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  • Alps Road Trip with Kids: Dolomites, Lake Garda, Innsbruck, Zugspitze & St. Moritz

    If you’re dreaming of a family adventure in the Alps but feeling intimidated by the logistics, you’re in the right place. Today, Lizzy Astrella, a US mom of two currently living in southern Italy, is taking you along for a road trip of a lifetime. In this post, she’ll share what they learned about planning a Dolomites trip with kids, tips for family-friendly adventures, and why this region is one of the best places in Europe to introduce children to hiking, camping, and exploring the outdoors.

    Moving Abroad to Southern Italy

    My family (husband, two daughters, and a dog) and I moved from the United States to southern Italy one year ago (wow, just realized as I am writing this that it’s been exactly one year to the day). We moved because my husband will be working here for the next couple of years. But, we also came for everything that comes along with moving your young family to Europe: adventure, travel, and learning about other cultures and ways of life.

    Before our big move, none of us had ever even visited Europe! Needless to say, our first few weeks were, honestly, rough. Living in a hotel far from the tourist parts of town, navigating jet lag, overwhelmed children, culture shock, and a language barrier, we spent our first few weeks just surviving. We had to find an apartment and arrange for our things to be delivered, buy a car, register our dog, and just generally try to settle down in our new and very different world.

    Planning a European Family Road Trip to the Dolomites

    After a couple of months of settling in, my husband had time off, and we were finally ready to go beyond weekend day trips. As the trip planner of the family, I knew exactly where I wanted to go: the Dolomites in northern Italy.

    The Dolomites are part of the Italian Alps and are famous for their dramatic pale-colored peaks, alpine lakes, charming mountain villages, and world-class hiking. For a family that loves camping, hiking, and simply being outdoors, it was the perfect first destination.

    Why the Dolomites?

    I’m not a big fan of cities, didn’t really dream of wandering the streets of Rome or Florence. But the Dolomites (the mountains in the northeastern part of the Italian Alps, famous for their pale-colored dolomite rock, dramatic vistas, alpine lakes and world-class hiking), have long captured my imagination. Plus, my family loves camping and hiking and just exploring the outdoors in general, and this felt like the right fit for our first European adventure. So, I set about planning a last-minute trip to the Dolomites and the Alps.

    Planning a Trip to the Dolomites

    Now, most people will spend a year (or more) planning their dream trip to Europe. The Dolomites are extremely popular, and planning a trip there with a month’s notice was, ambitious, to say the least. This was also our first time traveling in Europe, and traveling internationally with kids. The learning curve was tremendous.

    Since that first trip, we’ve returned to the Dolomites and Alps several times, each adventure teaching us something new. This guide isn’t written from the perspective of a seasoned European travel expert — but from a mom figuring it out as she goes. Inside, you’ll find:

    • Tips for planning a Dolomites trip with kids
    • Family-friendly activities and hikes in the Alps
    • Practical advice on driving, lodging, and eating out with kids
    • Lessons learned from traveling Europe with kids (mistakes included!)

    If I can plan family trips in the Dolomites as a first-timer, you can too.

    Some Things to Consider When Planning a Trip to the Alps

    Planning a trip to the Alps is a bit different than planning a typical family vacation. First, the Alps aren’t just one destination, they stretch across eight countries (France, Switzerland, Liechtenstein, Monaco, Italy, Austria, Germany, and Slovenia), and each region has its own culture, language, and landscape. That means your trip can look completely different depending on where you go.

    A few things to think about:

    • Season matters. Summer means hiking, alpine lakes, and wildflowers; winter means skiing, sledding, and snow sports. Spring and fall can be quieter (and less expensive), but some cable cars and huts may be closed.
    • Distance can be deceiving. A town that looks “right next door” on a map may take 3–4 hours to reach, thanks to winding mountain roads or multiple train connections. Build in buffer time for travel days.
    • Weather is unpredictable. Even in summer, pack layers. We experienced warm sunny hikes one day and chilly rain the next (in August)!
    • Language barriers. While English is widely spoken in tourist hubs, smaller villages may only speak the local language. Having Google Translate downloaded for offline use saved us multiple times.

    Where to Go and What to See

    When we first started researching, I quickly realized you could spend a lifetime exploring the Alps and still not see it all. For families, here are some highlights worth considering:

    • The Dolomites (Italy): Jaw-dropping peaks, turquoise lakes (like Lago di Braies and Lago di Carezza), and endless family-friendly hikes. It’s also full of rifugios (mountain huts) where kids can refuel on pasta or hot chocolate mid-hike.
    • Switzerland: Famous for postcard-perfect villages like Zermatt and Grindelwald, plus incredible train rides (the Glacier Express is unforgettable). Expensive, yes — but spectacular.
    • Austria: Family-friendly ski towns that double as hiking paradises in summer. Innsbruck is a great base with a mix of city culture and easy access to mountain trails.
    • Germany (Bavarian Alps): Think castles (Neuschwanstein!), alpine lakes, and storybook villages. A little more budget-friendly compared to Switzerland.

    My tip: Don’t try to do it all in one trip. Pick one region as your home base and spend a few days really exploring. It’s tempting to country-hop, but traveling with kids is so much smoother when you aren’t constantly packing up and moving.

    How to Get Around

    One of the biggest decisions you’ll make is whether to rent a car or rely on public transportation.

    • Car rental pros: Ultimate flexibility, especially with kids. You can stop at random villages, carry extra snacks/gear, and avoid long waits for buses or trains.
    • Car rental cons: Driving mountain passes can be intimidating (hello, hairpin turns!), and parking in small alpine towns can be expensive or limited.
    • Public transportation pros: Incredibly reliable in Europe. Trains, buses, and cable cars are well-connected, especially in Switzerland and Austria. Plus, kids often ride discounted or free.
    • Public transportation cons: Lugging bags, strollers, or tired kids between connections can be tough. And timetables mean less spontaneity.

    What worked for us: Renting a car in Italy gave us freedom to explore multiple Dolomite valleys, but in Switzerland we leaned on trains and gondolas, which felt easier and more efficient.

    Book Early

    Here’s the hard truth: the Alps are no hidden gem. The Dolomites, in particular, have exploded in popularity thanks to Instagram-famous spots like Seceda and Tre Cime. Even campsites book out months in advance.

    Tips:

    • Consider shoulder season. June and September can be magical — fewer crowds, lower prices, and still great weather.
    • Start early. If you’re traveling in July or August, book lodging at least 6–9 months ahead.
    • Be flexible. If the exact hotel or campground you want isn’t available, look in smaller villages nearby. We stayed in a lesser-known town 20 minutes from the “hot spots,” and it was quieter, cheaper, and just as beautiful.

    Traveling with Kids

    I’ll admit — planning a trip like this with kids felt overwhelming at first. But once we were there, I realized the Alps are incredibly family-friendly.

    Here’s why:

    • Kid-friendly hikes: There are endless trails that are stroller-friendly or under 3 miles, often leading to a playground, lake, or rifugio with snacks at the end.
    • Epic playgrounds: Picture zip lines, giant wooden castles, and slides built into the side of a mountain — themed around animals, climbing, or even cowbells. My kids still talk about the one in Val Gardena.
    • Cable cars & gondolas: These make it possible for families to experience incredible viewpoints without a grueling hike. Plus, most kids think riding them is an adventure in itself.
    • Food rewards: Pancakes, strudels, hot chocolate, and spaghetti are never far away. We made it a tradition to end each hike with a shared Kaiserschmarrn (a shredded pancake dessert), the ultimate motivator.
    • Kid programs: Many alpine hotels and campgrounds offer daily activities for kids, from pony rides to crafts. Some even provide childcare, which can give parents a rare moment to relax.

    From our experience: Be realistic about what your kids can handle. We found that one “big adventure day” followed by a slower day in the village (playground, swimming, strolling) was the sweet spot.

    Alps Regions to Explore with Kids

    The Alps are massive, spanning across eight European countries, so choosing where to go can feel overwhelming. Luckily, there are plenty of family-friendly regions filled with breathtaking scenery, accessible hikes, and kid-approved activities. Below, I’ll highlight three regions my family has personally explored and loved. To start, let’s dive into one of the most famous: the Dolomites.

    Region 1: The Dolomites

    What are the Dolomites?

    The Dolomites are located in the northeastern part of the Italian Alps and are a UNESCO World Heritage Site. They’re known for their jagged peaks, pale dolomite rock, alpine meadows, and stunning turquoise lakes that look like they’re straight out of a postcard. This area is world-famous for hiking, skiing, and outdoor adventure, and is surprisingly family-friendly.

    Getting to the Dolomites

    The most common entry point is Milan, though Venice and Verona are also options if you want to combine your trip with a city stay. From Milan, you can catch a train or bus to Bolzano, the capital of the South Tyrol region and considered the “gateway to the Dolomites.”

    That said, if you’re traveling with kids, I highly recommend renting a car. While there are trains and buses, many of the Dolomites’ most beautiful areas are not easily accessible by public transport. A car gives you flexibility for nap schedules, snack breaks, or those “we just need to stop right here because look at that view” moments. Driving in the region is fairly straightforward, though roads can be narrow and winding.

    Where to Stay in the Dolomites

    The Dolomites cover a vast area, so narrowing down a home base is key. Popular family-friendly towns include:

    • Bolzano – Great for first-timers, easy access to museums, restaurants, and nearby cable cars.
    • Ortisei – A charming village in Val Gardena with plenty of lodging options, alpine playgrounds, and quick access to lifts like Seceda and Alpe di Suisi.
    • Santa Cristina – Smaller than Ortisei but very family-oriented, with unique trails like the PanaRaida adventure hike.

    Families can choose from hotels, alpine lodges, vacation rentals, or even campgrounds. Just remember that the most popular areas book up months in advance.

    What to Do with Kids in the Val Gardena Region of the Dolomites

    1. Ride a cable car

    Kids will love the thrill of soaring up the mountain in a gondola, and parents will love skipping the steep climb. From Bolzano, ride to Soprabolzano for sweeping views and the fascinating “earth pyramids.” From Ortisei, hop on cable cars to the Seceda ridgeline (jaw-dropping views) or the flower-filled Alpe di Suisi/Seiser Alm meadow.

    2. Go family hiking

    Thanks to the cable cars, many high-alpine trails are surprisingly kid-friendly. Scenic loop trails start from both Seceda and Alpe di Suisi’s upper stations. For extra fun, try the PanaRaida adventure trail near Santa Cristina, which features treehouses, rope bridges, and a water playground along the way.

    3. Visit a museum

    In Bolzano, stop by the South Tyrol Museum of Archaeology to meet Ötzi the Iceman, a 5,300-year-old natural mummy. My kids were absolutely fascinated—it was a cool mix of science, history, and “real life mummy!” that stuck with them long after the trip.

    4. Rent a boat at Lago di Braies

    Yes, it’s Insta-famous for a reason! This iconic turquoise lake is about an hour’s drive from Ortisei. Families can rent a wooden rowboat or walk the loop trail around the lake. Insider tip: arrive early in the morning or late afternoon to avoid the crowds.

    5. Play at a park or playground

    The Alps are home to some of the most creative playgrounds we’ve ever seen. Favorites include Talvera Park in Bolzano and Val d’Anna Park in Ortisei. For a high-altitude experience, let the kids run wild at the alpine playgrounds at Seceda and Alpe di Suisi. If you’re in Ortisei, don’t miss the Uhrerhof Rosarium, Europe’s highest rose garden, which feels like a fairytale backdrop for kids and parents alike.

    Region 2: The Bavarian Alps

    What are the Bavarian Alps?

    The Bavarian Alps stretch along southern Germany’s border with Austria and are famous for their storybook scenery—think fairy-tale castles, alpine lakes, snow-capped peaks, and cozy mountain villages. It’s a region where families can mix outdoor adventure with cultural experiences, making it one of the most magical (and accessible) places in the Alps to explore with kids.

    Getting to the Bavarian Alps

    A great home base for exploring the region is Garmisch-Partenkirchen, a picturesque town that sits at the foot of Germany’s tallest mountain. The closest international airports are Munich and Innsbruck (Austria). From either airport, you can reach Garmisch by train, bus, or rental car. While public transportation is reliable, renting a car can give families more flexibility to hop between lakes, castles, and mountain trails on their own schedule.

    Where to Stay in the Bavarian Alps

    • Edelweiss Lodge and Resort – If you’re a U.S. military family, this is an incredible option. It’s family-oriented, budget-friendly, and located right in Garmisch.
    • Hotels, resorts, and vacation rentals – The town and surrounding villages are filled with charming alpine-style accommodations, from cozy guesthouses to family-friendly hotels with pools.
    • Campgrounds – For adventurous families, camping near Lake Eibsee or in the surrounding countryside is a fun option, especially in summer.

    What to Do with Kids in the Bavarian Alps

    1. Explore waterfalls and gorges

    Take a walk through the Partnach Gorge, a narrow, winding ravine that’s a national monument. The trail follows wooden boardwalks and tunnels alongside rushing waterfalls, rapids, and crystal-clear pools. (Pro tip: bring rain jackets, you will get wet!)

    2. Ride a cogwheel train and cable car up Germany’s highest peak

    The Zugspitze, Germany’s tallest mountain, rises just south of Garmisch-Partenkirchen. Families can ride the 90-year-old cogwheel train and the Gletscherbahn cable car up to a viewing platform near the summit, where the panoramic views stretch into Austria. On the way down, take the record-breaking Zugspitze cable car, which descends right to the turquoise shores of Lake Eibsee.

    3. Tour a real fairy-tale castle

    No trip to Bavaria is complete without visiting Neuschwanstein Castle, the inspiration behind Disneyland’s Sleeping Beauty Castle. Kids will love exploring the turrets, courtyards, and sweeping views over the Bavarian countryside. It truly feels like stepping into a storybook.

    4. Picnic and play at Lake Eibsee

    Located at the base of the Zugspitze, Lake Eibsee is one of the most beautiful alpine lakes in Germany. Families can rent a rowboat or paddleboard, swim in the refreshing waters, or just enjoy a picnic on the beach. The lake has several small islands that make boating extra fun for kids. For a classic Bavarian touch, take the 80-year-old cogwheel train from Garmisch right to the lake’s edge.

    5. Visit an alpine playground

    Take the cable car up Mount Wank (yes, the name always makes kids laugh) for kid-friendly hiking trails and one of the best alpine playgrounds in the region. With ziplines, climbing structures, and sweeping mountain views, it’s a place where kids can burn energy while parents relax in a mountaintop café.

    Region 3: Valais, Switzerland

    What is the Valais?

    The Valais is a stunning region in southern Switzerland, famous for its soaring alpine peaks, vineyards, mountain villages, and iconic landmarks like the Matterhorn. It’s an outdoor playground year-round—skiing and snowboarding in winter, hiking and biking in summer—and offers plenty of family-friendly adventures mixed with Swiss charm.

    Getting to the Valais

    You can fly into Zurich, Geneva, or Milan and connect to the Valais by train, bus, or rental car. If you’re flying into Milan, there’s a fun twist: drive to the Swiss border and take the Simplon Pass “car ferry”. It’s actually a drive-on train that carries your car through the Simplon Tunnel, connecting Brig, Switzerland, and Iselle di Trasquera, Italy.

    Pro tip: If you drive in Switzerland, you’ll need a vignette (toll sticker). Most rental cars already come with one, but double-check before hitting the road.

    Where to stay in the Valais?

    Crans-Montana makes a great base for families. This resort town sits high in the mountains and has:

    • A free shuttle system throughout town, making it easy to get around without a car
    • World-class ski slopes (now included on the Epic Pass!)
    • Summer adventure options, from hiking to biking to lakeside fun
    • Plenty of family lodging—hotels, chalets, and rental homes

    What to Do in the Valais?

    1. Hike family-friendly trails

    Crans-Montana is surrounded by kid-friendly paths. Try the Dwarves’ Trail around Lake Grenon, with interactive storyboards in multiple languages, or ride the cable car up to Cry d’Er and hike the Marmot Path, where kids have a good chance of spotting wild marmots. (Pack binoculars!)

    2. Spend a day at the lakes

    There are five lakes right in Crans-Montana and even more in the surrounding mountains. Families can enjoy sandy beaches, rent pedal boats, try stand-up paddleboarding, or just walk and bike the trails that connect the lakes. It’s an easy, low-key day outdoors.

    3. Learn to mountain bike

    Crans-Montana is a biking hub, even for beginners. Families will find a pump track, a balance bike course for little ones, and a family forest trail that’s perfect for practicing mountain biking skills in a safe environment.

    4. Go on a treasure hunt

    Meet Bibi the Marmot, the official mascot of the resort! Families can pick up a free treasure hunt booklet at the tourist office and set off on a scavenger-style adventure through town, learning about local animals while solving clues.

    5. Take a day trip

    The Valais is perfectly located for bucket-list day trips. Head to Chamonix, France to see Mont Blanc, or ride the train to Zermatt, Switzerland for unforgettable views of the Matterhorn.ix, France to see Mont Blanc or Zermatt, Switzerland to see the Matterhorn.

    Our Alpine Road Trip Itinerary

    What started as some last-minute planning turned into a week-long family road trip through the Dolomites, Bavarian Alps, and Switzerland. Since we’re based in Naples now, we decided to drive north with stops in Lake Garda, Innsbruck, Garmisch-Partenkirchen, and St. Moritz. Here’s how our trip unfolded, day by day:

    Days 1-4: Dolomites and Lake Garda

    We camped at an agriturismo (a working farm that offers accommodations and meals) in Trentino. It wasn’t quite where I’d hoped to stay (everything near Bolzano or Ortisei was already booked), but honestly, I can’t complain. The farm was an apple orchard, and every morning we had fresh apple juice pressed right there.

    The number one place I wanted to see was the Seceda ridgeline, so we went there on our first full day. Driving to Ortisei was simple, but arrive early to find parking. We had good luck with the parking garage under the Alpe di Siusi cable car station. From there, we rode the cable car up to Seceda and spent the day hiking along the ridgeline, soaking in the views, and letting the kids play at the alpine playground near the station. We especially loved Baita Sofie Hütte. Great food and drinks, epic mountain views, a meadow full of alpine cows, and space for the kids to run around.

    The next day, we rode the Alpe di Siusi cable car again and explored the alpine meadow. Hearing the bells of the grazing cows as we hiked was magical, and my daughter loved the swing and play area at Malga Sanon (while we loved the Kaiserschmarrn and Hugo spritzes).

    We had planned to spend two more days exploring the mountains, but lightning storms forced us to change plans. Luckily, Lake Garda is just an hour’s drive from Trentino. We took two day-trips there: one to Riva del Garda, where we strolled through town and played in the stream at the public beach, and another to hike up to Castello di Arco and cool off in the mist of Cascata del Varone waterfall. On a separate day, we drove the scenic lakeshore down to Sirmione, exploring its medieval town and the impressive Castello Scaligero di Sirmione, one of Italy’s best-preserved castles.

    Day 5: Innsbruck, Austria

    Leaving Italy, we headed into Austria and spent an afternoon in Innsbruck. We rode the Hungerburgbahn cable car from downtown straight up to the Alpenzoo Innsbruck, which has the world’s largest collection of alpine animals. If you have more time, continue the cable car ride up to Nordkette for panoramic views, hiking trails, and mountaintop restaurants.

    Day 6: Garmisch-Partenkirchen, Germany

    We spent two nights in Garmisch-Partenkirchen, and honestly, we could have stayed longer. (We’ve already gone back since!) If you’re a U.S. military family, the Edelweiss Lodge and Resort is a fantastic option. Otherwise, the area has no shortage of hotels, resorts, and rental homes.

    Our full day here was spent riding the 90-year-old cogwheel train and Gletscherbahn cable car up to the top of the Zugspitze, Germany’s highest mountain. The kids were thrilled to play in the snow (in August!) and learn about Germany’s last glaciers. For the return trip, we took the Zugspitze cable car down the mountain, which made for a perfect round-trip experience.

    Day 7: St. Moritz, Switzerland

    On our way back south to Naples, we took a different route through St. Moritz, Switzerland. After lunch at one of the lakefront restaurants, we strolled the scenic path along Lake Moritz to the Terrasse Panoramique observation deck.

    Leaving the city, we drove the winding but breathtaking Maloja Pass, stopping at pullouts to admire the mountain views and fields of bright purple fireweed lining the road.

    Final Thoughts on our Alps Road Trip

    Our Alps road trip was the perfect introduction to both the region and our new life in Europe. The Alps are epic, beautiful, and full of adventure. If you’re planning a trip, my number one piece of advice is to be flexible (weather in the mountains can change quickly), and sometimes the best memories come from those last-minute detours.

    About the Author

    Lizzy is a mom to two girls (6 and 3 years old), a sometimes-teacher, and an all-around outdoor enthusiast. She currently lives with her family in Naples, Italy. Her husband is in the U.S. Army, so they move often and all over. Her family spends most of their free time traveling and exploring the new places they find themselves living in. They love hiking and camping in the summer, and skiing and snowshoeing in the winter. After growing up in the Pacific Northwest in a family that prioritized outdoor time, it comes naturally to Lizzy to spend as much time in nature as possible with her own kids. She’s also found that spending time outdoors provides a sort of calm to the chaos of parenthood and the military lifestyle.

    Follow Lizzy on Instagram: @elizabethstarexplores

  • The Ultimate Family Road Trip Through Northwest Montana

    Are you looking for the perfect spring break getaway for your adventurous, nature-loving family? Our 10-day Montana spring break road trip through Northwest Montana was everything we could’ve dreamed of and more—packed with family-friendly skiing, affordable winter activities, cozy cabins, epic views, and outdoor fun for all ages. In this post, I’m sharing our ultimate 8-day Montana family road trip itinerary so you can plan your own unforgettable journey filled with Montana skiing, hot springs, dog sledding, charming mountain towns, and quality family time. Whether you’re a first-time visitor or returning for more wild adventures, Montana with kids in late winter/early spring is truly something special.

    *This post was created in collaboration with Visit Montana and Western Montana’s Glacier Country. Accommodations and some activities were exchanged for review purposes. All opinions expressed and all photos contained herein belong to the author.

    western montana road trip with kids - 8-day itinerary

    Montana spring break

    Montana had been calling to me ever since my visit to the Missoula area last October (listen to podcast episode 28 for more on that trip). The wide open spaces, the rugged mountain views, the peacefulness of the small towns, and the fresh, crisp air were all things I knew I had to share with my family. So when my kids started campaigning for a ski trip for spring break, it felt like the perfect excuse.

    For spring break this year, we wanted a destination that combined epic skiing with affordable options and unique winter activities. We looked all over Colorado, Utah, Canada, Wisconsin, Minnesota, California and Idaho, and we kept coming back to Northwest Montana.

    And I don’t know about you, but when I visit a new place, I want to explore as much as possible! Our family’s not great at sitting still or staying in one place. We like to move, experiences as much as we can, and do all.the.things. So, instead of parking ourselves in just one spot, we opted for an epic 8-day Northwestern Montana road trip, winding our way through scenic mountain towns, hitting multiple ski resorts, and packing in as many adventures as we could.

    flying into Montana - NW Montana airports

    Why spring is a great season to visit Montana

    Spring is one of Montana’s most underrated seasons—and honestly, that’s part of the charm. Visiting Montana in March means you get the best of both worlds: plenty of snow for skiing and winter sports, but fewer crowds, better availability, and more affordable prices than peak winter months.

    The temperatures are starting to warm up (a little), the days are getting longer, and there’s this amazing energy in the air—like the whole state is waking up from winter’s slumber. You can still hit the slopes in the morning, then soak in a hot spring or hike through a sun-drenched valley by afternoon.

    For families, spring break in Montana is a sweet spot— it’s got all the magic of a big western winter vacation without the big resort crowds or price tags. Less hustle, more space to explore, and a chance to enjoy all the snowy adventures without the chaos or cost of bigger ski towns. Win-win-win.

    Northwest Montana Airports

    One of the first questions we had when planning our Montana spring break road trip was: where do we fly into?

    The two main airports serving Western Montana are Missoula (MSO) and Glacier Park International in Kalispell (FCA)—both newly updated, clean, modern, and super convenient. I flew into Missoula back in October and love how easy it is to navigate. It’s just minutes from downtown and a great jumping-off point for exploring this entire region.

    For this particular trip, we flew into Bozeman (BZO)—not because it was the closest, but because we were able to use our Southwest points (anyone else loyal to that Companion Pass life?). But if you’re flying in specifically for skiing and winter adventures in Northwest Montana, Missoula or Kalispell will put you much closer to the action and cut down on your drive time significantly.

    Family-friendly Missoula

    Getting Around Northwest Montana

    Once you’re in Montana, you’ll definitely want a car—ideally a 4WD or AWD SUV if you’re visiting in the winter or spring. We rented a Suburban for our family of five (plus all our ski gear), and it was the perfect size for long drives, mountain roads, and snowy parking lots at the ski resorts.

    A big car gives you the flexibility to explore the small towns, remote hot springs, and off-the-beaten-path adventures that make Montana road trips so special. Just be prepared to stop often—because the views are that good.

    For our Montana adventure, we used Explore Rentals, a local, independent rental agency located in Bozeman. They specialize in providing guaranteed 4WD and AWD vehicles equipped with snow tires—essential for navigating Montana’s winter roads safely. The rental process was seamless: prior to our arrival, they texted us a photo of our Suburban in its exact location, along with a lockbox code for the keys, allowing us to bypass the rental counter entirely. It was quick and easy and stress-free on both the pick-up and return.

    The Wren hotel - Missoula

    Day 1: Missoula

    We kicked off our road trip in Missoula! Last October when I visited, this town totally surprised me in the best way possible. It’s charming, walkable, scenic, and feels very outdoorsy, hip and laid-back. Like if a cozy college town and a national park had a baby.

    Downtown Missoula was a dream. We walked everywhere—coffee shops, bookstores, outdoor shops, boutiques, the riverfront trail—and the kids even kind of enjoyed the strolling, which is a win. There’s a little bit of everything: funky thrift shops, indie bookstores, a carousel (!), a gorgeous public library, and amazing food around every corner.

    Also, can we talk about the Clark Fork River? It runs right through town and gives the whole place this peaceful, earthy energy that kind of makes you want to start kayaking or go for a run. The riverwalk trail was perfect for a pre-dinner stroll, particularly if you’ve got kids with energy to burn (do any not?).

    Nearby, there’s the University of Montana. It’s right across the river, tucked up against the mountains like it’s straight out of a movie. We walked through campus immediately started planning my oldest’s college life there. He’s almost 13. It’s fine. I told him we’d all move to Missoula and join him. (Not joking.)

    Overall, Missoula totally delivered. It was the perfect starting point for our Montana adventure—easy to navigate, full of character, and just the right mix of wild and welcoming.

    The Wren hotel lobby - Missoula

    Where we stayed: The Wren

    We stayed at The Wren, a super cute boutique hotel right in the middle of downtown. The rooms were clean and stylish and family-friendly. Each room has these amazing hand-drawn murals that highlight cool spots around Missoula—like local landmarks, trail maps, or fun regional facts—which gave us major “we’re on an adventure!” energy from the second we walked in. There were cozy Pendleton blankets on the beds, a massive shower that felt like a spa, and thoughtful touches everywhere.

    We had two adjoining rooms, one of which was a bunkroom with bunkbeds and a pull-out couch for the kids. Obviously, they LOVED it. This gave us plenty of space to spread out, unpack all our gear, and pretend like we were totally organized.

    The lobby of the Wren should also be mentioned. There’s complimentary hot coffee, cold La Croix, a water refill station, and a stash of board games and cards to keep everyone entertained. There’s even a coffee shop/bakery in the building—so if you, like me, require caffeine before making decisions or parenting, you’re covered.

    coffee shop at the wren - downtown Missoula

    Days 2 & 3: Skiing Blacktail Mountain

    On Day 2, we hit the road early and headed straight from Missoula to Blacktail Mountain Ski Area. The drive was stunning. Seriously—Montana just does not have a bad angle. Most of the route hugged the shoreline of Flathead Lake, which happens to be the largest natural freshwater lake west of the Mississippi. It’s massive, 28 miles long and 15 miles wide, and it looks like something out of a postcard.

    The weather was beautiful the entire drive, until we started climbing the mountain road to Blacktail. That’s when the snow started falling. Normally, that might stress me out a bit (especially in a rental), but in this case, it was magical—fresh powder! The kids were jumping up and down in their seats!

    The road to the resort winds up the mountain with incredible views the whole way, and yes, there’s snow. But it’s well-maintained and easy to navigate—especially if you’ve got 4WD, which you absolutely want in Montana.

    Blacktail Mountain - skiing with kids

    Blacktail Mountain

    Blacktail Mountain is what ski dreams are made of. This was an awesome first Montana ski experience for our family! First of all, it’s got this quirky, awesome setup where you park at the top of the mountain and ski down. Locals love to say, “First run’s free,” because you literally ski down to start your day.

    We rolled in on a Saturday morning, expecting the usual weekend chaos, but… nothing. No lines, no hunt for a parking spot, no stressed-out parents dragging sobbing toddlers across an icy parking lot (we’ve all been there). Just smooth sailing, fresh snow, and happy people.

    The lodge at Blacktail is small, in the best way. It felt lively, but not overwhelming. We found a few benches, a locker, geared up, grabbed our media passes/lift tickets, and got right on the slopes. There were tons of families, and not just the “expert skier” kind. There were kids in ski school, little ones wobbling around in adorable tiny gear, and older kids zipping down the trails. It felt relaxed and welcoming, like the kind of place that wants you to bring your kids.

    And the skiing was incredible. The runs are wide and well-groomed, the terrain has a great mix for all skill levels, and the views are just next level—lakes, forests, mountains, sky. The snow was soft and fresh, the lift lines were nonexistent (seriously, we never waited). We spent the whole day just soaking it up. No pressure, no rush, just pure fun. Our kids declared it their new favorite mountain about 30 minutes in.

    Montana spring break skiing with kids

    Ski lessons for kids

    The next day, we signed the kids up for a private ski lesson, and it turned out to be one of the best decisions of the whole trip. My daughter (10) needed help mastering sharper turns and getting out of that classic “pizza” stance (you know the one). My youngest (6) is a surprisingly confident little skier, but also kind of a wild man. We needed someone to help him channel all that fearless energy into actual control.

    My oldest (12) joined the lesson too, and the three of them had a blast carving up the mountain and even hitting the terrain park together. By the end of the lesson, they were all confidently skiing black runs like little pros. And the best part? They LOVED their instructors. Like, full-on obsessed with them. They were fun, encouraging, super knowledgeable, and totally got how to make skiing exciting without it being overwhelming.

    affordable skiing with kids - Montana spring break

    Affordable skiing for families

    Also, let’s talk about the price of skiing Blacktail because I was honestly shocked. We’re used to skiing at our local hill in St. Louis, and even that is more expensive than Blacktail!

    Lift tickets, rentals, lessons—the whole shebang—were so affordable it almost felt like a mistake. This is one of those amazing mom-and-pop ski resorts that’s clearly here to serve the local community, not price families out. It’s not flashy or bougie, but it’s packed with heart, great snow, and an emphasis on families having a good time. For anyone trying to plan a family ski trip on a budget, Blacktail is an absolute dream.

    the Cabins at Blacktail - where to stay when skiing Blacktail Montana

    Where To Stay + Eat While Skiing Blacktail (Lakeside, Montana)

    We stayed just 25 minutes down the mountain from Blacktail at a little gem called The Cabins at Blacktail, and oh my gosh—it was adorable. We booked the Camp Haus cabin, which is one of six charming, rustic-modern cabins nestled in the woods outside Lakeside.

    I’ll be honest, I was a little worried about the tight quarters (five people in one cozy cabin sounds like the start of a “family bonding gone wrong” movie), but we actually loved it. Probably helped that we were all completely wiped from skiing all day and basically collapsed into bed each night like a sack of potatoes.

    The cabin itself was clean, warm, peaceful, and incredibly charming. It had everything we needed—comfy beds, a little kitchen setup, full laundry, and hooks for drying out all our wet ski gear. Every cabin has its own private hot tub (yes please), and there’s also a shared wood-fired sauna tucked down a little trail in the forest. You cross over a tiny bridge above a creek to get there, and it feels like something out of a fairytale.

    For dinner, we kept it super easy and local with two great spots in Lakeside (both less than a 5-minute drive from the cabins). Our first night, we hit up Tamarack Brewing Company, and it was perfect for families. Big portions, great beer (for the adults), a fun, bustling atmosphere, and food that hit the spot after a long day on the mountain. Highly recommend the wings, the steak, and—if you’re starving—the nachos that could probably feed an entire ski team.

    The next night, we went to Harbor Grille, which sits right on the edge of Flathead Lake. We grabbed a table by the big picture window and had front-row seats to a gorgeous lakeside sunset. The restaurant has a huge dock out back that I’m sure is buzzing with boaters and summer crowds when it’s warm, but in the winter it felt peaceful and quiet in the best way.

    And, because the universe wanted to reward me for skiing all day, they had live bingo while we were there. Not only did the kids get their own bingo cards (which kept them entertained and in their seats), but I won the jackpot!

    Lakeside may be a tiny town, but it had everything we needed: great food, relaxing accommodations, and easy access to one of the best family-friendly ski resorts we’ve ever visited. Total win all around.

    whitefish mountain resort - spring break with kids

    Days 4 & 5: Skiing Whitefish

    Whitefish is a real ski mountain—big, beautiful, and packed with terrain. It was definitely more crowded than Blacktail, but still nowhere near what we’ve seen at other resorts (even our little local hill back in St. Louis can feel more chaotic on a Saturday).

    Lift lines were short—usually just a few minutes max—and even though the summit area got a little congested (everyone funnels through there eventually), the crowds spread out fast once you dropped into a run. In fact, we had multiple runs where we didn’t see a single other skier the whole way down. I’ll take that over the mega-resort lift line shuffle any day.

    views from the top of big mountain - whitefish montana

    Speaking of the summit area, at the top of the mountain (appropriately called “Big Mountain”), there are absolutely unreal views of Glacier National Park, Whitefish Lake, and the surrounding Northern Rockies. On a clear day, you can literally see into Canada!

    For lunch both days, we hit the Summit House. We were fully expecting cafeteria chaos but were pleasantly shocked—no line, plenty of tables, and some seriously good food. Highly recommend the poke bowls and the curry bowls.

    The real winner, though? The backside of the mountain. It was practically untouched—tons of fresh powder, no one around, and long, dreamy runs that just kept going. We spent most of our second day back there, exploring as much terrain as we could.

    There are so many runs at Whitefish that you could ski for a week and probably not hit them all. The kids loved the variety and even started naming their favorite trails to hit again on the last day. That’s how you know it was a good ski trip—no one was bored, and no one was ready to leave.

    where to stay: whitefish mountain resort - ski whitefish with kids - spring break

    Where we stayed: Whitefish Mountain Resort

    After a few days of cozy cabin life and lugging gear in and out of the car, when we rolled into Whitefish Mountain Resort, we were instantly like, ohhh yeah, this is luxury. Not in a fancy five-star resort kind of way—but in the we-have-room-to-breathe-and-don’t-have-to-play-Tetris-with-our-ski-gear kind of way.

    We stayed at Kintla Lodge, in a 2-bedroom ski-in/ski-out condo right on the mountain, and it was exactly what we needed. Full kitchen (hello, easy breakfasts and late-night snacks), a living room for movie nights, and enough space for everyone to decompress without climbing on each other. Plus, our own parking space in the underground heated (!!) garage! No scraping snow off the windows this time!

    skiing whitefish mountain resort with kids - spring break

    The best part: on-site ski lockers and the ability to walk out the door, click into our skis, and be on Chair 3 within seconds. No schlepping gear through parking lots, no “Mom, where’s my other glove?” in the back of the rental car. Just fresh snow and easy access. This is the ski parent dream.

    This setup gave our kids something they desperately needed after three full days of family togetherness: a little independence. They could gear up, head out the door, and do a few laps (terrain park included!) without us!! And we could sit inside, drink coffee, and pretend we were still young and hip while icing our knees. Everybody won.

    Whitefish gave us the big-mountain experience without the big-mountain hassle. Great snow, no crowds, fast lifts, amazing views, and a condo that felt like home (but with a way better view). If you’re looking for a true ski resort that still feels welcoming and family-friendly, this is it.

    spring break dog sledding

    Day 6: Dog Sledding + Hot Springs

    After four full days of skiing, we changed things up with a bit of adventure off the slopes—and it did not disappoint. We started the day with dog sledding just outside of Bigfork, and it was honestly one of the coolest experiences I’ve ever had!

    Dog sledding with Base Camp Bigfork

    We booked with Base Camp Bigfork, and our guide Mark was super friendly, incredibly knowledgeable, and clearly obsessed with his dogs in the best way possible. He started by introducing us to the pups (who were all SO excited to see us—like, full-volume howling, tail-wagging chaos), answered all our questions, and gave us a rundown of how the whole sledding process works. The kids loved petting the dogs—who were totally in their element—and the dogs were clearly just as happy to soak up the attention.

    Mark runs one sled at a time this time of year, and kids have to be at least 12 to ride, so my oldest and I paired up while the younger two stayed behind with my husband to grab breakfast (a massive plate of pancakes) and explore the area. No complaints there. We loaded up the gear and drove about 20 minutes past beautiful Swan Lake to the sledding location.

    dog sledding adventure with kids - Montana

    I started on the back of the sled (a.k.a. the musher position), but within minutes my son swapped spots with me and took over. He was living his best life back there, handling the dogs and sled like he’s been training for years. Meanwhile, I fully embraced my role as passenger princess, soaking it all in and letting the dogs do their thing.

    Mark followed us on cross-country skis, which was impressive on its own—but then one of his ski bindings broke mid-run, and he just kept going… on one ski. And kept up no problem. I mean, what?! This man deserves a medal.

    About halfway through, we stopped at a gorgeous riverbank for hot cocoa and snacks. It was peaceful, scenic, and just the reset we needed. Even my typically unimpressed 12-year-old (who was a little salty to be missing a ski day) admitted that it was “actually really cool” and “better than I thought it would be.” So, basically, glowing praise.

    This is one of those experiences I’ll remember forever—the dogs, the snow, the stillness, the laughter, the chaos of getting them harnessed up while holding the lead dog and trying not to get knocked over by all the excitement. It was magical.

    Mark mentioned that this was likely one of the last dogsled runs of the season—the snow was starting to get slushy, which makes it harder for the dogs to pull—but we’re so glad we got in one last epic ride.

    Finally, just wanted to give Mark an extra shout out for taking TONS of photos of us during our dog sledding session and then air-dropping them all to me! I can’t tell you how much it means to me to be IN some of the photos (I’m usually behind the camera). I appreciate it SO much! Highly recommend Base Camp Bigfork.

    Montana spring break road trip - Quinn's Hot Springs

    Quinn’s Hot Springs

    After dog sledding, we hit the road again and made our way to Quinn’s Hot Springs Resort in Paradise, Montana. After four days of skiing and one unforgettable sled ride, soaking in a steamy hot spring sounded like exactly what my tired aching body needed.

    Quinn’s has five mineral pools of varying temps (from toasty to “I’m-cooking-myself”) plus a few saltwater pools that are open to kids. While some of the mineral pools are adults-only, everything is close enough together that you can still keep an eye on your kids if you’re soaking in another pool, which I appreciated as a parent trying to relax but also still, you know, parent.

    Quinn's Hot Springs with Kids - spring break road trip

    The facilities were super nice—clean, modern, and spacious, with brand-new locker rooms and bathrooms that didn’t smell like middle school gym class (always a win). They even have a poolside bar with drinks and snacks, which felt very resort-like in the best way.

    The only challenge? My kids were coming off a long car ride and several days of skiing and were very enthusiastic about being in warm water. Let’s just say it took some serious whisper-yelling to keep them from turning the place into a water park. But we managed, and hopefully didn’t ruin anyone else’s vibe too badly. Sorry, other couples.

    As we soaked in the warm water, I could literally feel my muscles melt. I looked over at my husband and could tell he was only half listening to the kids—his brain was clearly already out on the river behind the resort, planning his dream fly-fishing weekend.

    Quinn’s also has a tavern, a restaurant, and a bunch of adorable riverfront cabins and lodges. I immediately bookmarked it in my brain as a future kid-free weekend getaway. Or maybe a couples’ trip with friends. Or maybe just me. Solo. With a book and a margarita. I’ll be back.

    spring break skiing - Montana - Lookout Pass

    Day 7: Skiing powder at Lookout Pass

    Our last ski day of the trip was at Lookout Pass Ski & Recreation Area, and I’ve got one word for you: WOW. Honestly, we weren’t sure anything could top Whitefish or Blacktail, but Lookout somehow managed to combine the best of bothmore terrain, better snow, no crowds, and absolute magic.

    Every local we met said, “You’re going to love Lookout,” and they weren’t wrong. It’s bigger than Blacktail, with the untouched, fluffy terrain of Whitefish—but somehow even less crowded.

    We pulled into the parking lot (front row spot, thank you very much), got our gear on in record time, and hit the slopes to find that… we basically had the mountain to ourselves. I’m not exaggerating—we were skiing runs that hadn’t even been touched yet. Fresh, knee-deep powder and wide open trails all to ourselves. Ski trip jackpot.

    ski Lookout Pass with kids - spring break skiing

    Apparently, Lookout Pass is perfectly positioned where the moist air from the PNW slams into the cold mountain air, so it gets dumped on with snow. And boy, did it deliver for us. My husband and oldest were in heaven—declared it their favorite day of the whole trip. The snow was that good.

    The backside of the mountain, in particular, was just bananas. My 6-year-old practically disappeared in the powder—it was up to his chest in places—and somehow that only made him want to ski faster.

    You actually ski in both Montana and Idaho at Lookout, which my kids thought was the coolest thing ever. It’s also on Pacific Time, which is just something to keep in mind when planning your ski day, especially if you’re coming from Missoula.

    The lodge is small and cozy, with everything you need and nothing you don’t. There’s not much else around out there, so you’re really going for the mountain—and it’s so worth it. Total hidden gem. If you’re looking for big snow without big crowds, this is the place.

    Now, in true “we were pushing our luck” fashion, our youngest went so hard after lunch that… he puked. Multiple times. Right there on the mountain. Thankfully, ski patrol was nearby and immediately swooped in like the heroes they are. They helped us get him safely down the mountain, warmed up, and feeling better in no time. They were so kind, so professional, and made what could’ve been a scary situation feel calm and manageable. Not exactly how we wanted to wrap up our ski season—but it wasn’t a broken bone or an ER trip, so we’ll call it a win.

    As we packed up and headed back to the car, we were all a little teary-eyed. Our Montana road trip ski adventure had officially come to an end, and none of us were ready to say goodbye. It was a magical last day on the slopes and one we’ll never forget.

    Where we stayed: Huckleberry Cabin in St. Regis

    That night, we stayed at Huckleberry Cabin in St. Regis, about a 40-minute drive from Lookout Pass. St. Regis is tiny—as in, blink-and-you’ll-miss-it—but it’s got a couple of solid restaurants (and yes, the best huckleberry milkshakes) that kept everyone full and happy.

    The cabin itself was a total surprise—in the best way. It was super spacious, clean, and stocked with everything you could possibly need: fresh eggs, pancake mix, bagels, games (indoor and outdoor), laundry and cleaning supplies, a full kitchen… the works. After a full day of skiing and a mild family emergency, it was exactly the cozy landing zone we needed.

    Full disclosure: To get to the cabin, you do have to drive through a not-so-picturesque trailer park, and we were a little concerned at first. But once you’re inside the property, it’s quiet, safe, and peaceful—we had zero issues and loved our stay. Highly recommend if you’re looking for something comfortable and affordable near Lookout.

    Day 8: Back to Missoula + fly home

    The final day of our Montana road trip started with a drive back to Missoula, and honestly, the whole car ride felt like a bittersweet montage. Everyone was tired, a little sore, and a little sad it was over—but also buzzing with stories, inside jokes, and plans to come back. Always the sign of a good trip.

    Before heading to the airport, we had time for a little exploring around Missoula. This town is such a hidden gem for outdoorsy families. There’s great hiking just minutes from downtown in the Rattlesnake National Recreation Area—perfect for a short leg-stretcher before a flight. The Clark Fork River runs right through town, and during the warmer months, locals love to surf the manmade “wave” near Caras Park. Yes, you read that right—surfing. In Montana. On a river. And it’s legit.

    In the summer, you can even hop on a local river shuttle bus that drives you upstream, drop your tubes in the water, and float your way back down into town. I’m already scheming how to get back and do this—preferably with a cold beverage in hand and no responsibilities for the day. #Goals

    We returned our rental car (shed a small tear for our trusty Suburban), rolled through security, and were back in our seats, already scrolling through photos and wondering how many huckleberry treats we could pack in our carry-ons.

    suburban rental in Bozeman for familieis

    Our Ultimate 8-Day Montana Family Road Trip Itinerary

    Here’s the full run-down of our action-packed, kid-approved Montana spring break skiing road trip adventure:

    • Day 1: Arrive in Missoula · Explore downtown · Dinner at Cranky Sam’s · Stay at The Wren
    • Day 2: Drive to Blacktail · Ski all day · Stay at The Cabins at Blacktail (Camp Haus)
    • Day 3: Ski Blacktail again · Kids take lessons · Dinner in Lakeside
    • Day 4: Drive to Whitefish · Ski Whitefish Mountain Resort · Stay in ski-in/ski-out condo
    • Day 5: Ski Whitefish again · Explore the backside · Poke bowls at Summit House
    • Day 6: Dog sledding with Base Camp Bigfork · Soak at Quinn’s Hot Springs · Stay in St. Regis
    • Day 7: Ski Lookout Pass · Epic powder day · Stay in Airbnb cabin
    • Day 8: Drive back to Missoula · Explore town + nearby hikes · Fly home
    best family skiing in Montana

    Tips for families planning a Montana road trip

    • Fly into Missoula or Kalispell for the easiest access to Western Montana ski towns.
    • Rent a 4WD vehicle, especially if traveling in winter. Roads are plowed, but you’ll want traction for mountain driving.
    • If you’re renting skis and ski boots, consider getting them in Missoula for the entire week, so you don’t have to rent in each location. This saves time and money.
    • Dress in layers—Montana weather changes quickly! Base layers, waterproof outerwear, and plenty of wool socks are your best friends.
    • Book ski lessons early. The private lessons were affordable and incredibly helpful, especially for younger kids or anyone looking to level up fast.
    • Look for ski-in/ski-out lodging at Whitefish for max convenience. At Blacktail and Lookout, plan to drive from nearby towns (Lakeside or St. Regis).
    • Hot springs = family reset button. If you can build in a soak day mid-trip, DO IT.
    • Pack games, books, and snacks for cabin stays. Many Montana rentals are cozy, remote, and intentionally unplugged—which is amazing, as long as you’re prepared.
    • Buy your lift tickets and rentals in advance when possible. Price and availability can vary by resort and season (many offer discounts for booking online in advance).
    • Don’t skip the “off-mountain” stuff! Dog sledding, riverside hikes, and cute downtowns added so much fun and variety to our trip.
    Spring break Montana road trip with kids

    Final thoughts on our Western Montana road trip

    Our Western Montana road trip gave us everything we were looking for in a family spring break: incredible skiing, cozy cabins, wide open spaces, fewer crowds, and unforgettable adventures. We spent our days chasing powder and our nights soaking sore muscles, eating hearty food, and laughing around the table together.

    Each place we visited brought something different, each town its own flavor, and every ski experience added to this wild, memory-filled, joyfully exhausting road trip.

    If you’re thinking about a Montana family road trip—whether it’s for spring break, winter break, or just a much-needed escape—let this be your sign to GO. It doesn’t have to be fancy or perfectly planned. All you need is a love of adventure, a sense of humor, and maybe a backup pair of gloves.

    We went to Montana for the skiing… but we left already dreaming of coming back for the rivers, the hikes, the float trips, and the magic that makes this place feel like home—no matter how far away you’ve traveled to get there.

    Montana chocolate adventure box and Missoula sticker

    Additional Montana road trip planning resources

    For more information and resources to help plan your Montana adventure, check out the following:

    Visit Montana: The official state tourism site offers comprehensive details on attractions, accommodations, and events across Montana. ​

    Western Montana’s Glacier Country – A regional tourism site focused on Northwest Montana with tons of ideas for outdoor adventures, lodging, and local gems.

    Destination Missoula – All things Missoula: what to do, where to eat, where to stay, and family-friendly itineraries.

    Explore Whitefish – Your go-to for planning a trip to Whitefish, including lodging, dining, and local events.

    Blacktail Mountain Ski Area – Affordable, family-focused skiing with all the current info on tickets, lessons, and mountain conditions.

    Whitefish Mountain Resort – Big mountain skiing with detailed lift info, trail maps, lessons, and lodging options.

    Lookout Pass Ski & Recreation Area – Details on terrain, lift passes, rentals, and snow reports for this hidden gem on the Montana/Idaho border.

  • How to Plan a Kid-Friendly European Road Trip

    so Going on a European road trip with kids is not just a journey; it’s a self-guided adventure! From medieval castles to sun-soaked beaches, Europe offers so many unique experiences for families seeking a blend of cultural enrichment and outdoor escapades. Today, Anna Stopinska-Lewucha, a UK mum of two, talks about why her family chooses road trips instead of organized holidays and how they do it. This post will cover step-by-step how they prepare for their European road trips and illustrate that the efforts are worth it. She’ll delve into the art of choosing family-friendly accommodations, the best outdoor kid-friendly activities along the way, and how to save money on your travels. Ready to learn how to navigate the open roads of Europe with kids? Let’s go!

    mum and her boys eating their lunch in a park

    What’s a holiday to you?

    If you ask the average mum how her family spends their main summer gateway, you’ll most likely hear that they book an all-inclusive holiday package to somewhere tropical and sunny. She might tell you that’s because it’s easy, convenient, insured, and child-friendly. And all of that would be true. For many families, all they want while on vacation is pretty water, warm sand, guaranteed sunshine, great food, and no worries or hassles. And that sounds like a good holiday, indeed.

    However, every vacation or holiday doesn’t have to be the same. Has it ever crossed your mind that your precious time away, as a family, could be a little bit more experimental and adventurous? Rugged and exciting? 

    There’s definitely room for those picture-perfect tropical beach trips, but I’d also like you to consider adding some good old-fashioned fun to an upcoming holiday by taking a family road trip! 

    The tempting taste of adventure

    Before we had kids, backpacking and minimal preparation was the way to go for us. We hitchhiked, used local transport, slept in cheap hostels, and had very flexible itineraries. Even our honeymoon was a hitchhiking trip through nine European countries, with a small, cheap tent, and on a very low budget. And what an adventure it was!

    However, with the arrival of our children, we realised it was time to be a bit more reasonable with our vacations. We still craved adventure, both for ourselves and for them, but it looked different than what we were used to.

    Our first road trip experience with kids

    When our older son, Stefan, was 13 months old, we braved a little road trip around the southern part of Norway. We saw a lot, and it brought back so many lovely memories. However, that trip included a hospital visit. One of any parent’s biggest fear is that their children will get sick or hurt while travelling. And it did actually happen to us. It was very scary, but, in retrospect, I can say that this experience was valuable, and it gave us a lot of courage for the future. 

    It showed right away that we could handle hard things. We realised that if we need help, it will be there (having insurance and knowledge of how to use it is a must). I feel it’s important and fair to mention that experience here, because a road trip is a self-made and self-get-out-of-the-possible-trouble affair. Things can go awry on a trip like this, forcing you to adjust, be flexible, adapt, and figure things out as you go. But it’s also a lot of fun! 

    The “why” of taking a family road trip

    Road trips with kids take a lot of planning and research. They also require a lot of patience, grace, and determination. So, why do we “torture” ourselves with hours of research and preparation? Why is it that we crave the adventure of a road trip, despite how many unknowns there are and unexpected things that could happen?

    Well, I actually think that planning and preparing for an adventure is an adventure in itself. For me, I truly enjoy the process of choosing and planning an adventure for my family. It gives me so much to look forward to and makes the experience so much more valuable and meaningful to me when I put in the work and love to plan our holiday. I enjoy searching the internet and reading blogs about places we could visit and accommodations where we could stay. I like that we get to decide where we are going and how we will spend our time there, based on our family’s interests and personalities. Road trips give us so much independence, and I love the thrill of it.

    I choose road trips because I want to create memories that are only ours. Memories that are unique to our family and our experiences. I want my children to grow into adults with stories to tell. And I want my children to grow into adventurous adults that try new things.

    Sometimes, when I tell people about our adventures, they say, “I wish I knew how to do that.” Here is a simplified guide on how you can do it.

    Where to go on your family-friendly European road trip

    The first step in planning a European road trip is to figure out where you’d like to go. You probably already have some inspiration and an idea of places you would like to visit or an event you would like to attend. Determine where you would like to go and why. Get the whole family involved in the planning process. Ask the kids where they’d like to go, what they’d like to do, and what they’re interested in seeing. You might be surprised by their answers! 

    You can get inspired to travel in many different ways. Examples of road trip inspirations in our family include (1) trip to visit family, (2) an Instagram post that fascinated me, (3) a blog article I read, (4) a photo that piqued my interest, and (5) a story I heard from a friend about a destination. 

    Next summer, our adventures will include a visit to the Colosseum in Rome because it’s my younger son’s dream. He learned about the Roman Empire at school and wanted to see the Colosseum ever since. My older son wants to go back to Chamonix in the French Alps, which we visited last summer. And finally, we will be going home to visit our families in Poland. So, we already have 4 big dots (our parents live in different parts of Poland) on the map of Europe. Nearer the time, we will find places in-between and connect these dots.

    Consider your interests and do your research

    If you still don’t know where you’d like to go, consider the things that interest you the most. Do you enjoy the beach, the mountains, or forest locations? Is there any particular time period or historical figure that fascinates you? Do you speak a language you’d like to practice? Is there a particular food you’d like to try? Have you read about an area you’d like to experience first-hand? Are your kids studying anywhere in school that would interest them? Are there super inexpensive flights to anywhere that interests you (and then you could rent a car)? 

    Once you’ve chosen an area, start researching the location. YouTube has videos from most countries and regions in the world and there are many great travel blogs out there dedicated to kid-friendly trips and vacations. Simply type in “best places to see/visit in…” or “child-friendly activities in…” and voila! I’m sure something will catch your eye sooner or later.

    When planning a road trip with children there are certain things we like to fit into our daily schedule to help break up the hours on the road and give the kids things to look forward to. My number one tip is to include ice cream and a playground stops into your daily routine. This combo definitely allows them to stretch, play, burn some every, enjoy a sweet treat, and forgive us for the long hours in a car.

    My favourite travel destination since we became parents is Scandinavia. It’s such child child-friendly part of the world and easy to travel to. The nature is spectacular and their campsites are well equipped.  Everywhere we went in Norway, there were waterfalls (kids loved spotting them) and even some trolls (wooden, not real). When we needed medical help, it was easy to find and very straightforward. Everywhere we went, we felt genuinely welcomed.

    ice-cream in Germany

    When to start planning

    There’s no right or wrong time to start planning a road trip, but in my experience, the sooner you start planning your adventure, the better. Giving yourself more time to plan can help you feel more comfortable and confident on your trip. We’ve taken plenty of trips where we didn’t do much planning, but the ones we plan for always seem to go much better and smoother.

    Depending on your mode of transport (your own car or flying somewhere and then renting a car), you will need to prioritise your steps. If you need to fly to your destination country, you will need to book your airplane tickets first. Then, the ticket dates are your trip dates, then you need to book a car and then plan your route and accommodations. Depending on your budget, time frame, and number of places you want to see, you might need to adjust your route.

    The sooner you start looking at your trip and planning, the more choices you will have. My hack for starting booking a summer holiday is the time just before Christmas. This is usually far enough in advance for us to have a lot of options to choose from regarding activities and accommodations. Having choices is always important to us as it allows us to choose our accommodation rather than having to pick from what is left. It’s more flexible when travelling with a tent, but when looking for bargains and places which are interesting to stay, starting reservations early has always worked for us.

    door photo

    Transportation considerations

    One of our favorite ways to explore a new location was to fly to a destination and rent a car there to explore. Flying somewhere and then renting a car is a great way to explore an area that’s further away, giving you more time in and around that location than you’d have if you had to drive there from home. We loved to look for inexpensive flights to locations that interested us and then book a car. Sometimes, it’s worth booking a flight and car bundle via the airline’s website, but not always. 

    However, this is not currently an option for us anymore. Our autistic son became very anxious about flying, and so we are now restricted to our car and where we can drive from our home location. Over the years, we’ve had some fantastic road trips in our everyday car (although we’re looking into the possibility of getting a van for our adventures this summer).

    The advantage of skipping the plane and leaving straight from home is that we could load it up with the stuff we needed and didn’t have to pay for a plane ticket or a car rental. The big disadvantage is time. A flight could give us an opportunity to road trip in another part of Europe within a two-week timeframe. However, we are restricted to countries close to the UK. A car journey from the UK to mainland Europe has a ferry crossing in a package. Again, it’s a good idea to book it well in advance so you have options. For us, stopping near a ferry port in the evening and taking a ferry early in the morning works well.

    my Troll and a troll

    Accommodations while on a road trip with kids

    There are a lot of different accommodation options when you’re traveling on a road trip. First and foremost, family-friendly hotels provide spacious rooms and amenities that often include play areas, kid-friendly menus, and sometimes even organized activities to keep the little ones entertained. Vacation rentals or serviced apartments offer home-like environments with fully equipped kitchens and separate bedrooms, fostering a sense of routine and comfort. Campgrounds and RV parks provide a nature-centric option for families seeking adventure, allowing children to explore the outdoors and engage in activities like hiking and camping. Additionally, themed resorts with on-site entertainment, water parks, and recreational facilities ensure an unforgettable experience for young travelers. 

    Camping road trips

    We’ve done two road trips with our boys where we relied entirely on sleeping in a tent and one where we used a tent partially. For the rest of our road trips, we stayed in under-some-sort-of-roof accommodation. My children love camping, and we enjoyed the flexibility of traveling with a tent. Opting for campgrounds during a European road trip allows families to immerse themselves in nature while keeping accommodation costs in check. Setting up tents or parking RVs in campgrounds not only maximizes outdoor time with nature hikes and campfire evenings but also provides an economical lodging alternative, freeing up your budget for more memorable family activities and experiences along the road.

    Unique accommodations

    Looking for accommodation is an art (and a lot of fun!) in itself. We always have a limited budget, but we love to find interesting places to stay. To give you a few examples, we have experienced sleeping in:

    • a barrel-shaped hideaway in Scotland, where an old whisky barrel from their local distillery transformed into a loo
    • farm accommodation where our children were invited to feed farm animals and spend time with them
    • an apartment in France that had discrete, modern touches but looked like out of a 1920’s movie
    • a converted horse box (with cute mini pigs to pet)
    • organic farm with an outdoor kitchen on the Orkney Islands

    Researching accommodations

    We use the big websites to search for accommodation as well as focus on the area where we want to stop and use the search engine to find places that choose not to advertise themselves via big brands. Example: you can type “Keswick” (a lovely town near us) as your destination using well-known websites, then check keswick.org for “where to stay”  and simply enter “Keswick accommodation” into the search engine to find individual websites of people who offer accommodation but opt of selling them under the umbrella of large marketplaces.

    When travelling abroad, it’s worth visiting various blogs to see how things work where we are going. On our two separate Norwegian road trips, we’ve nailed it! We slept in simple wooden cabins that were cheap, well-kept, and well-equipped all because we discovered the Norwegian word “hytte” (which means “cabin”), so we were able to use that when searching online for accommodations. A little play with the English-Norwegian Google translation gave us access to so many more cabins/hyttes than the English sites would. Their prices were also lower.

    Scandinavia amazes me with its camping amenities (tent and cabins). Wherever we stayed, we had access to a proper kitchen (in the UK, that isn’t the case) so cooking was always easy and available. 

    campsite

    Choosing your road trip route

    The road trips we go on aren’t crazy long. Both of my boys have always made it clear that they don’t enjoy very long distances in a car and get bored with long hours on a motorway. Therefore, we try not to drive more than 6 hours in one day. Also, if we stay somewhere for one night, we try to stop for two or three nights in the next place.  This schedule works well for us.

    Not driving very long distances also allows for some flexibility, which is such an important element of road trips. When we drive from one place to another, we find a place where we can stop for a while to stretch our legs and try to do some sightseeing. Europe seems to be dotted with little, beautiful towns and interesting places, where just walking around, taking it in, and having an ice cream seem to make us all happy.

    Finding pretty little towns along the way

    If you don’t know how to find a pretty town or village, do a Google search for “pretty town in [region].” You’d be amazed at how well that works! I like to have an idea of where nice places are before we set off. Not only does this help with planning stops, but also because I wouldn’t like to miss something obvious while travelling.

    Likewise, we usually like to have some expectations about the places where we stay for a bit longer. We want the accommodation to be decent and interesting and to be in an area where we can see something. The first example that comes to my mind is our three-night stay near the Trolls Road in Norway. We had time to explore the area and enjoy the winding road each day. Similarly, staying on an organic farm on Orkneys allowed us to explore the islands as well as enjoy our time on the farm.

    a little town in France where we stopped for a walk

    Ideas for what to see with kids on a European road trip

    Because my autistic child gets sensory overload in big cities, we avoid too many urban areas in our travels. If we go to a city we make sure we can compensate for the stress by spending some time outdoor and in quiet nature afterward.

    A few of our favorite outdoor kid-friendly things to do and places to explore on road trips are nature reserves, small museums, open-air museums, visitor centers, working farms open to the public, castles, street art exhibitions, small towns, places where we can hike, forests, beaches, places where we can see some animals.

    We also pay attention to what we don’t have at home. We look for different architecture, new experiences, or something unique to the area. For example, we loved making the most of chairlifts and gondolas in Chamonix Valley in the French Alps, visiting a Dinosaur-themed amusement park in Poland, and exploring the biggest aquarium in Europe in northern France. We don’t do too many “big things” within one trip, but these were all worth it. 

    on a chair lift

    Making it fun for the kids

    The first and obvious element of organising a road trip with children is to ask them what they would like to do and see. To keep everyone happy, we usually do our research first, and then give them a few options to choose from. I think it’s important they feel included and that they have a say.

    On the other hand, we want to expand their world and knowledge as well as see places that interest us, too (otherwise, we would end up visiting train stations and dinosaur parks all over Europe). Visiting a melting glacier in the Chamonix Valley wouldn’t have been their first choice, but my autistic child loved a train ride there and back, while his brother found being inside a real glacier fascinating. It was a win-win for everyone. 

    Their choice of activity in the area was to go swimming in a nearby lake each evening, which we happily agreed to and all enjoyed very much. As I have already mentioned, a daily visit to a playground and a nice ice cream is something that is interweaved into our daily holiday routine.  

    playground daily dose

    What to take with you on a European road trip with kids

    In addition to obvious items like passports, cameras, phone chargers, and clothes, we usually pack the following items for a family road trip:

    • Cooking – some pots and pans (even when flying, we took one each and left them, after asking if that’s ok, in communal kitchens after our last sleep in the country)
    • Medicines – including children’s cold meds/painkillers, plasters, a thermometer (bulky, but we never regretted taking a thermometer)
    • Toys – a ball, some board games (Monopoly was our last summer’s hit), trivia for the car, some books
    • Activity packs – paper and crayons (believe me or not, we had to buy A4 paper for our boys one year, as they insisted on a drawing session each evening)
    • Snacks – their favourite snacks from home, it’s so much easier (and cheaper) to have their favourite selection on hand and at the ready
    • Autism specific items – Stefan misses home on holidays, so we go around the house and garden and take photos which he can look at while away. We also take small sensory toys, his favourite blanket and a plush toy.
    • Tablets – we take kids’ tablets too; nothing beats a bit of Minecraft when we need to keep them busy

    at the lake

    Dangers and how to avoid them

    Where there are children, there is chaos. Where there is chaos, unexpected things could happen. We like to be as prepared as possible for unexpected situations and have a game plan ahead of time for how we’ll handle them. 

    Elopement

    As parents to an autistic child, one of our greatest fears is that our child would walk away unnoticed (it’s called elopement). Walking away while their adults are busy is a skill that autistic children are excellent at. While in the UK, we use a sunflower lanyard (which is voluntarily worn by people with hidden disabilities), so that members of the public are aware that our child is vulnerable and might need help. We make sure to bring that lanyard with us and that Stephan is wearing it when in public places. 

    Overstimulation

    Another danger that is relatable to both of my children is overdoing it. Many times, seeing them being excited about something, indulging in their excitement, and missing subtle signs of overstimulation, we ended up with unnecessary upset. Meltdowns and tantrums happen, but I’m pleased to say that with age, they’ve learned how to manage their own emotions and we became more vigilant to signs of tiredness.

    Going over budget

    And for adults, sticking to a budget and not overspending is a concern while vacationing. We try to have our main expenses covered before we set off (e.g., accommodations, renting a car, pre-booking expensive attractions) and to have an idea of how much money we might spend on average per day. Nobody likes thinking too much about money while enjoying their well-deserved time away. However, it’s good to be prepared. Good car insurance, travel insurance, and having our car checked before leaving home are the basics we should take care of to avoid stress and unwanted expenses.

    hiking in the Alps

    Money-saving, budget-friendly road trip tips

    If your budget is tight, but you still want to have an amazing adventure, it can absolutely be done! Below are some tips on how to plan a road trip on a budget:

    • Bring your own car.
    • Pack a cooler and bring lots of food and snacks that the whole family enjoys to keep you away from “hunger stops.”
    • Take water bottles (in the UK kitchen, tap water is safe to drink), so you don’t have to buy water.
    • Take long-life shelf-stable food from home (e.g., jars, cans, and tins) and top up with fresh food in local supermarkets. Don’t eat out at restaurants often. You can cook quick meals on your own with your staples.
    • Invest in a tent and camp. Campsites vary throughout Europe in terms of facilities. In Scandinavia, every campsite we went to had a kitchen with cookers. Some had ovens and even some pans and pots.
    • Buy a camping cooker. It will allow you to heat up ready meals and boil water for hot drinks.
    • When going in a specific region it’s worth planning what you want to see. For example, if you want to visit Scotland, known for its many beautiful castles, you might want to consider buying a Historic Scotland membership and having unlimited access to the castles under their scheme.
    • Make sure you pack all your clothes, medicines and equipment, as buying when needed might cost more than you usually pay.
    • We take our bicycles with us. Buying a bike rack was a good investment; renting bikes for a family of four would be expensive.

    making lunch at the campsite

    Experiencing a road trip through the eyes of your child

    As adults, we all have our unique sets of experiences. Those of us who have been to certain places experience travelling differently than those who do it for the first time. And, if you are a child, everything new or different can be exciting.

    Here are examples of what I have rediscovered through our family road trips and being a part of my kids’ experiences:

    • Don’t underestimate how simple everyday activities are new and different in a new place. A simple visit to a supermarket in another country is fascinating and can take hours. My children are absolutely fascinated by different layouts and products in shops abroad. I never would have imagined that years later we’d still be talking about these visits and that they remember the names of these shops. 
    • People dress differently in different countries. Kids are observant and can be very interested in what people wear in different places you travel. 
    • The vehicles on the road can be vary different from country to country. For example, there are so many bicycles in the Netherlands compared to the huge variety of campervans in Norway.
    • Climate and temperature differ, even in the same month/season. Summer swimming in Poland is a very different experience than swimming in Sweden in the same month.
    • No two places are ever the same. And no two visits to the same place are the same. Every visit and every place provides a different experience. 
    • Foreign languages while abroad are fascinating. From listening to the people using the language to foreign language on road signs. Us trying to communicate in places where people don’t speak English is also hilarious to our children. 
    • The feeling of being a guest somewhere is such a special and unique experience. 
    • All these little mistakes and mishaps we have on our adventures sometimes turn out to be the funniest stories and memories (e.g. shops being closed on Sundays in some countries or places where you can only pay with cash…oops.)
    • Driving our car on the right side of the road, while it’s on the left in the UK, is a whole other experience! 
    • Different accents across the UK are so interesting. 
    • The ability to decide what we want to do and how and the freedom to change our mind is priceless.

    Irish castle, they only allowed to explore the green

    Are you ready for a road trip yet?

    Trying something new can be both overwhelming and exciting. And that’s absolutely fine. Travelling with kids is a full-on experience; it requires effort, but it’s very exciting, too. Having a unique, self-designed, and self-made adventure can be truly rewarding, and that’s just what a road trip is!

    As I write this article, we are slowly planning our next year’s adventure, which fills me with excitement about the adventures to come. I hope, that having a simple “what to do and how” guide will encourage you to try something new and will help you to create your own family road-trip adventure.

    Would you consider going on a European road trip some day? 

    About the author

    Anna is a mum of two energetic boys and the wife of Cezary. Before they started a family, they enjoyed backpacking and hitchhiking. Once the kids arrived, they adjusted their lifestyle and settled down in the beautiful Lake District, in the northwest of England. It’s often foggy and rainy where they live, but, they are outdoors in any weather. Anna is an ultramarathon runner, and Cezary loves triathlons, so, the children grow up being involved in hiking, trail running, cycling, all-year-round wild water swimming, and camping.

    Stefan is 12 years old and has been diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder and ADHD. Antek is a neurotypical 10-year-old. Anna believes in positive psychology, in creating good moments and capturing memories. She believes being outdoors brings them together as a family and advocates for children with additional needs to be encouraged to explore and play outside. She trusts nature is a natural playground, enriches and stimulates the senses, and this is where she sees her children happiest. 

    You can find more from Anna in the following online location:
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  • Adventuring as a Solo Mom

    Here at Run Wild My Child, we’re big fans of moms! We genuinely believe moms can do just about anything they put their minds to. We want to help moms make the most of their time with their kids and make it easier to get outside and make memories together in nature. One of the best ways to do that is through solo adventures with kids. We know that having another parent/adult around might make adventuring easier, but we can do hard things, and moms shouldn’t have to wait for their partner before adventuring with kids. Today, Tine Voeten, Belgian mom of two, is here sharing her most recent solo mom adventure with her daughters. She’s sharing the tips she learned for traveling with kids solo while exploring Belgium in search of spring blossoms. She just might convince you to try a solo mom adventure with your kids. 

    Adventure mom

    Solo mom adventures

    Whether you are married/co-parenting or not, at times, we moms find ourselves parenting solo. Whether you’re solo parenting full-time or part-time, because of divorce, your partner’s demanding work schedule, deployment, choice, or other circumstances, you can still have amazing adventures with your kids. Adventuring on your own solo with your kids might sound overwhelming and scary, but I’m here to assure you that you can do it! It may not go perfectly (it won’t), but your solo mom adventure will be a fantastic bonding experience with your children and make you feel more confident and comfortable in your parenting skills. 

    Seeking adventure may not be on your priority list when you’re solo parenting. But it should be! Let me take you along on my most recent solo-mom adventure, which started with chasing pretty spring flowers and ended with us going on our first campervan trip ever, heading for the blossoms in Dutch Zeeland! It was terrific and something we’ll remember forever, but I will assure you, it didn’t go exactly as planned! 

    My solo mom spring experience

    This past March, my husband went to the U.S. to visit his family for nine weeks. It was the first time that I was alone with the girls for such a long time. So here you have it, a solo-mom seeking adventure! As a family, we are very active and love to explore. We didn’t want my husband’s absence to slow us down or keep us from doing fun outdoor activities. I made a plan for the whole nine weeks, with tons of fun adventures and some time to slow down at home, too.

    Springtime in our area is magical, with all the spring blossoms and tulips. I knew I would make the girls happy to go see them, so I planned some time to visit our nearby blossom fields. However, I forgot that looking for blossoms or flowers in spring can be tricky since it often depends on the weather. The weather in Belgium and Holland can be very unpredictable and unstable, especially during springtime! One day it is 70°C and sunny; the next day, it snows! 

    Apple blossom
    Apple Blossom in Minderhout, Belgium

    Spring blossoms in Belgium

    The first solo mom adventure I planned was to see spring blossoms in the beautiful region of Limburg in Belgium. If you ever get to visit Belgium, you should definitely explore this area! This region has so many child-friendly, nature-based tours of art and culture. Plus, it boasts some of the most beautiful fields and forests. It is a special region where you get the sense of time slowing down and life just flows at you. It might sound crazy, but you should experience it for yourself! 

    Unfortunately, a visit to the blossom fields didn’t work out for us due to weather. So, what does a mom do best? Postpone and change plans! Weather conditions didn’t keep us from going on an adventure! We visited some amazing museums, had fun at an indoor playground, went to the forest, and took off for a shopping afternoon. Not exactly what we had in mind (and we were disappointed), but we made the most out of our experience and still managed to have fun.  This probably sounds familiar to a lot of moms! Solo mom adventures require a lot of flexibility!

    Family Fun

    Moms can do hard things

    I will tell you a secret. I have an enormous urge to prove that I can do everything alone. Do you have this feeling too? I used to hate asking for help. I was upset with myself when I was overwhelmed but would never admit that I couldn’t do everything on my own. 

    I have learned throughout this past year that this is a foolish way of thinking, especially for a mom. My children benefit more from a mom who can regularly ask for help (and graciously receive it) and is more relaxed than a mom who is often exhausted, easily stressed out, and nervous all the time. I’m getting better at asking for help when I need it, which means my children get a better version of me. 

    Setting a solo mom mission

    However, there are times when moms need to do everything on their own. And solo mom adventures with your kids are the perfect time to prove to yourself that you can do hard things! It’s not about proving to myself how much work and pressure I can handle, it’s about me discovering how much fun I can have by myself with the girls. I also wanted to show that solo moms can seek adventure with kids in all kinds of fun ways completely on my own! 

    So, we came up with an adventure plan and this is what we did! The mission of the weekend: enjoying our first campervan trip ever, looking for the most beautiful blossom fields on the coastline of Holland. 

    Cherry Blossom Zoo of Antwerp
    Famous cherry blossom in the Zoo of Antwerp, Belgium

    Solo mom adventure in a campervan

    For our camping adventure, we rented the most beautiful and practical Hymer Campervan with a sleeping roof from Rent and Away. The sleeping roof takes your experience to the next level and it’s a true campervan escape. Traveling by campervan through Europe has been on my bucket list for years and I’m so proud of myself for taking on this adventure by myself with my girls. I think it proved to all of us just how capable we are of adventuring! 

    Seeing Europe in a campervan

    If you are ever traveling in Central Europe and you love exploring with a campervan, I advise you to start in Belgium! Get your well-equipped campervan from Rent and Away, which is run by a beautiful young family. Jo and An will make sure you will have everything you need for an unforgettable stay in Europe and take great care of you. We had the best experience with them.

    Start your adventure by exploring Belgium – its such a beautiful country and conveniently located in central Europe. Drive south, passing through Luxembourg and France. Next, you can head further southeast to Spain or Portugal, or southwest to Italy via Switzerland. Both are amazing options! If these itineraries don’t inspire (although, how could they not?), you can also head up north, via the Netherlands to Scandinavia, passing through Denmark to magical Scandinavia. And I didn’t even mention how beautiful Croatia, Germany, Austria, and Slovenia are! There are so many possibilities! 

    Hymer Campervan - solo mom adventures with kids in a campervan
    Hymer Campervan with sleeping roof

    Solo mom campervan adventure starts here

    Unfortunately, none of the above exotic multi-country trips were on our agenda, as we only had a weekend to travel. But that’s ok! Again, we made the most out of the time we had and had a wonderful time adventuring a bit closer to home.

    We started out in Herzele, a beautiful municipal in the province of East-Flanders. An and Jo and their two lovely daughters welcomed us into their beautiful domain of Rent And Away. The perfect start for any mom seeking adventure. They are such a lovely family that loves adventuring, and this shows in their vans. You notice instantly that they have thought about every little detail. These vans are the perfect family (and solo-mom) traveling vehicles.

    After a very complete and thorough tour in the van with all the necessary explanations, we were ready to go!  Since it was already nightfall when we got going, we opted to stay there and spend our first night in the van in Herzele. This way, we could leave early in the morning and go and search for flowers in the beautiful nature of Zeeland. The girls were so proud of their campervan. The only thing they weren’t very fond of at first was the indoor toilet. But I can guarantee you, it was an incredible luxury to have our mobile toilet with us! 

    Rent And Away domain

    Chasing blossoms in Dutch Zeeland

    Heading on to the Dutch coast, we made plenty of stops for picnicking and taking some beautiful pictures. I was surprised at how easy it was to park with the Hymer campervan. The size of this van is so compact that you will always find a spot to park. For a van with a kitchen, shower, toilet, table space, and sleeping space for four people, that’s pretty incredible! 

    The only thing we didn’t find were the blossom fields! I completely miscalculated my route and trusted on faith and luck to find one. We did not. However, instead of being stressed out about it, we just went with the flow, drove to a destination called Cadzand, and enjoyed the beach for a couple of hours. It was not what we planned, but it worked out for the best! The girls completely forgot about the flowers and enjoyed the trip. They were so proud of their campervan that I could have taken them to an industrial zone to run around and they wouldn’t care! 

    Mills in Cadzand - exploring Europe with kids in a campervan
    Mill in Cadzand, the Netherlands

    We stayed for the night at a camping area of an asparagus farm in Ede, where they also grow blueberries. No flowers, no blossom, but instead a beautiful area with a playground and an incredible quietness. No need to seek adventure. We had a crazy fun night on the campervan’s sleeping roof after an amazing sunset. 

    Sunset in Ede - solo mom adventure in a campervan
    Sunset in Ede, the Netherlands

    Embracing a change in plans

    So, what about the flowers? Well, we just had to let go of this idea for the weekend and make the most of the other moments. Once I was able to let go of my expectations and follow the speed of the children, everything got easier and felt less stressful. When adventuring as a solo mom, sometimes even the best laid plans just don’t work out and the best way to stay calm and have fun is to embrace the change.

    I planned our trip with only one destination in mind, the Dutch coastline, which left us a lot of room for flexibility. And this is key when you travel with kids. I don’t believe you can push children too much in what you want to do with them. You can dream of climbing a mountain during your trip. But even if you only get halfway, you also can still have an amazing experience.

    Cadzand-Bad
    Cadzand-Bad in the Netherlands

    Trust yourself and your kids

    One of the most important things you learn from doing solo mom adventures with your kids is to trust yourself and your parenting abilities. Pulling off a solo adventure (even if it goes wrong), is empowering! Every time you adventure with your kids, you strengthen that “mommy muscle” and want to see what else you can do.

    Plus, adventuring with your kids also makes you trust your children more. I believe that kids are able to do more than they (or most grownups) think. Kids are very capable if we let them be, and solo adventuring sometimes means that they have to step up and help out more. This is a great opportunity for them to grow and learn. Getting them out of their comfort zone a bit and experiencing new things together will strengthen your family bonds. Together you will find the most magical moments and incredible places, without tight planning and high expectations.

    Solo Mom Adventures with kids - how to adventure on your own
    Rent and Away Campervan

    Best places to view spring blossoms in Belgium and Holland

    Since I’ve lured you here with the promise of spring flower blossoms in Belgium and Holland, here’s a short list of some of the most beautiful places to visit when you go to Belgium or Holland, each described in more detail below:

    • Rivierenhof Park – Belgium
    • Arboretum Kalmthout – Belgium
    • Hoogstraten – Belgium
    • Royal Serres – Belgium
    • Hallerforest – Belgium
    • Keukenhof in Lisse – Holland

    Magnolia blossom at Rivierenhof Park – Deurne (Belgium)

    Rivierenhof Park in Antwerp is a beautiful extended park with a digital Magnolia route to explore the magnificent Magnolia trees in the park. Even though a lot of these trees are still young here (and thus relatively small), there are some larger trees spread around the park with big gorgeous blooms. I even found one with a low-hanging branch to sit on!

    If you want to practice some camera skills in order to capture your adventure and tell your story, this is the perfect spot! You will find other blossoms and flowers as well here, like cherry blossoms and daffodils. So this park is definitely a must-visit if you want to experience spring in Belgium.

    Bloom period: mid-March – mid-April

    Blossom in Rivierenhof, Antwerp
    Rivierenhof, Antwerp

    Arboretum Kalmthout (Belgium)

    The garden of Arboretum Kalmthout is one of the most impressive gardens in the North of Belgium. The arboretum, as the name refers to, is a sum of different trees and plants that were all planted with a scientific purpose. Research is always ongoing in the park, and it results in a beautiful scenery of vegetation. During blossom season, you can find colorful flowers everywhere.

    Bloom period: April-May

    Easter Blossom Arboretum Kalmthout
    Easter Egg Hunt in Arboretum Kalmthout

    Blossom route in Hoogstraten (Belgium)

    Hoogstraten is a city in Belgium famous for its strawberries and beautiful hikes between the prairies. Most people don’t know that during the blossom time, they have beautiful routes to follow between the apple trees, blueberries fields, and pear and cherry flowers. This hike of 9km takes you through magnificent areas where you don’t find anything else but nature and quietness. It’s amazing! 

    Bloom period: Beginning of April through the first week of May

    Apple Blossom
    Apple Blossom in Hoogstraten, Belgium

    Royal Serres in Brussels (Belgium)

    Once a year, when the flowers and trees are blooming, the king and queen open the doors of their Royal Garden for visitors. You can walk through the ancient park used by all Belgian Kings and Queens. At the end of this route, you enter the Royal Serres with many tropical flowers and trees.

    Opens to the public: three weeks in April

    Royal Serres Belgium
    Royal Serres Belgium

    Hallerforest in Halle

    Once a year, some of the Belgian forests turn completely purple thanks to the purple hyacinths that bloom from mid-April till the first weeks of May. This, of course, depends on the weather. When the weather is warmer, the hyacinths bloom more. But, the sun also makes the leaves of the trees grow faster. This robs the flowers from the light. Without sunlight, the small flowers disappear.

    Bloom period: mid-April through the first weeks of May

    Hallerbos Belgium - best places in Belgium to find spring blossoms
    Hallerforest Belgium

    Keukenhof in Lisse

    The most beautiful flower park in the Netherlands is het Keukenhof in Lisse, the North of Holland. Here you will find a colorful show of all kinds of flowers. Each and every year, you will find different creations and art pieces made of flowers. The park is located in between the tulip fields of Lisse. During this time of the year, you will find tulip fields all over.

    Opens to the public: mid-March through mid-May

    Keukenhof Lisse
    Keukenhof Lisse, the Netherlands

    Flower fields and more

    These are just a couple of places to visit in Belgium and the Netherland, but we have many more during spring. Too much to see in one season! But it is so worth visiting these two countries during this colorful season. Check out the website of Kids del Mundo for more adventures in Europe!

    Solo mom adventure? Yes, you can!

    So, to all of you strong women that want to go on more adventures with your kids, don’t stop going outdoors with your kids just because you don’t have someone to adventure with! You can do it! Solo mom adventures are empowering and powerful! Your kids will love seeing you being brave and courageous. It’ll plant seeds for them to grow up as independent girls and boys, too!

    Just remember: Start with a plan on what to do, but don’t be afraid to let go of the idea of how to get there! Embrace the change and be flexible. You might just find an even better adventure! You can do hard things, mama! Let your inner child come out and play, sing and dance with the kids! They will love it, and you will too!

    Have you ever taking your kids on a solo mom adventure?

    About the author

    Tine is a natural-born adventurer from Belgium. She met her husband, soulmate, and the father of her two girls while working and living in the Dominican Republic. Nine years ago they moved back to Europe and are still exploring European grounds. Her happy place is wherever her kids are, but she spices up life by discovering unknown places, planning new adventures, and going outdoors as much as possible. Having kids added a big value to her life, because seeing life through the eyes of her little ones lifted it to a completely different dimension. Their family goal is to travel the world, living a location-independent lifestyle. The family is now working on a couple of projects to make this dream happen! In the meantime, they keep on exploring and Tine keeps on writing and inspiring other families to explore just like them. 

    You can find more from Tine online in the following locations:
    Instagram: @kidsdelmundo
    RWMC posts: Tine Voeten
    Website: http://www.kidsdelmundo.com

  • A Central Washington Road Trip with Kids

    Taking local road trips with kids is a great way to teach your children about the history and beauty of your home state. You don’t have to go far to find fun new campgrounds, forests, monuments, museums, diners, shops and hikes. Today, I’m really excited to share a post all about one family’s adventures on a Central Washington road trip and camping trip with kids. Evangeline Dittman – writer, photographer and Seattle mom of two – is here sharing the good, the bad, and the bizarre of her family’s most recent camping trip. Evangeline has the most amazing way with words -she’s the perfect mix of hilarious and humble – guaranteed to make you fall in love with her and their adventure. Ready to hit the road?!

    Central Washington State Road Trip & Camping with Kids

    Spring break tradition

    Our family has a tradition of traveling over spring break. We live in Seattle, where winters are gray and drizzly. By the time April rolls around, we’re starved for sunlight. Last year, instead of our usual trip to Somewhere Sunny, we decided to stay more local and spend our spring break camping. We had just bought a travel trailer and were feeling bold. That trip has gone down in our family’s annals as the “Mud Camping Trip.” I now have enough distance on the experience to be able to speak of it without breaking into hives, but I still choose not to dwell on it. This sums it up nicely: We ended up visiting a laundromat during that trip, and the laundromat owner said we were nuts to be camping in that area, at that time of year.

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    Central Washington road trip 

    Undaunted by our mud camping misadventure, we decided to camp over this year’s spring break as well. My husband plans most of our family adventures; for this trip, he plotted Central Washington road trip, which is sunnier in spring—and blessedly drier—than is the western half of the state. We started at a state park in Yakima (we’re big fans of state parks!). Then, we wended our way through wine country and hops fields to take up residence at a second state park, this one just south of Moses Lake. Along the way, we hiked a canyon, sampled wines, toured a nuclear reactor, visited a petrified forest, and—yes—played in mud. (Though this time the mud was contained and didn’t necessitate a side trip to the laundromat.)

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    Yakima

    We began our Central Washington road trip in Yakima, Washington. Did you know Yakima, Washington produces nearly 75% of all US hops? Me neither! Yakima’s hops production surpassed Germany’s a few years ago and hasn’t yet given up the lead. Evidently, that’s a big deal to hops connoisseurs. Me, I just think the hops fields are pretty and the beer is tasty.

    Yakima greeted us with lush hops fields and pruned vineyards. This put me in the perfect state of mind for family camping. Our campsite at Yakima Sportsman State Park was spacious and verdant, filled with friendly families and overly-friendly leaf bugs. (I had to escort out several dozen that just wouldn’t follow our social cues when we felt tired or needed privacy.)

    The kids spent most of their campsite time on their bikes, checking out the lily pond and playground. The trails were wide and flat, but something on them had it in for my son’s bike tires. Husband spent his evenings applying patches, and we eventually had to go into town for a new bike tube.

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    Hops & wine

    We hiked the Cowiche Canyon for our first outing. Offering a variety of short trails with little elevation gain, it’s a great hiking option with kids. We nevertheless chose to tackle the steeper, rockier Winery Trail because…wine. If you make it to the end of the trail, you’re rewarded with crisp rosé wines in air-conditioned tasting rooms.

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    Or so I assume. We didn’t make it to the end of the trail. My Seattle kids don’t tolerate unrelenting sunshine very well, and the sun was beating down on us that day. What’s more, the Winery Trail offers very little in the way of shade. It does, however, offer plenty of raptor and vulture sightings. The enthusiasm for those was almost enough to propel our kids onward up the hill, but not quite.

    It’s just as well. We chased marmots back down the trail, scooted over the more treacherous stretches on our bums, and lay on shaded boulders while we snacked. Added bonus: At the end of the trail, the kids played under a weeping willow’s canopy. My daughter insists it’s a whomping willow while my son prefers to call it a happy willow.

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    Finding the wineries

    Rest assured, we did eventually make it to some tasting rooms. The Bonair Winery features a pond with fish and ducks that the kids can feed while you sip wine. (The tasting-room hosts provide food for the critters!) The VanArnam Vineyards has a sweet old dog that will frolic with the kids while you sip wine. See? The kids can interact with nature while you sip wine: parenting done right.

    VanArnam Vineyards

    Toppenish

    Another day trip took us to Toppenish, a small city noted for their outdoor murals—over 70 of them—depicting various historical scenes from the region. What does 70+ outdoor murals plus two kids equal? Several hundred rounds of I Spy with My Little Eye.

    We hit the famed Miner’s Drive-In restaurant on our way back into Yakima. We were surprised (and a little frightened) to discover they serve burgers as big as your head. Honestly, just order one burger. Get your photo, then cut the burger in half and share it. Ugh, three weeks later and I’m still groaning from that burger. Their shakes are purportedly masterful, but we were too stuffed to try one.

    Miner’s Drive-In restaurant in Toppernish

    Yakama Nation Museum

    We visited the Yakama Nation Museum on our way out of town. The exhibits there are a bit choppy. I needed more background information to make sense of some of the stories presented. Then again, my attention was divided between the exhibits and my antsy kids, so it’s possible all the background one needs is there and I just missed it. Alas, museums and children are ancient and natural enemies. I had to do my part to keep them both safe from each other.

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    Hanford Site B Reactor

    Never let it be said that the Dittmans failed to explore a nearby national park. Turns out, the Hanford Site—home to the world’s first plutonium production reactor; source of the plutonium used in the first nuclear explosion (the Trinity test), as well as in the nuclear bomb that the US detonated over Nagasaki, Japan; and the most contaminated nuclear site in the United States—is now a national park. And we went there.

    We did our best to prep the kids for the tour. Husband covered the science of nuclear fission while I attempted to sketch out the history and prevailing fears that led to the Manhattan Project. Imagine doing this in four-minute chunks—the approximate attention span of our youngest—using vocabulary a kindergartener and third-grader could grasp. We mostly failed, of course, but it’s important that we tried, right?

    Funny aside: I went into the tour thinking it might be the inspiration for the kids’ upcoming science fair. Maybe my oldest could do a presentation on how nuclear reactors work? In hindsight, I’m laughing my butt off. The tour lasted two hours. Twenty minutes in I knew we wouldn’t be explaining nuclear fission to anyone anytime soon.

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    The truth about the reactor tour

    The tour is very science-heavy and disappointingly light in setting the historical context. It starts with a forty-five-minute bus ride (the kids’ favorite part of the tour—the bus was very plush), during which our tour guide, whom I dubbed Euphemism King, described the geography of the area and what made it suitable for hosting nuclear reactors. He sort of glossed over the fate of the people who were farming that land when the government moved in, just as he glossed over the environmental and social impacts of operating a nuclear reactor. Details about the weapons that Hanford’s plutonium enabled, and the millions of tons/billions of gallons of the resulting radioactive waste that is oh-so-leaky were similarly glossed over. All in all, it was a very glossy tour.

    Junior Rangers to the rescue

    BUT, they have a junior ranger program! Never let it be said the Dittmans failed to earn a junior ranger badge when within a five-mile radius of one. The requirements for this badge were tough. We had to chase down very persnickety details, but the kids nailed it. My favorite part of the ranger workbook was the fill-in-the-blank prompt: I saw my first _____________ at Hanford. Now, I don’t know how often you hang out in a nuclear reactor, but every square foot of it was pretty stinkin’ new to me. I could have filled in the blank with one hundred things that I was seeing for the first time. The kids, however, were most wowed by the typewriter.

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    Hanford Site gift shop

    There’s a funny little gift shop at the end of the tour. I don’t think it’s affiliated with the Hanford Site, though the owner does have official-looking memorabilia—Manhattan Project pins and patches, informational booklets and the like. She also offers a unique assortment of kitsch. The shop gives a kind of 1950s garage-sale vibe. My daughter fell in love with a frankly hideous porcelain keepsake for baby’s first haircut. As it was only three dollars and I had just finished praising her for her patience on the not-so-kid-friendly tour, I bought it for her. Maybe she’ll always remember the atomic bomb when she looks at it?

    We chatted a bit with the shop owner and learned that she is descended from the first wave of folks who were recruited to work at Hanford. She graduated Richland High School, whose mascot is the Bomber, usually depicted with a mushroom cloud. A survivor of the Nagasaki bombing who had visited Hanford just last year expressed shock at discovering the mushroom cloud proudly painted on the school’s hallway floor. The shop owner mentioned the visit and politely, but firmly, defended the mascot and logo as a critical emblem of the town’s history.

    A little too behind the scenes

    When we didn’t cringe or argue (mostly because I was preoccupied with convincing my son we didn’t need the black velvet Elvis painting), she offered to take us to the back of her shop. There, she had a nearly perfect replica of a bedroom from the Hanford Engineer Works Village. This was a 1943 federally sponsored planned community to house Hanford workers and families. I admit to some initial trepidation about following her back there. The shop and the conversation had put me at unease, and the room we stepped into was eerily Stepford Wives-ish. I felt like I was in that scene from Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull where Indy wanders into a fake Doom Town minutes before an atomic bomb test. Remember the much-maligned “nuke the fridge” scene? No? Don’t worry about it—just know that the bedroom creeped me out a little.

    Once we were safely back in the sunshine, though, I came to appreciate the museum-quality collection the shop owner is cultivating. It’s an important part of the Hanford Site story. If it were put to a vote, I’d tick the box in favor of integrating the shop owner’s eerie room into the overarching tour.

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    A Hanford Site recap

    Here’s the most important thing parents needs to know about visiting the Hanford Site: there are amazing wineries nearby. It’s imperative you make time for them. We visited Col Solare, which offers panoramic vistas, but not a lot of distractions for the kiddos (we read out to them from Harry Potter). Then we dropped by the Hedges estate where walked around the vineyard with glasses in hand, watched some of the workers wrangle chickens into a new coop, laughed at an ornery turkey who looked like he’d been in a few dozen bar fights, quit our jobs, pulled the kids out of school, and moved into a trailer on the estate.

    Okay, that last bit isn’t true, but Hedges is the kind of winery that dares you to chuck all your priorities and take up the oenological life.

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    Potholes State Park

    I was apprehensive about bringing our trailer to a park called Potholes. However, it turns out it got its name for the hundreds of tiny islands surrounded by “pothole” lakes that make up the nearby reservoir. And the park offers lush campsites with shorebirds, great horned owls, and long, even groves reminiscent of the manicured lawns Jane Austen’s characters are always walking about, plotting their marital strategies.

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    Exploring Potholes

    We spent our days at Potholes building mud dams along the lakeshore, weaving wreaths from fallen weeping willow twigs, disturbing the fish with our splashing, and—in the evenings—playing a lawn game of our own invention: a blend of soccer, tag, and Game of Thrones (in which we convince Little Sister she not only wants to give the ball back, but giving the ball back is her brilliant idea). Also, the campsites have enough strategically-placed trees to accommodate hammocks, so the kids were able to do their two-headed-burrito thing while Husband and I read and napped.

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    A couple of birders we met who were familiar with the park told us it gets very busy during the weekends. Sure enough, by Thursday we had quite a few new campsite neighbors. Happily, our nearest neighbors brought kids roughly my kids’ ages, and the four of them hit it off right away. They shared bikes, scooters, bubble wands, marshmallow sticks, and Minecraft stories. (Minecraft stories are interminable, amiright?)

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    Gingko Petrified Forest State Park

    Just when I’d given up on finding ideas for the kids’ upcoming science fair projects during our travels, we found a petrified forest! The final stop on our Central Washington road trip was Gingko Petrified Forest. This state park hosts a remarkably diverse collection of petrified wood species—we saw petrified spruce, elm, maple, and Douglas fir logs during our hike on the Tree of Stone Trail (which, by the way, is a very gusty and exposed trail; pack water and a sweater!).

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    We sought refuge from the wind at the Gingko Petrified Forest Museum where we discovered…wait for it…a junior ranger program! The requirements for this badge were fun to fulfill; we watched a short film describing how wood becomes petrified, and then we hunted for fossils hidden throughout the museum. I was especially taken with the display of small, polished bits of petrified wood. The natural markings on the wood, when polished, reveal painterly landscapes and ghostly portraits. (My daughter saw a Harry Potter Dementor in one.)

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    Petrified forest museum

    The museum is also home to ancient petroglyphs which were relocated to the site when rising waters created by the Wanapum Dam threatened to destroy them. My son remarked that whoever made these drawings probably led a happy life; they depict sunny scenes of families and wildlife and gave us a kind of contended feeling—a contentedness that did not diminish even when I saw the signs warning of rattlesnakes. As it happens, the rattlesnakes in this area attack only men—at least according to the sign—so I had no reason to fret.

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    The deck at the back of the museum provides a lunch spot with an expansive view of the Columbia River, and it’s relatively protected from the wind. If you can time your visit right, take advantage of the beautiful resting spot so you have the energy to check out the Gingko Gem Shop afterwards. It’s just down the road from the museum, and it looks tantalizing to kids. We skipped visiting the shop—we weren’t in the mood for a touristy jaunt just then—but if you need examples of petrified wood for a kid’s science fair project, this is evidently the place to go!

    (In the end, my third-grader chose rocketry and the kindergartner chose soap bubbles for their science fair projects.)

    About the author

    Evangeline is a family photographer and freelance copyeditor in Seattle, Washington. Thanks to her tirelessly adventurous husband, she and her two kidlets (and said adventurous husband) are always exploring the vast and varied wonders of the Pacific Northwest. From camping to cross-country skiing, Evangeline’s family embodies the Swedish maxim: “There’s no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothes.”

    Website: www.rosefinchphotography.com
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  • Ten Road Trip Safety Tips for Traveling with Kids

    We are led to believe road trips with kids are certain to be fraught with danger, frustration, endless whining, and so much stress. That can leave us with so much fear and trepidation that we may never strike out at all! However, road trips don’t have to be scary or intimidating. Car travel is a great way to get from point A to point B and provides amazing opportunities to see the country and spend time together. Today we have the amazing Nichole from Luckey Wanderers here to dispel a few myths about road trips with kids and share all the road trip safety tips she implements while on the road. Nichole is a self-proclaimed road trip renegade and frequently does multi-day/multi-state road trips solo with her two kids. Here’s how she keeps them safe when adventuring and how to practice responsible bravery. top ten safety tips for road trips

    Road trip safety tips

    Safety is our number 1 priority anytime I’m on the road or traveling with my children. The road trip safety tips I’m sharing today are not made up on a whim – they’re tried and tested. However, they cannot guarantee safety. I’ve developed a pattern that I go through on all of our road trips. A pattern that became a habit, hewn out of determination to keep me and my family safe. But also a determination to not let media or fear dictate the adventures my family and I would share.

    In our family, we practice “responsible bravery.” We take chances, we make mistakes, and we get messy. But not without doing our research first and looking at a situation from all angles. From the hotels where we stay to campgrounds we visit, from the coffee shops where we hang out to the off-the-main-avenue adventures we have – I am always researching and scoping out the scenario before we go. I choose to be brave, but responsibly and respectfully so. We go, but I know the situation as best I can and am aware of the risks before we ever hit the road. Below, I will walk you through my top ten road trip safety tips that I use to keep our family safe while choosing to be responsibly brave.road trip safety tips one and two

    Travel tip #1 – put down your phone

    Road trip safety tip number one is to put the phone down! Resist the urge to scroll as you roll. No matter how empty, wide, or flat the highway is. Do not do it. Use talk to text on your phone, utilize the built-in voice assistant on your phone or connect it to your car’s Bluetooth if you’re able. If I need to book a hotel or research a route while we’re on the road, I pull over. I’ll find an interstate on-ramp or find a park to pull into for a few minutes so that I can use my phone safely. Use it as a chance to take a quick stretch break. Road trip selfies are fun but keep those snapshots in your memory only and please resist the urge to take video while you are driving! The only exception to this is when someone else is driving. In that case, I can do all the research I need to and record ridiculous AC/DC and Bon Jovi karaoke videos safely.

    Travel tip #2 – check a map before GPS

    Tip number two is to check your map before your GPS! I am not ashamed to admit that I rely heavily on my phone’s map system (Google maps or the navigation in my car). But, before we roll out in the morning, I always check the map. Looking at a map gives me the big picture idea of where we are traveling and a good break spot for the day. If you know/suspect you may lose phone service due to traveling in rural areas or national forests, it is a good idea to download an offline copy of your map. Or (gasp!), buy an actual paper map of the area where you are headed. I don’t keep a road atlas in the car, but it’s a great idea. Learn how to read a map and teach your children how to read a map. It’s an important skill that I am afraid many people are forgetting how to do.

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    Travel tip #3 – pack snacks and activities

    Road trip safety tip number three is to pack all of your children’s snacks and activities at the beginning of your day. Or even the night before. Each child gets a medium sized, insulated snack bag, that is filled with the day’s snacks and a refillable water bottle. They know that once it is gone, that’s it for the day; this is also a really great lesson in self-control. Sometimes if it’s a very long day we will get treats along the way, but those are a bonus.

    I also put a plastic tote that is filled with things to keep the kids busy. Here are a few of our favorites:

    Again, this is easier with older children, but if you begin doing this with age-appropriate toys they learn to entertain themselves and to put the toys back in the tote after they are done.

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    Travel tip #4 – keep water bottles full

    That brings us to tip number four: always keep your water bottles full! My children are somehow always dying of thirst whenever we are in the car. I make sure to refill water bottles in the morning and keep them full throughout the day. The same is true for me. However, I usually don’t drink enough water and instead drink too much coffee. Make sure you and all of your travelers are drinking water! Otherwise, you may end up having headaches and fatigue in the afternoon when you still have many hours to drive. Drinking plenty of water is key to staying focused on the road.

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    Travel tip #5 – bathroom safety

    Tip number five comes from something that my Mom always taught me while we were growing up. If you need to stop at the bathroom, look for gas stations or truck stops that you can see from the interstate and are well lit. That won’t guarantee a clean bathroom but it will make you feel safer and be easier to make the stop a brief one.

    Confession: I am not opposed to side-of-the-road bathroom breaks. When my son was little it was so much easier (and cleaner!) to pull over on a quiet on-ramp and let him go to the bathroom out the side of my old van. It was a little harder for my daughter but I still cringe every time she sits on a dirty gas station toilet seat. Sometimes we still opt for a side of the road bathroom stop in remote areas. It’s cleaner and faster, but again, do so responsibly and respectfully.

    Part two of this road trip safety tip is to take your children into the stall with you. When my husband is traveling with us, we divide and conquer. However, if it’s just me and the kids, they both come into the stall with me. I do not care. I would rather have them in my sight and safe than waiting outside of the bathroom. If I let my son wait outside the stall, I make him stand where I can see his shoes. I’m sure I will have to amend my ways at some point, but for now, the system works for us.

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    Travel tip #6 – no broadcasting and be vague

    When we began traveling, my children loved to broadcast the fact that we were traveling alone. Obviously, this worried me. Over time (and with lots of practice and patience) I have trained them not to mention that we are traveling alone. They also know that if I say something like “Let’s get back to the car, Dad’s waiting,” that is their clue that I am feeling uncomfortable and it is time to go. The same rule applies to hotels/motels/places where we are checking in. I always say there are four of us staying in the room and ask for two room keys. It makes no price difference for our occupancy rate and it gives me peace of mind.

    I am by no means saying that a spouse or significant other is necessary to feel safe. However, I am saying that there are times where me sharing that I am not traveling alone is a prudent idea. I am quite confident in my skills as a solo traveler with my children and have never been in a situation where I felt otherwise. Be confident, bold, and forward when you need to be. And for me, training my children to not publicly claim that we are traveling alone is my way of being responsibly brave.

    One more item of note here. When asked directly where we are from, where we are headed, or where we have been, I am always purposely vague. This is also a good opportunity to train your children to not blurt out the city and state they are from when asked by a stranger. There have many, many, times my children or I have been asked these questions by well-meaning retirees. While I know their purpose is mainly out of curiosity and a desire to strike up a conversation, my knee jerk reaction is to be vague.

    Travel tip #7 – use the backpack system

    Tip number seven is one of my favorites! When I first began traveling with my children, I would stress out each night when we arrived at a hotel. There was so much to unload and I still had to check us in. That’s when I developed our backpack system. My children each have their own backpacks with nightly toiletries, swimsuits, pj’s, change of clothes, their electronics and charger, and a favorite stuffed animal. I have a backpack with my valuables, toiletries, swimsuit, pajamas, and the next days’ clothes; as well as my purse and camera bag.

    Having a few small bags allows us to make one trip into the hotel/motel/Airbnb with everything we need for the night. It makes me feel less vulnerable and we only have to park the car once. When my husband is with us we actually use the same system, but sometimes bring a bit more in since he is with us to help carry things. This has become easier as my children have grown. But, from the time my daughter was two she has been able to carry her backpack with her things into the hotel room.

    Travel tip #8 – hide your valuables

    Tip number eight is an important counterpart to the last tip. If you are not taking the valuables in with you, hide your valuables! However, if it’s something very valuable or extremely sentimental,  I highly recommend taking it inside with you.  Hide anything of value you leave behind in the car. A visible valuable might as well be a target on your car. This is true for any of our stops, whether overnight or just for lunch.

    We always hide everything, every stop. Usually, this means moving things to the back of the car or inside other suitcases or bags. We always hide cords as well, because those can catch a wandering eye and perhaps make your car a target. One bonus of traveling with children: a messy car is usually a deterrent. And my car is always a mess when we travel. But the mess that I leave visible is usually sticker books, spilled snacks, stuffed animals, and mysteriously single socks.

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    Travel tip #9 – walk around your car

    The next two road trip safety tips are two that you may not hear as often but are part of my normal routine. While there is some truth to insidious papers being placed on windshields, nails behind tires, and card skimmers, it is not as common as the media would lead you to believe. Tip number nine is to walk around your car before you leave, every time. If we have been parked for over an hour and the car was out of our sight, I always walk around the car quickly before we leave. I unlock it so my children can get in, but I do a quick sweep around the car.

    Here is what I look for: any door dings or damage to note, tire condition and what is around the tires if anything, flyers or pamphlets placed on the windshield, that the backup camera is free of debris and anything suspicious. While I do not believe all the scary news stories about abduction techniques are true, I do believe that diligently checking your vehicle is a wise way to spend a few minutes before you leave. This behavior pattern has become a habit and second nature for me now whenever we are loading up to leave.

    Travel tip #10 – ATM safety

    Along with tip number nine, road trip safety tip number ten relates to being aware of your surroundings. I’ve never had any issues with card skimmers. However, we have had to replace our credit card before after traveling due to fraudulent charges. This is a small note but worth doing: look directly at a card reader before you pump your gas or get money out of the ATM. Card skimmers are fairly easy to spot, so long as you are paying attention.

    On a similar note, be aware of anyone close by when withdrawing money or trying to get a look at your pin number. Those that would do you harm or attempt to steal from you are counting on you not paying attention. So, make the choice to be responsibly brave and be aware of your surroundings. These habits are easy to adopt, it simply takes small changes in your traveling routine. But these small changes can help steer you from a place of fear to a place of responsible self-reliance. There are usually plenty of ATMs around, so if one doesn’t feel safe, move on to another.

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    Road trip renegades

    Road trips are our favorite way to travel and explore and have become an important part of our family culture. Here is a post about how we got started and a little bit about our why we road trip.

    Here is a list of ideas for low tech road trip entertainment for kids of all ages.

    And here is a fun story about choosing yes to spontaneous adventure. By having a system for safety in place I have gained confidence which has given us more freedom to chase adventure when it calls to us.

    I hope that these road trip safety tips have inspired you to begin forming your own safety systems for travel.

    What do you do to stay safe on the road?
    Share your road trip safety tips with us below!

     

    Nichole is mama to two incredible adventurers, an older boy and a younger girl. They are on their third year of homeschooling. She has been married to her best friend for nearly twelve years and they share a mutual love for the outdoors. An Iowan native now living in the south, she is happy to claim Arkansas as home. She is a wanderlust (and coffee) fueled, fearless, road-tripper who has been known to take off for epic adventures at a moments notice. Hiking and camping (of the backpacking variety) and crystal digging are a few of their favorite family activities. You can find her in the woods somewhere, (probably up a creek and jumping off waterfalls) or online at http://www.luckeywanderers.com.