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  • FAMILY TRAVEL, INFORMATION, OUTDOOR ACTIVITIES, PARENTING

    Adventure Friends, May We Be Them and May We Know Them

    One of the best things about getting outside is being able to share the experience with friends. It could be purely for socialization, or to distract the kids with friends so they are more enthusiastic for challenging outdoorsy elements. Either way, having friends present can completely change the dynamic of an adventure. Sometimes, we are lucky, and adventure friends are found and made easily. Other times, our circumstances might make it harder to create these types of relationships. Today, self-confessed extrovert Jacqui Hazell of @tiny.adventures.often and Tasmanian mom of two, explores the importance of adventure friends, offers some tips on where to find them, and how to be one in return.

    Friends resting on mountain while hiking with a baby carrier backpack.

    What is an “adventure friend”?

    One of my firm beliefs is that we are shaped by those we choose to spend our time with. Our “village.” They’re not with us purely for emotional support and food drop-offs in hard times, but to inadvertently provide a magnetic pull towards life, towards new experiences and adventure.

    What’s more, a good adventure friend is there at the base of your wagon, yanking your wheels out of the rut you’ve been traveling on. Next, they send you careening down a wildflower-covered hill, and they are right there beside you, hollering all the way down! They are generally the ones texting you with their latest crazy idea and asking, are you keen? 

    Hiking friends resting on red rock coastline.

    Where it started 

    As a new mother six years ago, I made a friend at a local playgroup who was an ex-hiking guide. We would organize to strap the babies to our chests and hike trails every week that had us puffing and red-faced. When we’d arrive at the destination and unstrap our babies, I’d marvel at what we’d achieved.

    Having a friend who invited me out each week to places I sometimes didn’t even know existed empowered me to get out of my physical comfort zone. It helped me to settle into a parenting rhythm that suited an outdoorsy spirit. Those adventures have inspired me through to the here and now.

    When you’re just getting started taking kids on adventures, it’s daunting. But, with every adventure, confidence is gained, and boundaries widen a little further. Adventures start small and build as you gain experience in your outings, confidence in your abilities, and curiosity in what else you can accomplish!

    Why spending time outside with friends is important

    Spending time outside in your area with friends can be an excellent way to foster a sense of connection and appreciation for your community. From exploring local parks and hiking trails to discovering hidden gems and natural wonders, spending time outside strengthens the bonds you have with each other, as well as makes you more appreciative of where you live. And living in a place that you love can have a significant impact on your mood, attitude, and overall mental health. When you feel connected to your surroundings and your community, it can provide a sense of security, belonging, and fulfillment. Furthermore, it can help to reduce stress levels and alleviate anxiety.

    Outdoor activities often involve physical movement, whether it’s hiking, biking, playing sports, or simply exploring nature. Engaging in these activities with friends adds an element of fun and motivation, making it more likely that we’ll participate in regular physical activity. Spending time outside promotes cardiovascular health, improves fitness levels, boosts energy, and reduces the risk of various health issues.

    Two friends hiking at the beach with toddlers in baby carrying backpacks.

    How can having adventure friends help get our kids outside?

    Having “adventure friends” can play a significant role in encouraging children (and their parents) to spend more time outdoors. Here are several ways in which adventure friends can help get kids outside:

    Peer power

    Kids are often more likely to listen to their friends rather than us as parents, often emulate their friends’ behaviors, and generally aren’t keen to miss out on any excitement being had by others. When their friends are enthusiastic about outdoor adventures, children are more likely to be motivated to join in and explore the outdoors as well. This positive peer pressure can be a handy tool while out on the trail. Positive peer influence can create a sense of excitement and encouragement for outdoor activities. The shared joy of being outside together can help foster a love of the outdoors.

    Four children hiking in the forest in summer.

    Getting out the door

    Have you heard of the doorstep mile? It’s a concept that means the first step out of the door is the longest step of any adventure. We might have miles of trails on our ‘to-do’ list, or new experiences we’ve wanted to try but haven’t quite been able to because taking that very first step is the hardest. Having friends that lure you outside with the promise of socialization and accountability while trying something new can shorten that doorstep mile considerably until it’s just a normal step, after all.

    Safety and supervision

    Sometimes it can feel scary or intimidating to try new adventures with your kids on your own. Adventure friends can provide an additional layer of safety and supervision when engaging in outdoor activities. With more people involved, other parents and kids can look out for each other, help in case of emergencies, and ensure a safer outdoor experience overall. Parents may also feel more comfortable allowing their children to explore the outdoors when they have responsible adventure friends accompanying them.

    Family hiking with kids, in front of great views over water.
    Photo credit: Kristen from @kristcx

    Expand your horizons by trying new things

    Adventure friends can introduce us and our kids to new outdoor activities and hobbies they might not have otherwise discovered. Each friend brings their own interests and experiences, broadening the range of outdoor adventures available to children. Trying new activities can be exciting and encourages kids to step out of their comfort zones. Having friends that are willing to brave all types of conditions and challenges can expose your kids to new experiences and inspire them to try something they’ve never tried before.

    Socialization, teamwork & support

    Spending time outdoors with adventure friends promotes socialization and teamwork skills. Kids learn to communicate, cooperate, and collaborate with others while navigating outdoor challenges or engaging in group activities. These skills are essential for building healthy relationships and fostering social development. Adventure friends also provide support and encouragement when outside on adventures, making outdoor activities more enjoyable and rewarding. Friends can motivate each other to push their limits, overcome obstacles, and try new things. This support system helps children build confidence, resilience, and a positive attitude toward outdoor exploration.

    Four kids hiking in forest sitting on a bench with great views over water.

    Tips on finding adventure friends

    Making new friends as a parent can be hard and intimidating. Add on top of that, trying to find other parents with shared interests and kids around the same age as yours. Location can also be a hurdle; maybe you’ve moved and have struggled to make friends in your new area. Alternatively, it could be that you don’t feel comfortable talking with strangers.

    Finding friends who are interested in outdoor adventures can also be an exciting process for families. Here are some tips to help you connect with like-minded individuals who can join you on outdoor adventures. Try some of these suggestions if you feel like you’ve struggled to find your crew.

    1. Participate in community events

    Finding and participating in community events that promote the outdoors can be a great way to meet like-minded people. Keep an eye out for community events that promote outdoor activities. Events such as de-trashing, conservation and land care, charity walks, festivals, fairs, and working bees. By attending such events, you increase your chances of meeting other families who enjoy outdoor adventures.

    Check if your child’s school or community center offers outdoor programs or summer camps focused on adventure activities. This can be a great way for your child to meet other kids with similar interests, and it can open doors for building relationships with other families who enjoy outdoor adventures.

    2. Use social media and online communities as a tool

    Many groups that focus on adventure enthusiasts and outdoor activities have groups online that are easy to join. These groups will often share information about upcoming activities and events related to their specific interest. Join relevant forums or Facebook groups in your area to connect with other families who share your passion for the outdoors. Once you find a person or two that’s interested, plan and coordinate adventures together.

    If imposter syndrome is stopping you from joining a group that centers around an activity you’re interested in but haven’t yet tried, you could try observing until you feel comfortable interacting.

    3. Organize your own events

    If you can’t find any local groups that you want to join, consider creating your own event and inviting people along. When I had my first baby, I was shocked that there were no baby-wearing hiking groups in the area. I created a page on Facebook where I could invite other parents to join, and then planned walks for our group. This was mostly through word of mouth and people sharing my page with people they thought might be interested. It gained traction quickly and was so much fun for me and my baby. 

    Friendship group hiking in fall forest, beautiful foliage adn earth colors.
    Photo credit: Kristen from @kristcx

    Ways to be an adventure friend yourself 

    It’s one thing to have friends that encourage us to live life fully and get us adventuring, but it’s extra fulfilling to be this friend in return. By being an adventure friend, you can inspire and support other families in their outdoor pursuits, helping them create lasting memories and a love for nature and adventure. Here are some things that might be helpful to keep in mind.

    Extend the invitation 

    Don’t shy away from reaching out to someone, even if they are only an acquaintance, and asking them to join you on an adventure. Invite other families to join you on your outdoor adventures. Whether it’s a hiking trip, a day at the beach, or a picnic in the park, including other families creates opportunities for shared experiences and fosters a sense of community. Take the initiative to organize group activities for families. Plan outings, such as group hikes, nature walks, or bike rides. Coordinate logistics, suggest meeting points, and create a sense of excitement around the event. This can take the pressure off other families to plan everything and make it easier for them to participate.

    Be specific

    It helps to be specific in the initial invitation to set them up for success and set their expectations. Include the activity that you are thinking of doing, some helpful info, and a few available times that you are free to do it that might work with their schedule. This goes for online groups as well. 

    For example, it’s more successful to say something like: “Hello! I’m planning a hike in the Roan Mountain Highlands with my kids soon. The hike I’m looking at is a 1-mile loop, perfect for little kids and taking our time. We’re free on Tuesday mornings (9-1) and Thursday afternoons (11-3) if anyone is interested in joining us. My kids’ ages are 3 and 6. I’d be happy to send you a list of a few items to bring if that helps. Let me know if you have any questions!”

    That’s much better than: “Is anyone interested in going on a hike soon?”

    Three hiking women standing at the top of a mountain in front of a sign that says 'trail crest'.
    Photo credit: Michelle from @wonderclubexplorers

    Be responsible and helpful

    If you have outdoor gear or equipment that other families may need, offer to lend or share them. This can be especially helpful for families who are new to outdoor activities and may not have all the necessary gear. Sharing resources can make outdoor adventures more affordable and accessible for everyone. Handy things while out adventuring might include letting your buddies know that you’re carrying a first aid kit or that you’ve got a picnic blanket big enough to share.

    Share your knowledge

    Offer your expertise and share your experiences with outdoor activities. Be the person that provides recommendations for family-friendly hiking trails, camping spots, or fun outdoor destinations. Share tips on gear, safety, and planning to help make their adventures smoother. If you have the knowledge and experience to help others, be sure to do it! 

    Photo credit: @sara_mccarty

    Emphasize inclusivity and adaptability

    Be mindful of the needs and abilities of the families you’re supporting. Ensure that activities are inclusive and adaptable to accommodate different skill levels, ages, and preferences. Consider activities that can be enjoyed by everyone and make adjustments as needed to ensure everyone feels included and comfortable.

    Be supportive

    With adventures come challenges; that’s why we love them! Be a source of support and encouragement for other families as they embark on outdoor adventures. Offer words of encouragement, provide reassurance, and help build their confidence. Share stories of your own challenges and how you overcame them to inspire and motivate them. Be conscious and respectful of the physical limits of your adventure buddies. Stick together, and if the need arises to turn around halfway, then let them know that’s ok and you’ve still had a fun adventure!

    Document the fun

    Be the friend that snaps candid moments of your adventure buddy and their kids. I usually take lots of photos of my kids enjoying the outdoors, but I have hardly any of the kids, and I adventuring altogether. Being able to send a few photos to your friend of her adventures with her little ones when the day is done can help them visualize their accomplishments and encourage them to be proud of what they’ve achieved. A photo like that might mean the world to her (I know it would to me). They also then have something extra to share on social media (if that’s their jam) to mark the occasion.

    A group of adventure friends standing next to a river in a forest.
    Photo credit: Meghan from @meghangarriott

    Having adventure buddies from afar 

    Sometimes, there’s nothing quite like the trusty friends we have already made along the journey of life. But, oftentimes, those friends might scatter near and far as time goes by. If you have friends like this that don’t live nearby, consider trying these ideas to inspire each other from afar.

    Set common goals

    Establish mutual challenges or goals that you and your friend can work towards together, even from afar. For example, you could set a goal to hike a certain number of trails each month or year. Keep in touch about your progress and check in with your friends on theirs. Make time to tell the stories that go along with the adventures and it’ll feel like you were there! 

    Stay connected

    Keeping up regular contact makes it easier to help inspire each other. Share photos and videos of adventures you’ve had, or consider video calling from a campsite or trail if there is enough reception to share the joy. Highlight the fun and positive aspects of being in nature and engaging in outdoor activities. Seeing your enthusiasm and experiences can inspire them to seek similar adventures. Schedule video calls or virtual hangouts with your friends and their kids. During these sessions, discuss outdoor activities, share ideas, and plan future adventures together. This can help maintain a connection and keep the conversation focused on outdoor pursuits.

    Share ideas

    You can send each other articles, events, online challenges, books, or documentaries related to your shared interests. Discuss your thoughts on what’s shared and what new ideas for the future might form during the discussion. If you know the area where your friends live (or follow other social media accounts in that area), share recommendations for local outdoor spots, parks, or trails that are suitable for families. Send them articles, blog posts, or resources about the benefits of outdoor play and the importance of nature for children’s development. Provide information about local outdoor programs, nature centers, or family-oriented events that they might find interesting.

    Four friends wearing snow gear taking selfie in the sunny snow fields.
    Photo credit: Kristen from @kristcx

    In honor of our adventure friends

    Here’s to our free-spirited adventure friends. May we keep embracing the wild and keep challenging each other. You are the ones who have laughed with us at suddenly being caught in hail. The ones that delight in our toddlers getting covered in mud, while wondering if we’ve remembered a change of clothes this time. You’ve known which plants we can forage and the hiding places of wild creatures. You’ve taken us along on adventures that felt challenging alone, but not only conquerable yet enjoyable with you.

    With you, we’ve gotten outdoors, and life has been interesting and empowering.

    But most importantly, you’ve filled the lives of our children with natural beauty and wonder. Thank you.

    Families pulling kids on snow sleds along a winter forest scene.
    Photo credit: Emily from @inclusivelibrary

    Who are your adventure friends?
    Where/how did you meet them?
    What’s your next adventure?

    About the author

    Jacqui and her two intrepid kids call that little island on the bottom of Australia home. Most people know it as Tasmania, but in the indigenous language of palawa kani, it is known as lutriwita, and it is a stunning place to live and explore. In a way, Jacqui lets the local landscapes be her co-parent, having realized early on in her parenting journey that the kids are happiest when they’re outside. Jacqui has a background in natural health, but these days she’s hung up that hat to parent full-time while the kids are still young. You can usually find them at a beach, rock-hopping, hiking, camping, jumping into rivers, or sipping chai teas while the sun rises. Among friends, Jacqui is known for never going anywhere without a Jetboil, telling long stories, having her head in a book, and whisking the kids away on ambitious adventures.

    You can find more from Jacqui online in the following locations:
    Instagram: @tiny.adventures.often
    RWMC posts: Jacqui Hazell

  • FALL, INFORMATION, OUTDOOR ACTIVITIES, SPRING, SUMMER, WINTER

    Tips for Spending More Time Outside with Your Kids in the New Year

    The new year means a fresh new start and is the perfect time to reconsider your priorities. We hope this year you’ll choose to be more intentional with how much time you spend outside with your kids. Kids today need outdoor time (away from screens) now more than ever. If you want a sure-fire way to raise happier, healthier kids, spending more time outside is your answer! Today, Las Vegas photographer and mom of four, Megan Havelaar is here with new year’s resolutions that will get you and your kids outdoors more and is sharing some tips for spending more time outside with your kids in the new year. 

    New Year's Resolutions to Get You Outside & Tips for Spending More Time Outside with Your Kids This Year

    Welcome to a new year

    You did it, parents! You made it through another year.

    I’m sure we can all agree that 2021 proved to be another difficult one, but I’m here to applaud you and say, “great job!” There’s something so wonderful about starting a new year and the fresh start it brings. It gives us all an opportunity to look back on the past and take inventory of our lives. It also gives us a great excuse to make changes and set some goals and intentions that will better ourselves and our families.

    Spend more time outside this year

    Most parents usually set a goal to simply spend more time with their kids and family. If that’s the case, we implore you to take some of that time outside! I can speak on behalf of all of us here at RWMC and say that making it a priority to get outside with our loved ones has been a game-changer!

    Spending time outside, engaged with each other, and off screens is a great way to better our emotional and physical selves. Getting outside makes you healthier and happier (and who doesn’t want that?). But we also know that getting outside with kids is easier said than done. So, I’m here to give you some tips on how to set some realistic and practical goals to start spending more time outside with your kids. Are you ready to get started? 

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    Be intentional with your actions

    When it comes down to it, the thing that is going to get you and your family outside and spending more time with each other is to be intentional. Intentionality is where it all starts, and it starts with us, the parents.

    Being intentional about your choices of what you do is something that takes a lot of practice and willpower. This is definitely something I haven’t mastered and I think we will always have to work on it, but when we are intentional about certain things we can see the good that comes from it. If we want our children to learn to put their phones downs, turn their iPads off, shut down their laptops, then they need us to do it first. When we model balance to our kids they will see it and learn from our examples, maybe not right away, but they are watching and looking to us to teach them.

    If we are intentional about getting off our screens, our kids will see that. If we are intentional about making getting outside a priority, our kids will see that. Spending time with our kids away from technology is a gift and a treasure. In a world where so much is competing with our time, it seems like now more than ever we need to show our children they matter to us more than our screens.

    Children still need a childhood with dirt, mud, puddles, trees, sticks, and tadpoles.”  – Brooke Hampton

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    Practical tips for spending more time outside with your kids

    Now I want to share some practical tips that are easy to implement and have worked for my family and others I know. Taking little steps at a time, making small changes here and there really go a long way! Over time, each of these little things add up to big things and before you know it, you’ve become an outdoor family! 

    Set yourself up for success

    I think one of the best things you can do when you start any new routine or make a lifestyle change is to start small. Big change doesn’t come right away and usually leads to overwhelm and giving up. If you start with small and make spending time outside attainable and achievable, you’ll set yourself up for success and grow to love that quick wins.

    Instead of focusing on all the big things you’d like to do outside with your family (eventually), focus on what you CAN do easily and realistically right now. Start with one day (and not even the whole day). Set aside an afternoon once a week where you do something outside. Start small and local by heading someplace that’s easy to get to and doesn’t require a lot of planning or prep work. Local parks are great for these outings. Our family has a few favorite local parks that we have on rotation. I will usually let the kids decide which park we go to that day, and if there’s a stalemate then we try and come up with a solution to go to the other park next time. 

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    Incorporate their interests into your outings

    Another tip for spending more time outside with your kids is to make sure to incorporate the things that they like to do in your outings and adventures. Before heading out, think about what you and your kids enjoy doing when you’re outside? When my family and I head to a local park I let each of my kids bring something they want to do like a basketball or soccer ball. If your kids enjoy riding bikes or scooters, turn your outing into a weekly bike ride, instead, or pack up the bikes and head to the park. 

    I think it’s important to let kids have a choice in what they want to do. If you have a child that has a hard time getting off screens or off a video game letting them choose what you do outside is going to help motivate them! Also, be prepared to join them in whichever activity they plan on doing! One of the biggest draws for kids spending time outside is that their parents are there spending that time with them. 

    New Year's Resolutions to Get You Outside

    Don’t let the weather ruin your plans

    Unless the weather in your area is really extreme (and dangerous), don’t let less-than-ideal weather keep you from getting outside and playing. There are amazing things that happen in all kinds of different weather. The great thing about playing outside during “bad weather” is that you’re teaching/showing your children that they don’t have to wait for a warm sunny day to get outside and play. You’re teaching them resilience and grit. You’re showing them that there’s beauty and joy in all seasons. These are lifelong lessons that will help them get outside year-round. 

    Since it’s January, if you need some ideas for fun things to do during the winter and fun winter activities, check out a few of the posts below for inspiration! Winter can be such a magical time of year where we can still enjoy making memories outside. 

    How to get outside with kids

    Every child needs nature. Not just the ones whose parents appreciate nature. Not only those of a certain economic class or culture or set of abilities. Every child.”   -Richard Louv

    Invite friends to join you

    If your kids are anything like mine, then they are probably much more willing to go out and do something if they know their friends will be there! Another great tip for spending more time outside with your kids is to invite other kids (and families) to join you! 

    Maybe once a month you plan an outdoor play date with another family (or multiple families). Ask some of your mom friends and find out if they would be up for a group hike, a lake/beach day, or to go sledding. For the most part, you don’t even have to have an activity planned. When kids get together outside, they naturally find things to do and games to play. The creativity really starts to shine! Plus, this will give the parents a chance to catch up with friends while the kids play! (and we could all use some extra friend time right now)

    How to find outdoorsy families in your area 

    If you don’t have a lot of mom-friends in your area or know of other families that would be interested, never fear! Local parenting groups on social media can be good places to start. Or, you could join a local Hike it Baby chapter and tag along on a group hike with other moms and kids. You can find other outdoorsy families by signing the kids up for a nature class at your local conservation area, botanical garden, or science center. Or look into Tinkergarten or a similar outdoor class for kids.

    When I first moved to Las Vegas a new friend told me about a hiking homeschool Facebook group she was a part of and invited my family on one of their hikes. I have to say that was one of the best things I did during my first year in a new place. We got to know other local families, visit some amazing local spots, and find community in other like-minded people! Some of the places we visited ended up being family favorites that we still visit often!

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    Go somewhere new!

    Sometimes we all need a break in our routine or a change of scenery. If your outdoor adventures feel stale or boring, it’s time to shake things up a bit. And maybe it’s time for a bigger adventure. 

    Is there a place you’ve been wanting to check out but just haven’t yet? Perhaps a hiking trail, a different beach, or a newly built park on the other side of town? Find a free weekday afternoon or weekend when nothing is going on and put it on your calendar! Schedule it. Commit to it in advance and make it happen! 

    If you’re stuck when it comes to finding new inspiration or places to explore, simply Googling “best hiking trail” in your area can often show you some trails you haven’t explored yet.  Or open the AllTrails app and just pick one! Ask other moms what their favorite “off the beaten path” thing to do with their kids is. Start a list and add to it anytime you hear of a new place. Who knows, this new place could end up being a favorite place to adventure and make memories. 

    Your kids will remember the adventures you went on, not the stuff you bought them. Kids outgrow stuff they never outgrow adventures.”  -Unknown

    Practical Tips for Spending More Time Outside with Your Kids This Year

    We’re here to help

    I sincerely hope that these tips for spending more time outside with your kids help you and your family get closer to each other this year outside making magical memories. We here at RWMC truly believe that spending time outside with our families is life-giving! I want to encourage you to try and make it a priority as much as you are able and watch the good it will bring. 

    And if you ever need help with planning your outings, purchasing the right gear, motivating your kids, finding things to do, or remembering why outdoor time is so important, we’re here to help. Feel free to drop any questions or comments below or send us an email. Follow us on Instagram or Facebook for daily tips and inspiration. Sign up for our newsletter to get outdoor activities sent to your inbox weekly! Check out the hundreds of amazing blog posts we have on our website. Join our Facebook community or sign up for one of our free challenges! We’re honored you’re here and we hope this community gives you all the love and support you need!

    “Teaching children about the natural world should be seen as one of the most important events in their lives.”

    -Thomas Berry

    About the author

    Megan is a wife and a homeschooling mom of four. She is originally from Colorado, but has spent much of her life overseas. First in Eastern Europe, specifically, Hungary, where her first two kids were born. Secondly, in Ethiopia, where she and her husband adopted their second two kids. She and her family are now stateside, currently living in Las Vegas, Nevada. She loves traveling with her kids, either on planes, road trips, or just in their local area! Most of her family’s outdoor adventuring includes water of some kind like beaches, lakes, rivers, waterfalls, or pools. They especially love paddleboarding, hiking, rock climbing, camping, and even just going to the local park to play soccer or basketball. Megan also has a passion for photography and loves to bring along her camera to document all their adventures!

    Find more from Megan in the following locations:
    Instagram: @meghavelaarphoto
    RWMC posts: Megan Havelaar

  • FAVORITE GEAR, OUTDOOR ACTIVITIES, SPRING, SUMMER, WATER

    Outdoor Rainy Day Activities for Kids

    It’s raining, it’s pouring! So, now what? When it’s rainy outside, you have two options: stay inside and let your kiddos run amuck, or get outside and enjoy some outdoor rainy day activities for kids! In my opinion, this isn’t a hard one – let’s go and play in the rain! We know that most rainy day activity posts are usually about things you can do inside, but that’s not our style! There is so much fun to be had when you play outside with your kids. Today, SarahRuth Owens, Creative Team member and Georgia homeschooling mom of three is here sharing her family’s favorite outdoor rainy day activities for kids (and toddlers, too!), as well as the gear and supplies you might need to enjoy these days the most!

    Outdoor Rainy Day Activities for Kids

    Fun things to do on rainy days outside

    While playing outside in the rain might not sound like a blast for parents, it’s so much fun for kids! Rain makes everything feel more magical and can turn ordinary adventures into extraordinary ones! Today, I’m sharing some of our favorite screen-free rainy day activities for kids. All of these rainy day activities have been tried and tested by my crew of adventurers and are sure to get your kids excited about the rain. Because there’s no such thing as bad weather! 

    Best rainy day gear for kids

    When engaging in rainy day play, one might ask oneself: to be wet, or not to be wet? A lot of factors play into this. Things like…how much laundry is already sitting in piles on your couch. And whether or not there are currently any crayons melted to the inside of your dryer (just me, eh?).

    If you don’t care how wet they get, then just send them outside to play in whatever they want to wear. If the weather is warm and your kids aren’t sweet enough to melt, let them out to play in the puddles and engage in rainy day play outside, getting as wet as possible. 

    Doing outdoor rainy day activities with kids sounds good, but maybe you just don’t want soaking wet kids? If you are in the not-to-be-wet crowd, there is a great solution! Rain gear has come a long way in the past decade. It can be found in a variety of sizes, patterns, and even price points. We’ve got a huge comprehensive list of the best rain gear for kids and toddlers, if you’re in the need of new gear. 

    When it comes to great quality rain gear for kids, here are a few of our favorites:

    • Mk Nordika sells rainy day gear in a mid-point price range. It is high quality and includes adorable and cheerful rainbow stripes! They have sizes from toddler up to adult. We own this brand and it is so easy to care for. You simply wipe it down if it is muddy. 
    • Oaki also has a great full-body rain suit that easily slips over kids’ clothing. It is lightweight and you don’t have to keep up with multiple pieces. They have toddler-sized rain suits all the up through big kids. 

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    Safety concerns playing outside in the rain

    While outdoor rainy day activities are fun, here are some safety considerations to keep in mind:

    1. Never encourage children to play outdoors in a thunderstorm. Lightning is real and does strike. Teach children to come indoors and speak to an adult if they hear thunder and are unsure about safety.
    2. Be certain your children have on the right shoes for their location. If they are headed on a hike, the muddy trail is different than the puddles on the pavement. Choosing the correct gear for where your child will play in the rain is important.
    3. No swimming in storms, please. Remember when the lifeguard had everyone get out of the pool for half an hour when there was thunder? There is good reason for that as water is a conduit for electricity and lightning spreads over the water, impacting anyone in it.
    4. If you’re near running water (streams, creeks, rivers), keep a close eye on the water level, as streams can rise very quickly in rain. You never know if it may have rained much more higher upstream, so always keep a careful eye out and stay in shallow water, away from currents. 

    Be sure and keep safety in the forefront of your mind during outdoor rainy day activities! 

    You don’t need anything special to do outdoor rainy day activities with kids

    There, I said it. You don’t actually need anything special or planned or extravagant to enjoy rainy day play. You don’t need Pinterest perfect crafts or any special rain toys. The rain itself creates so many fun things outside. Rain makes everything ordinary feel different. It’s a full-body sensory experience that kids can’t get enough of!

    So, what do you really need for outdoor rainy day activities for kids? A smile is your best supply!

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    Go for a rainy day walk

    One of my boys’ favorite things to do on a rainy day is gear up, bring umbrellas, and walk to town. Would you believe that they can walk miles in the rain? Without complaining! They can, and I bet your crew can as well. This activity requires absolutely no planning or prepwork. It’s something we could do at any time, but the rain makes it extra special and novel.

    Things you can try if your kiddos do begin to get the rainy day blues on your walk:

    • Sing songs (Singing in the Rain is always a fun tune)
    • Jump in puddles
    • Have a contest to see who can save the most worms (this means put them back in the grass and off the sidewalk)
    • Collect nature items
    • Watch water go into a sewer drain (I promise this entertains children)
    • Cup your hands and see who can overflow their hands with rainwater
    • Play “I Spy” as you walk
    • Wave at passerby and vehicles

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    Outdoor rainy day activities for kids in the woods

    Are you ready to unlock expert outdoor parenting level? Go play in the woods….in the rain! Let’s do this. Honestly, rainy day play in the forest is absolutely magical. Some special things happen when you visit the wet forest and see the changes happening as the flora and fauna drink in the rain. There is so much to do while in the woods on a rainy day.

    I organized a forest playgroup for kids for years and rainy days in the woods were some of our favorites! Here are some of the best and favorite rainy day outdoor activities to do in the woods from our forest school excursions:

    • Build a shelter – bring tarps, some twine, etc. and challenge the kids to build a dry shelter
    • See if you can build a fire when it is wet outside
    • Go on a mushroom hunt (fungi love wet conditions)
    • Sketch the woods in the rain
    • Get in the creek – hey, you’re already wet, right? (be careful and cognizant of rising water)
    • Play rainy day hide and seek
    • Bring a ruler and a clear glass or cup and measure the rainfall during your time in the woods

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    Outdoor rainy day activities for kids that use supplies

    Ok, so you tried the rainy day activities without supplies (or maybe you didn’t…that’s ok, we won’t tell), but maybe you want to enjoy some structured organized fun like crafts and games. That’s great! I’ve got you covered!

    Here are some fun outdoor rainy day games, crafts, and activities for kids and what supplies you need:

    Rainy day bike ride

    Clearly, you need your bikes and helmets. My sons like to have bike gloves because in the rain, your hands tend to rub the handlebars more. Try sloshing through puddles! We also like to have a manual bike pump on one of our bikes, and don’t forget to bring water!

    Water-gun fight

    This one is so much fun during Summer showers. Each person gets a water gun and you can go to town. I suggest having buckets of water on hand, or even a large rubber maid tub filled with water for refills. 

    Water balloon fight

    Yep, let’s do this water thing all the way! About 100 balloons usually works for our crew of 5. We like to prefill and place them in the fridge in Summer. This means that humid, warm weather won’t be an issue! Swimsuits are smart gear to have on during this activity. Also, be certain to clean up any broken balloon bits; they don’t decompose. 

    Water table fun

    You can create a simple water table at a mud kitchen, or even just at a table, by providing your kiddos with scoops, spoons, a colander, shovels, bowls, and cups. Sometimes simple is best. 

    Bob for fruit

    This one is so much fun in the rain. I cannot explain it, it simply is! Add some apples, peaches, or whatever round fruit is in season, to a big bowl or rubber maid container filled with drinkable water. Now bob!

    Paint with mud

    All you need is some mud, a few paintbrushes and something to paint! This could be anything from a piece of paper or cardboard to your driveway. It doesn’t have to be fancy. If you want more ways to play with mud, check out this post with lots of fun and creative Mud Activities for Kids.

    Boat races

    Have your kids find natural materials (sticks, leaves, pinecones, etc.) and make a small boat. Then race them down the run-off water in the street or down a stream. This is a great way to also teach kids about engineering and what floats (and doesn’t).

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    What are your favorite outdoor rainy day activities?

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    About the author

    SarahRuth is a homeschooling mother of three boys. She was raised in cities across the East coast, but now resides in the Appalachian Mountains of Georgia where her husband grew up. Passionate about inspiring others to shift from the status quo of Western indoor life, she launched a local Free Forest School chapter in 2017. Her family clocked over 2k hours outdoors in 2019 and believes that outside time as a family is vital to a joy-filled life. She collects books, stray children, and as much coffee as her body will permit. When not foraging, chasing waterfalls, or camping with her crew, you can find SarahRuth crossing the globe from her laptop, teaching English full time online! She has two bachelor’s degrees in Education and is passionate about teaching children to love learning through outdoor adventures.

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  • BEACH, OUTDOOR ACTIVITIES, SUMMER, WATER

    Packing Tips for a Day at the Beach with Kids

    Spending a day at the beach with family is an incredibly fun and enjoyable outdoor activity. However, packing for a beach trip with kids is no easy feat. If you tend to get overwhelmed with how much one family needs for a day at the beach, this post is for you! Today, we have Annie Hamilton, Daytona photographer and mom of four, here sharing her beach packing tips and what you really need to bring to have an enjoyable day at the beach! We’ve even included a printable beach checklist for families with kids to make sure you’ve packed everything you need! 

    Day at the Beach Packing Tips

    Professional beach-goer

    It’s no secret, our family loves the beach! With all the trips we have taken, I would venture to say we are almost “beach pros.” Is that a job? I can’t think of a better way to spend the day with the family; our beach trips have led to so many great memories. I’m a firm believer that the more time you spend outside, the happier you are. However, sometimes just thinking about packing the kids up and heading to the beach is enough to give anyone anxiety. Beach trips require some planning and gear, but it doesn’t have to be stressful! Here are a few of our best packing tips and tricks for having a relaxing and stress-free beach day with your family!

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    Set the tone

    For me, the beach is like Disney – it’s the happiest place on earth! Remember, as the parent, you set the tone for your family on each adventure you undertake. If you’re stressed and cranky, the whole family will be. And there’s nothing worse than bad attitudes in the sweltering sun. So, good attitudes are paramount! If you’re relaxed and having fun, your kids will be, too. 

    Lighten your load

    We currently live only 14 minutes from the ocean, so our beach commute is much shorter than others. However, we didn’t always live so close to the beach. We used to have to drive much longer to get there. And with any family of 6, even packing for a short trip can be a ton of work. With so many people to think about and so much to pack, even short trips can feel like a big event. 

    Packing light will help with the stress-level and help you get out of the door quicker. This is especially true for a family of six, because no one ever wants to carry a million toys (dad usually turns into SuperDad; carrying it all). Our best advice is to only take the essentials (you might be surprised how little you really need) and load up the night before. This helps to make an easier trip out and avoids the initial bad attitudes and feelings of frustration and overwhelm. 

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    Avoid peak hours

    I’m a lover of light, as well as the ocean…so I usually plan our trips around the best times for lighting. This means you’ll hardly ever find us at the beach in the harsh sun in the middle of the day. Sunset is definitely our favorite time of day at the beach. We like to go a few hours before sunset to watch the kids play on their boogie boards into the evening while the sun goes down. This also means we avoid the crowds during the day and the hottest hours. 

    Best time of day to go to the beach with kids

    Don’t forget the sunscreen

    The most important essential for a good day at the beach is sunscreen. No matter the weather, it’s always important to protect your skin from the intense rays and burn. It’s a common misconception that you can’t get sunburned when it’s overcast or cloudy. In fact, on those days you can get more sunburnt because up to 80% of the sun’s UV radiation reaches us. If you’re swimming in the ocean, I highly recommend you use a reef-safe sunscreen that protects both your kids and the environment. We’ve got a great list of the best reef-safe sunscreens for kids. 

    Next, let’s talk about sunscreen application. I don’t know about you, but I can’t stand touching sunscreen! It usually leaves my hands feeling oily and gross. The sand sticks and it takes forever to get off. So, for a great beach hack, I like to bring along a makeup sponge and use that to apply the sunscreen to my kids. Sunscreen should be reapplied every 2 hours before or after swimming.

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    Other beach essentials

    Bring a beach towel for everyone and pack an extra. A bad setup could have your towels soaking up the surf!

    Pack plenty of water and snacks. If we are going to spend the whole day at the beach, I like to make sure the kids have enough water bottles to stay hydrated. I pack a small cooler with ice for water, fruits and sandwiches. I like to pack individual snacks or even Lunchables. Grapes are great because you can freeze them and put them on the ice. Avoid sugary drinks when in the heat because it dehydrates them. Waters (and possibly Gatorade) is the best choice. We freeze bottles of water and place them in the cooler to keep the rest of the food cold and drink them as they melt.

    Accidents happen, so pack a small First-Aid kit with bandages, Neosporin, and alcohol swabs. Baby wipes are also good to have handy, especially when sand or sunscreen gets in someone’s eyes or face. They make it much easier to help wipe it away. Here’s exactly what should be in your first aid kit for kids. 

    Oh! and don’t forget a big blanket for everyone to lay on. We never really fussed with the pop-up tents ourselves, but some people do like them for added sun protection if you’re on the beach during peak sun hours or have really small kids that need breaks from the sun.

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    Sand toys for the win

    Our kids are little fishies and spend the majority of their time in the water. They don’t need a lot of toys to keep them entertained or occupied. But when the sun starts going down, they always settle in the sand and start building sandcastles. Watching the sun go down as my kids make sandcastles will forever be my favorite memories. For us, sand/beach toys are essential. Luckily, they’re usually very inexpensive and light enough not to weigh us down when packing them.

    Make sure to pack a shovel and pale with a few sand castle shapers. Shapers are fun if you have them, but the kids can do a lot with just a shovel and pale…trust me. If you want to get serious about sandcastles, check out our post on expert sandcastle building tips. 

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    Boogie boards & beyond

    My kids enjoy boogie boarding. They can spend hours floating in the ocean or riding the waves on their boards. If your kids are 3 and up, adventurous, and love the water, then I highly recommend getting one. They will go out there and ride the waves for hours! You can pick them up at any store and beach towns usually carry them as well. Here’s a great post on everything you need to know to get started boogie boarding with kids. 

    Don’t forget a frisbee or a ball to toss around. A quick tip is to bring a mesh laundry bag to put the beach toys in. This helps to rinse them off, reducing the amount of sand that comes home.

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    What to wear to the beach?

    We always head to the beach already dressed in our swimsuits. We find it much easier to get dressed before leaving the house so we’re ready to go when we get there. For my boys, they wear bathing suit shorts with rash guards. My girls, if it’s mid-day or a long day at the beach, tend to wear long-sleeve rash guard-type swimsuit. Rashguards give skin extra protection from the sun, which also means less area you have to cover with sunscreen. Even with a rashguard, make sure to reapply the sunscreen every few hours. I have noticed over the years that while my kids are busy building in the sand, their backs, back of neck and the back of their legs tend to get the most sun.

    My kids would never keep a hat on but if your kids will it doesn’t hurt to bring one to protect from the sun. We used to spend money on swim shoes but after a while we learned they weren’t necessary unless you’re going to a beach with lots of rocks or sharp shells. 

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    Optional non-essential beach items

    Here are a few extra things I like to bring to the beach that help make the trip smoother.

    • Net – If your kids are into seashells, bring a net. You can find these cheap in the beach toy section at most stores or in the fishing section. My youngest is a novelist seashell collector. While everyone else is in the water, you can find her on the shore shifting through seashells. She has found some pretty amazing and beautiful shells….and even fish!
    • Vinyl bag – These are great to throw the wet bathing suits and towels into. They won’t get everything else in the car wet on the way home and keep the sand from getting everywhere.
    • Tunes – We love music, so we bring along a little Sony Bluetooth speaker.
    • Baby powder – Yes, baby powder works great to help you get all the sand off your skin. Once you’ve dried off, sprinkle it over your feet and legs. The sand just wipes right off and your skin is smooth. My kids absolutely love that trick!

    stress-free packing for a day at the beach

    Don’t forget a camera!

    If you’re like me and you like to capture the memories, I highly suggest a GoPro. They are exceptional at capturing photos mid-day in bright sunlight. They also have so many accessories that make them safe to shoot near sand and water. I personally love the dome because were pretty much always around water and it allows me to take photos over and under the water at the same time. Plus, the GoPro is so small and super easy to pack along with you!

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    Beach packing list for families with kids

    Beach day packing tips

    So, there you have it! Everything you need to pack for a successful and stress-free day at the beach with kids! Do you feel more prepared now? We certainly hope that after reading this you’ve picked a new tip or two! Now, get your packing list ready and head to the beach! Enjoy the sun and make those memories with your family!

    About the author

    Annie is a wife to a USMC veteran and mother of 4 adventurous kids (2 boys then 2 girls) based in Daytona, Florida. Her family’s love for traveling and adventure comes from moving around in the military and they believe home is where the heart is. Annie’s Ecuadorian and I’m fluent in Spanish. Her love for photography comes from growing up in the movie industry, on the set of shows like Miami Vice and Bad Boys 2. Now she enjoys capturing her children making memories, exploring, and adventuring as a family. As a South Florida native, she’s a beach connoisseur and you can usually find her family at the beach. Annie and her husband are big fans of creating joy and magic with their kids. The oldest son loves to breakdance, the middle son is getting into surfing, the middle daughter takes horseback riding lessons, and the youngest is in ballet. The oldest three also play baseball. Needless to say, there’s never a dull moment in this family!

    You can find more from Annie in the following locations:
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    Website: http://www.emeraldgracephotography.com