us (and other parents). With two functions in one product, instead of purchasing a separate bike trailer and a double stroller, you can invest in a single product that serves both purposes. This can help save money and storage space.

    The Burley Encore X is so easy to push (one-handed!), which my current double-stroller is not. And the suspension means it’s a comfortable ride for the kids on our neighborhood’s bumpy sidewalks, which is something my daughter complains about with the double stroller. The handlebar adjusts easily for me (short) and my husband (tall). It’s made getting out of the house so much easier for us all. 

    The benefits of biking with kids

    Our Burley Encore X has completely changed the way we travel. We love biking to our local playground, into “town” for lunch, or on trails. There’s a great trail close to our house that runs next to a farm with horses, where the kids love to stop and say hi! We also love using the trailer to run errands around town. Taking the buggy means that we can stop and pick up a few bags of groceries, or stock up on library books and easily transport them home. 

    Biking as a family provides a great way for children to explore new places and experience the beauty of nature. This can foster a love and appreciation for the outdoors and inspire a lifelong interest in outdoor activities. Biking together is also a wonderful way to create lasting family memories and strengthen family bonds. It’s an opportunity for parents and children to spend quality time together, talk, and have fun. We love and cherish our bike rides together and look forward to many more this summer! 

    You should get one, too

    If you’re even considering getting a bike trailer or double stroller, I highly encourage you to DO IT! I promise you won’t regret it! Biking with kids is such a great way to have fun outdoor adventures, reduce your carbon footprint and get plenty of fresh air and exercise!

    Find the full line of Burley kid bike trailers and strollers on the Burley website.

    best way to bike with kids best gear for biking with kids - burley bike trailer Do you bike with kids? Ever used a bike trailer? 
    I’d love to hear about your biking adventures!

    About the author

    Sara McCarty is the founder and editor-in-chief of Run Wild My Child (runwildmychild.com), a resource website, online community, and podcast all about reconnecting families through outdoor activities and adventures. She’s a mom of 3, wife, and former attorney. She grew up in the country, but now lives in St. Louis and is determined to raise her city kids to be as feral as possible. You can usually find her family exploring a creek, fly fishing, hiking, duck hunting, camping, canoeing, biking, or geocaching. She’s passionate about traveling, reading, photography, plants, coffee, cooking, and key lime pie.